ok here is my questions? are there any honest men left out there? (and if so where are they hiding) that are not wanting to play games with your heart and mind? that want an honest to goodness relationship? that want an honest..loving..hardworking..woman that will be their mate..friend..and lover? ok people..be honest and be gentle..this is my maiden voage into the blogs..
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Ashinatrix
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Jul 12 @ 11:54AM
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I think a lot of men are scared of the truth...It is way too difficult for them to deal with the truth for that involves dealing with feelings.....and most men just arent strong enough to deal with one or the other, much-less both.......
btw:.....if you put your comment settings on auto-approve you may get much more participation.......Welcome to the blogs!!!! 
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Laydiana
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Jul 12 @ 12:02PM
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thank you..I took your advice and put it on auto approve.. sorry if there are any mispellings .. thank you for your comment.. it is much appreciated..
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Wordsofwit
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Jul 12 @ 12:21PM
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Sounds like someone whining that has bad taste in men to me who is not reconciling their poor choices and personal actions.
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lunanegra
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Jul 12 @ 12:27PM
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why do so many men lie
Well,why do dogs lick themselves?
Because they can.Although dogs and men tend to share similar traits.
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Detach
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Jul 12 @ 12:33PM
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Now that's not fair as I've been lied to by so many women myself. 
But I believe men lie because women train us to lie. I believe women WANT drama in their lives, which is why they ask us questions like "does this make me look fat?". Any answer, the guy is screwed. 
In the past, when my girlfriends have asked if I ever cheated on them, if I say yes, I get slapped. If I say no, they argue that I have (even though I never cheated). 
When women quit craving the drama, I believe the men will quit the lying.
Now what will it take to get the WOMEN to stop THEIR lying? 
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xquseme
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Jul 12 @ 12:36PM
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I always thought that my (ex) wife was completely honest with me, all the
time. It was only many years later that I found out how easily and often she could, er,
bend the truth.
Maybe I'm showing my age, but there was a movie called "Breaking Away," around
1980 or so, where a young kid who idolized an Italian racing team learned that his
heroes were only human. He tells his father, "Everybody cheats. I just didn't know it."
His father, who was a used car salesman, mumbles back to him, "Well, now you know."
Just one of those things...
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soft_touch938
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Jul 12 @ 12:38PM
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Sounds like someone whining that has bad taste in men to me who is not reconciling their poor choices and personal actions.
What a rude and heartless comment....
JMHO
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lilmanintheboat
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Jul 12 @ 12:50PM
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As I grow up mentally and the years fly by I have come to the realization that there are good honest people and there are the one's who just never will be. All men don't lie, and all woman do not want drama. I have found that if I project myself honestly and don't put myself in situations that offer someone an easy line to me...as in don't ask what you really don't need to hear. I haven't been in the situation where I find more often then not I am lied to. Go looking and you will find. Keep yourself busy and you will be rewarded. 
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Detach
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Jul 12 @ 12:56PM
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You know, there might be some validity to my prior statement. After all, you don't hear of too many gay guys lying to their partners. 
My best friend is gay and he has a partner who only lies to him to cover up a drug addiction rather than to create drama.
Just an afterthought. 
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Tracker0523
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Jul 12 @ 1:39PM
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well, since i date older women i have learned that there are men of all ages even up in there 50's and 60's still playing games, lying and cheating.....since the age of the internet has come it is easier for men and women to play online and find someone to meet....i have to say that reason men lie is because they feel that the internet and the world is a great big ocean full of women and they just don't wanna settle down with one because they might miss out on someone else...the same could be said for a woman too....there are men out there and i'm one of them that is truely looking for a LTR ....they are just a lot harder to find....it's kinda like fishing for one particular kind of fish but, you keeping catching the one you really don't want....
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lilmanintheboat
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Jul 12 @ 2:18PM
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To all of you who want to know how to find a LTR or a good friend with benefits, or just a person you know you will always trust...a very good friend of mine sent this message to me because I was asking how and why did I end up alone...
"Dali Lama say....fish in the dirty pond, catch carp and
bullheads.......fish in clear stream....catch lovely rainbow trout. "
I love the friend that sent me this...now where is the clear stream I ask?!
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Ashinatrix
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Jul 12 @ 4:14PM
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Mmmmmmmm.........I love trout 
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Laydiana
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Jul 12 @ 6:25PM
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no..not whining.... but it is ok..he is entitled to His opinion.. since I did ask everyone to be honest...oh wait..he misread..I asked for an honest answer to my question.. *shrugs*.. can we add why can they not understand what they read to my list *lol*..
ok if ANYONE finds the clear stream..please let me know! and thank you Everyone!
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chris801
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Jul 12 @ 6:39PM
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I alway try to be honest,with alot of tact,but people arent use to the truth or they dont want to hear the truth,try to be forthcomminug with the feelings,and have been told that Im too soft ,not that I am I stick to my convictions,,but it seems that woman are attracted to the "bad boys"because the think that they can change them into us good guys
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Wordsofwit
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Jul 12 @ 7:03PM
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Let me try this again. I think the vast majority of people, of both genders, are quite honest. I guess they are hiding in plain sight. Most people I have known that had problems frequently with unscrupulous liars are the ones who make poor choices. It is like that refrain from that song of looking for love in all the wrong places.
I don't think it is merely a matter of people toying with affections as much as it is somebody becoming attached along with good sex and the other party later recognizes that the relationship lacks long term potential.
I know what you point was and I just don't buy into it. That also goes for guys who make a similar invalid generalization about women.
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Laydiana
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Jul 12 @ 7:30PM
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Wordsofwit is right, I guess I should have been a little more detailed in my post.. I apologize for that, I wanted answers to some questions and I should have worded it a little diffrent..for it is not intended to catogorize ALL Men..just one to a few .. thank you again everyone for your points of view..it helps alot..
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lilmanintheboat
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Jul 12 @ 7:37PM
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anyone with any common sense would know you didn't mean "ALL" men. If you accidentally generalized with out meaning to, it is just a slip and people shouldn't get so bent out of shape and take everything so literal.
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onehornytoad69
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Jul 13 @ 5:37AM
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Ya know I Agree with WoW, to a Point! I don't think it is merely a matter of people toying with affections as much as it is somebody becoming attached along with good sex and the other party later recognizes that the relationship lacks long term potential.
It Happens!
I could add more, but I choose not too! 
Welcome to Blog hell!!! 
Tossing You a kudo ...Just because!
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straightup_9
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Jul 13 @ 10:24AM
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Men lie....Women lie.......People lie.....in general.
There are lots of honest men and women out there, and I believe they outnumber the dishonest ones.
Finding a relationship is like buying a used car.....there are two ways to go about it.
You can actually look at all the ones for sale and keep narrowing down the choices based on your OWN criteria, until you get to the one that suits you best,
OR you can just jump in there and start buying cars until you get one you can "settle" for.
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Thenewguy2957
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Jul 13 @ 11:03AM
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I've found that it's during sex that women start 'bringing up' subjects and asking questions that I've already given them answers to and that if I won't stand by my 'during sex' response afterwards that I'm a 'liar' but if I object then I'm breaking the mood and the fantasy .
Naturally I feel manipulated.
So what's the answer to that, maybe do it back to them? "But you promised to have sex with 12 lesbians while I video tape it, you promised, you liar."
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ynot7769
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Jul 13 @ 12:56PM
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i think all in all there are those who are honest and upfront and those who lie and gender plays little IF ANY part in it.......jmho
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wellhunginwb
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Jul 14 @ 12:44AM
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Women don't want nice guys.
You want bad boys who treat you like crap.
Being nice is looked at as a weakness by most women.
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1bunny629
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Jul 14 @ 8:16AM
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Hey Wellhung...I like nice guys, ya just have to slap me with your cock every now and then and tell me to shut up...please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sam1958e
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Aug 27 @ 11:28PM
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my precious little darlin,,,dont know about some men,,cant talk for some men, but, some of us,,me,,have no need to lie, and dont plan on startin,,,,
sam escuerra
{email address removed}
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