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posted 6/24/2008 3:28:32 PM |
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I'm slightly concerned, but I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or not. Help me out here with some opinions.

I met this guy online probably a year ago. We've talked on and off but nothing serious. It's always been understood that if we met it would be just sex, no relationship or anything like that. Lost my internet for a while and lost track of him. When I got the internet back, the first night I was on he messaged me. Things picked up where we left off and we finally decided to meet. I had him come to my house b/c my roommate was home and she had some company over as well, so for the most part I thought I was safe. He came over, sat on the porch with me for an hour or so then left. Most that happened that night was a kiss. Now I am/was interested in him as a fuck buddy the man is SEXY as all get out (no common sense WHAT so ever but hot lol). We've talked a little more here and there but haven't seen each other since that night. A few days after we met we were talking online, he told me that he was going to stop in my work and say hi that night but wasn't sure if it would have been OK or not. I didn't tell him I had been working that night, he had no way of knowing I was there. When I asked him how he knew, he told me he had been driving around and saw my car in the parking lot. Acceptable. Today, out of NO where he shows up at my house. Just shows up, no warning, no phone call nothing... just knocks on the door. He stayed for all of 5minutes and took off afterward. I'm a little concerned. Should I be? I feel like he's mildly stalking me... but then again I wonder if he realizes that what he's doing is kinda creepy... AHHH opinions?

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Jun 24 @ 3:34PM  
A little too creepy. I'd set some rules. Maybe have a talk and say, "Hey, I thought you didn't want anythingore then a FWB kind of relationship. But, you've been coming by alot and it's a little much for me" See where it goes from there.

Jun 24 @ 4:00PM  
no common sense WHAT so ever
He probably needs to be told the rules. He's just a fuck stud and nothing else, stay away unless we communicate and have a common understaing of what's happening.

Jun 24 @ 4:06PM  
I too, think you should have an understanding. I personally would never just show up at a lady's house like that. SunShine's absolutely correct. Time to find out where he's coming from. I think you have reason to be concerned. Usually, your gut feeling is pretty much right on target.

Jun 24 @ 4:19PM  
To be honest, I think all that is going on is confusion.....He wants to get the "Fuck-Buddy" thing going for real, and ain't got a clue as to how....Everyone is right...time to lay down some ground rules...and see what happens.....Enjoy...

Jun 24 @ 4:24PM  

First - mistake was letting him come to your place on the first meet.
ALWAYS meet in a public place with lots of people around until you
know a little about him and the kind of person he is.
Second - did you tell him where you worked, or what you Drive ?

After just one meeting and a kiss ? He should not want to be stopping
by your work. Or coming over unannounced. It sounds to me like he may
be driving by your place and maybe following you. Tell him that you found
someone else and do not want to see him again. But do it on line and not
in person. If he keeps trying ? He is stocking you.

Jun 24 @ 4:35PM  
I would deffinatly be concerned if he drives by to see that your at work and shows up with no warning such as a phone call then yeah id be a little concerned. If your gut tells u something follow it because usualy its right!

Jun 24 @ 5:21PM  
Ladie you do need to set some rules, on the off chance you decide you want something with this guy, wether it be fwb or something else. But it could easly be worse if you do decide to continue contact with him. This kind of behavior could lead to much worse.

Jun 24 @ 6:24PM  
I dont open my door to unexpected gentlemen callers...ever

Jun 24 @ 6:32PM  
I didn't want to be left out so I had to comment. I agree with everyone before me. Tell him you feel creeped out, and set the rules.

Jun 24 @ 6:36PM  
OMG...I just remember a time when an uninvited and unexpected gentleman showed up in my driveway...I was outside doing some lawn maintance...and hid behind a bush...and he found me.....

Jun 24 @ 6:36PM  
Some of Us guys don't think straight when we got Pussy on the Brain. If you want him jump his bones and screw him stupid or stupider .if you don't wanting him coming around then invite him over to meet your parents and tell him how much they really want grandchildren.and youll never hear from him again

Jun 24 @ 10:51PM  
Who am I to comment, but in a word, Flag!

Jun 24 @ 11:03PM  
I have and never will let someone I just met or even talked to for a while online know where I live...I would meet them in a public place just to be safe..And bring a friend with me...I am paranoid anyway of anyone..

Jun 25 @ 4:17AM  
A little Dynamite under the front porch. Bye Bye Mr. Creepy. Find a big handsome concrete finisher to redo the porch & wear his favorite tool out after he finishes the porch. Couple of sidewalks & horny housewives later he won't remember what state you live in

Disclaimer. The above post does not necessarily reflect the views of the poster. AMD or the fairly drunk concrete finisher who dictated it if she ever sobers up.

Jun 25 @ 10:04AM  
I'd be at least a little concerned - better to err on the side of caution, hon!!! I had a man see me walking from my car to my apartment and he stopped to ask me a question. Later - the next day? - I came home to find him at my door...waiting for me! Yes, it freaked me out! It turned out he was a friend of a friend of mine; when I related the story she told him to back off me and he did. Never saw him again.

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