What exactly makes a woman 'attractive'?
I suppose I'm full of inquiries that need to be answered lately.There are times where my brain has totally switched off,gone dormant and I can't wonder or ponder,then there are times where its bright and active.Think bees buzzing around a huge,colorful field of flowers in bloom.That's what it is.
Anyway,I wonder about what makes a woman attractive to men(or women)?Her shape,her smile,the way she struts,the flash of her eyes,the way her hair is made up? Or her enterprising spirit,the love she can emanate from a hug,the way she can command in conversation with her wit,intelligence and turn of phrase? What makes people take notice?What makes people respect her and men beg up like dogs sometimes?
I don't know...I ask because I need redeeming traits too.Whatever keeps me from feeling green with envy towards the women on this place.I guess I'm having an unattractive day today...feh,month...meh,year.I've been so inside myself lately that I think my femininity and fascinating traits have all but vanished.
So what do you think? Input is greatly appreciated and I will observe your answers and take note.I want to hear your own individual takes on it.
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Pornosaurus
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Jun 28 @ 4:11PM
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"Knowledge is power!" For what are you looking? 
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rnj1013
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Jun 28 @ 4:14PM
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different things make different women attractive to me so this would be almost impossible to answer
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ThePurpleProphet
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Jun 28 @ 4:38PM
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To me it's whats in the heart. kindness is always attractive.
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lunanegra
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Jun 28 @ 4:57PM
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"Knowledge is power!" For what are you looking?
Don't know anymore.
different things make different women attractive to me so this would be almost impossible to answer
There has to be something.
To me it's whats in the heart. kindness is always attractive.
lol,devoid of that...I wonder where do I stand?
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rnj1013
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Jun 28 @ 4:59PM
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well the one thing that every single woman has to have to make me find her attractive is honesty. Everything else is on a case by case basis
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lunanegra
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Jun 28 @ 5:04PM
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Honest to the point of being brash and uncouth....no good in my favor.
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rnj1013
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Jun 28 @ 5:06PM
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you dont have to be brash or uncouth to be honest.
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lunanegra
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Jun 28 @ 5:15PM
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Worked for others,seemed most liked that.Oh well.
I guess I'll never get my answer.I suppose one does have to be drop-dead gorgeous to turn a guy's head.Being on the net and in real life hasn't told me otherwise. 
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rnj1013
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Jun 28 @ 5:25PM
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drop dead gorgeous has nothing to do with it. A lot of the girls I used to fuck were "drop dead gorgeous" but all of the girls I actually dated wouldn't be considered as such (except 1) The reason I dated them and not just fucked them was because they had more to offer than just good looks. Looks without the rest of the package are useless
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zena343
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Jun 28 @ 5:27PM
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There is one specail, specail man that makes me feel like the most sexiest woman alive!! Even though I look at myself and say 'damn you've got to be kidding me' but hell he brings sexy out in me!! As he says it's the whole package.........and I guess I got it going on!! But I got to tell ya, he has it in spades, I've wrote about him in other blogs and let me tell you different spectrums don't matter!! To me he is beautiful inside and out, it's his whole package aswell. Hard to pinpoint a certain thing, he's just got it ALL!
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zena343
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Jun 28 @ 5:32PM
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I agree with rnj.......looks have nothing to do with it. What I find gorgeous..you may not. Like there is nothing, and I mean nothing beautiful here either, but to him I am. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that is so true Luna. It's ashame that you don't see your beauty. I'm sure there are others that do, but unfortunately you don't listen to them because you are so negative on yourself and you chose not to believe them. When you start to believe you will see a difference in YOU!! I hope you find it hon.
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lunanegra
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Jun 28 @ 5:47PM
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What I think is,I've become what I think.As in my inner negativity has manifest itself outwardly.This is why I keep asking "am I ugly or pretty" all the time.This is why I am jealous of women who do have the so-called "total package".This is why I seethe when men act all slap-happy on other women's blogs.I know it shouldn't be a big deal as its just the internet,but when you see that shit in real life...it gets to you.
I have my answer for me.No,I am not what men consider attractive because of how my personality really is.I have no inner beauty,so therefore no outer beauty.I am...for a lack of better word..hideous.
I need time to retreat and think.Thanks for the comments.
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wtxman
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Jun 28 @ 6:24PM
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I agree with zena 100%,
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Detach
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Jun 28 @ 8:35PM
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Well let's start by answering what DOESN'T make a woman attractive-
Long acrylic fingernails - gross.
Wearing huge sunglasses instead of putting the time in to apply makeup - lazy.
Tying a sweater around your waist to hid huge butt - not fooling anyone.
Foo foo dogs tucked in your purse - yikes!
Huge or expensive purses - perhaps you are only trying to impress other women?
Women driving expensive cars - Which rich man did she give oral to for that car?
Larger women in tight skimpy clothes - not flattering.
Short hair - maybe we can help each other find a chick to date.
Too much makeup - the Tammy Faye Mezner look died with her.
Toe rings - so is she married and just doesn't want others to know?
glitter - great, this stuff will never get out of my clothes.
Sharpie marker drawn in eyebrows - graduated clown school makeup academy?
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words printed on back of pants - is the objective to have the smallest word or the largest word capeable of fitting back there? 
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rnj1013
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Jun 29 @ 7:38AM
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“"Beauty is what gets your attention but the true value is in capturing the soul"”
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lunanegra
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Jun 29 @ 3:10PM
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Very profound words rnj,but watch when everyone makes goo-goo eyes at any random pretty thing on here and see what happens...
Anyway,don't know why I didn't the revolving door bit again.I should just stay but don't come around as much...yeah,that's a swell idea.Welp,back to AFF,least I get attention over there.
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lynxkat
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Jul 1 @ 7:26PM
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Hey, Luna! I have to say that your pic is outstanding! Looking at that face, I'm surprised at how 'down' you are on yourself. From my own experience, I have to say that men approach me most when I've quit pulling into myself and worrying about whether or not I'm attractive. IRL, I found that scanning a room, catching eye contact, and giving a nice smile was always a gas for the guy. It was like he lit up automatically. Who knows what can do it online? Just be yourself, babe, and quit worrying!
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beefygoblin
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Jul 1 @ 9:09PM
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Tits... also smell (pheromones have recently been proven to actualy have affect on human behavior...and if you smell good we are more likely to take a good whiff).
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lunanegra
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Jul 1 @ 9:19PM
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Thank you Lynx.
And Kevin,I already knew about the pheromones....thanks.
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