I ask this because me and a close friend were having discussion last night.Earlier that day I had a little bit of "private time" but with not some of the usual fare,I watched a clip of a woman getting her boobs played with and I was crazy-aroused from that. Then when I felt I was going to climax,I switched to another clip of a woman vigorously bouncing her breasts in a tight blouse and I came...yet tapering off in a bit of guilt.
I asked my friend does it necessarily make me bisexual from getting turned on by that?Of course he had no straight answer(pun unintended) even though he has a tendency to be with guys and girls himself.Some help he was.
However,I get no arousal from watching girl jill themselves off.None.Yet I have a curiosity to see what its like(I'd like to think it tastes just like sushi,I suppose) and I've always tossed the idea around but suppressed it.My ex-Christian upbringing still resounds....some know how that can be.
I wouldn't mind trying to see what its like,but for a girl to say she was bi or bi-curious is like ringing a dinner bell for overly aggressive women,couples and insensitive men who figure they can just fuck the inclination out of you.
I don't know what to think at this point,but I'm not naive to fall in bed with anyone if I think about going forward with it.
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lynxkat
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Jul 1 @ 7:59PM
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Sometime in the deep, dark past, I heard/read that all folks have some bi-sexual tendencies. We tend to run anywhere from 'homophobic' at one end of the spectrum to 'totally gay' with most of us falling somewhere in-between.
Seeing a clip of a woman that gets you aroused really doesn't necessarily mean anything. It could be that you've got a past experience that the clip triggered, like "damn, I liked that too!" Or, at the other end, it could be a "damn I'd like to be with her." Only you can tell the difference there!
I think there's probably a short distance between 'a very good friend' and 'someone I'd like to be in a relationship with.' Since most of us have same-sex good friends, well, I guess it could get, er, sticky?
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beefygoblin
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Jul 1 @ 8:03PM
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Not sushi...well maybe a little bit like uni in texture...
I've noticed that larger women kinda smell like deep fried turkey down there... about as close on the food comparison as I'm going to go
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wtxman
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Jul 1 @ 8:08PM
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I think it's the "labeling" of our sexual desires,fantasys,and things that "turn us on" that is the problem. If you are an adult,and are doing no one any harm, just enjoy yourself. JMHO.
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 8:13PM
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Seeing a clip of a woman that gets you aroused really doesn't necessarily mean anything. It could be that you've got a past experience that the clip triggered, like "damn, I liked that too!" Or, at the other end, it could be a "damn I'd like to be with her." Only you can tell the difference there!
Well,at this point on the scale of 'liking something like that' and 'liking to be with her',I'm more curious about the latter.
I've noticed that larger women kinda smell like deep fried turkey down there... I don't know what that's supposed to insinuate.From my experience some men smell like gas station burritos or Frito-lays,care to expand on that?
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 8:15PM
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I think it's the "labeling" of our sexual desires,fantasys,and things that "turn us on" that is the problem
We are what we are and like what we like,but some need labels to distinguish one from another it seems.
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girlcountry
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Jul 1 @ 8:22PM
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Hi Luna!! Personally, I like being with a woman on an occasional basis. It's not something that I want on a full time basis. Does that make me bi? In some worlds, I suppose so. But I can live with that.
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lynxkat
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Jul 1 @ 8:22PM
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Hm . . . sounds like you may want to do some exploring. I've had an experience with one woman. The attraction felt, to me, much like what I feel with a guy - y'know, that immediate draw! While there are some things only the opposite sex can give you, a hand is a hand, a tongue is a tongue . . . . If you find some woman you're attracted to, you might just want to see where it goes. It might bring up some issues from how you were raised but, hey, who hasn't had to deal with that stuff over and over?
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wtxman
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Jul 1 @ 8:35PM
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Whats the big deal? I have been known to be with a women; they never seemed to want to make it a full time thing either 
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 8:46PM
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Personally, I like being with a woman on an occasional basis. It's not something that I want on a full time basis. Does that make me bi? In some worlds
Sounds like you're "hetroflexible".A straight person who doesn't mind being with a man or woman.
I've had an experience with one woman. The attraction felt, to me, much like what I feel with a guy - y'know, that immediate draw! While there are some things only the opposite sex can give you, a hand is a hand, a tongue is a tongue . . . . That's the point my friend made as well.
I have been known to be with a women; they never seemed to want to make it a full time thing either lol
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beefygoblin
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Jul 1 @ 9:07PM
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It sounds to me like those guy didn't wash theyre hands before playing with themsleves.
But serously, more turkey than fish.
Hey you wanted to know.
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 9:11PM
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But serously, more turkey than fish.
Hey you wanted to know.
Thank you for your insightful hard-hitting research,Kevin.And with that,how many women's legs have you had the pleasure of being in between?
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Sunshine79
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Jul 1 @ 9:18PM
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Deep fried turkey?? Ewww....
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 9:22PM
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Only good out of his comment is that I'm hungry now.  
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beefygoblin
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Jul 1 @ 9:41PM
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Recently, not many. But going a ways back...
Most have little or no taste at all though. Texture yes...
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1bunny629
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Jul 1 @ 9:47PM
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I saw a guy eat a deep fried turkey one time...and he grew 10 inches! Eat up Goofy...or whatever your name is. 
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 9:47PM
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Besides smelling like "deep-fried turkey" were they also golden,crispy and delicious in texture as well?
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 9:57PM
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I saw a guy eat a deep fried turkey one time...and he grew 10 inches!
That or fell asleep from the tryptophan 
...lol "Goofy"
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clickedanad2
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Jul 1 @ 10:42PM
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now I'm confused
it doesn't taste like chicken????
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 10:52PM
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now I'm confused
it doesn't taste like chicken????
I thought that was gator.
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StraddleMyNose
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Jul 1 @ 11:38PM
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I say that if you wanna try a woman, then go for it and get it out of your system!
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 11:46PM
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I say that if you wanna try a woman, then go for it and get it out of your system!
Its a virus now?
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StraddleMyNose
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Jul 1 @ 11:50PM
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How many of you wanna see Luna fuck another woman with her tongue? 
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lunanegra
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Jul 2 @ 12:01AM
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How many of you wanna see Luna fuck another woman with her tongue?
If this were someone prettier,I'm sure the blog would make it into 500+ comments
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StraddleMyNose
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Jul 2 @ 12:03AM
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If this were someone prettier,I'm sure the blog would make it into 500+ comments
Why sell yourself short?
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lunanegra
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Jul 2 @ 12:24AM
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Dude,over on your blog you wanted to call me a name a few moments ago,lol
But if you insist I'm selling myself short,ok...but its true to me.
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StraddleMyNose
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Jul 2 @ 12:27AM
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Dude,over on your blog you wanted to call me a name a few moments ago,lol
Nah, I was playfully teasing with you when I wrote that statement. I'm sure you were doing the same playful teasing with me as well with some of your statements, Luna. lol
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lunanegra
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Jul 2 @ 12:33AM
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No worries,its all good. 
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aftershox
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Jul 2 @ 2:31AM
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hetroflexible
oooh. New word. Nice word.
I never liked the terms Bi or Bicurious. My friend Pam is bi and I am not...lol. I can just describe myself as hetroflexible. That feels right.
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lunanegra
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Jul 2 @ 2:37AM
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I didn't coin the term,but its been in the LGBTQ lexicon for awhile;just thought it applies
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straightup_9
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Jul 2 @ 3:34AM
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Not so unusual, Luna.....If a guy can get aroused by seeing another guy get his cock played with, then why can't you get aroused watching a woman get her tits played with?....As to climaxing while watching another woman bouncing her boobs...It was probably the sexiness of the moment...not necessarily the actual boobs that did it...
Nothing wrong with experimenting....after all, how else did you learn what Sushi tasted like?.......
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lunanegra
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Jul 2 @ 4:07AM
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Nothing wrong with experimenting....after all, how else did you learn what Sushi tasted like?.......
Hearsay?
About that boob bouncing clip I mentioned,I was turned on from that from the get-go. 
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