Why it is a good thing women cannot read men’s minds.
HER DIARY: Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong; he said, “Nothing.” I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it.
On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.' When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent.
Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise, he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep – I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
 HIS DIARY: My Harley wouldn't start today, but at least I got laid.
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Sunshine79

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Jul 19 @ 2:44PM
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Damn that's cold!
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Ewe_Wish

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Jul 19 @ 2:52PM
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Yea she would have killed him if she had read his mind............
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dumblonde


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Jul 19 @ 2:52PM
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but true....
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ThePurpleProphet

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Jul 19 @ 3:17PM
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If guys could read womens mind, we'd be wondering why so much drama.
And if we pushed that much for an answer there would be yelling and crying.
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themama

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Jul 19 @ 3:22PM
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But damn a Harley not running isn't good.. But hey he got layed......
Hmm and PP not with me...
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Wordsofwit

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Jul 19 @ 3:43PM
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If guys could read womens mind, we'd be wondering why so much drama. I have seen just enough of Oprah, Sally Jesse, Jerry Springer, and the View to know that I rarely want to read their minds until after they've finished their third drink.
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Pornosaurus

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Jul 19 @ 4:14PM
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lunanegra

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Jul 19 @ 4:16PM
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lol
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whisperingcomet

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Jul 19 @ 4:25PM
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Very funny, but makes me wonder....do guys really think this simplisticly? And I dont mean for this to sound disrespectful, I am only wondering?????
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Wordsofwit

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Jul 19 @ 5:02PM
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Very funny, but makes me wonder....do guys really think this simplisticly? And I dont mean for this to sound disrespectful, I am only wondering????? I don't think that they do, generally. But then again a significant number might. I think it is much more a matter communicative styles. Besides, after about three months into a relationship, we already know what the lady thinks, sometimes whether we wanted to or not.
I can only speak for myself, but I sure do appreciate talking with a woman who enjoys discussing something of interest to me.
My second to last roommate is a real sweetie and we are still good friends. But, OMG, she would love to talk about something of interest to her that i had no interest in and ramble on about fives times longer than was necessary even if I was interested. If i was curious, I was reluctant to ask because the answer would seem to drag on for five minutes. To make matters worse, often it was rerun conversation and little hints such as "Yes, I remember you telling me all about it." did no good at all.
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clickedanad2

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Jul 19 @ 6:50PM
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do guys really think this simplisticly pretty much we diagnose, repair or replace - stare blankly til the next "thing" breaks and relationships? you're in one or you aren't we don't analyze
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