Why is finding a mate so hard?
I know i'm not the only woman that feels that. There are beautiful women all over this site, and yet, they remain single.
Sure a few of us are down for the occasional random fuck, but mostly because we give in after while. Looking for Mr.Right is hard work and sometimes the kitty needs a little pettin'.
Most of us just want a decent guy with similar interests. You don't have to be a piece of Hollywood eye candy, just a real person, with real goals and wants.
So... in light that, here are a few random facts about me, i'm pretty low maintenace... like a lot of women.
I'm an art student seeking things out of the mainstream. I enjoy everything that is simple and minimalistic.
I have tasteful tattoos and body modification, nothing that would keep me needing to be a classy lady.
Bits of info:
I love reading philosophy and drinking wine.
sitting on the beach, regardles of weather.
watching my friends finally land a trick on their boards after trying for hours.
listening to the Bobs( dylan &marley) while lying in the grass.
comic books and xbox.
snuggling on the couch when it's raining.
going to a good metal show.
listening to classical really loud.
cleaning my house to motown greats.
floating down the river with friends.
making dinner with twelve friends because we're broke from the purchase of art supplies.
sitting on a porch while someone plays guitar.
stomping through the mud with my nieces and nephews( one of my favorites!)
watching a horror movie while lying in someones lap.
slow, gentle kisses.[B][U
does anyone else feel like their doing something completely wrong?
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ThePurpleProphet
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Jun 23 @ 3:39PM
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I'd love to be your new boyfriend, but you're just a little too young for me.
Keep thinking positive thoughts and it will work out just fine. I'm thinking the end of September you'll find someone you'll match up with. Think positive. Think positive...and remember to drink your milk and take your vitamins.
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shyone_4u699
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Jun 23 @ 3:58PM
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First, I have no idea why you're finding it so hard to find a mate. I'm also sure if you stay the course, you'll find yourself in the loving arms of some talented young man. Sooner or later, some industrious young fellow will figure out you're a woman of WORTH.    
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Ewe_Wish
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Jun 23 @ 4:17PM
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There are three kinds of men on this site there are the ones who are upfront and honest with what they want.......whether it is just sex or LTR
There are the ones who are just players and will tell you anything you want to hear to get into your pants and once they accomplish that they will forget who you are.
and than there are the ones who are on here just to play games......whether its to tell you they love you and lie about everything about themselves because they have no real intention of ever meeting you or just to build up there own egos....
Sadly there is a lot more of the last two than the first one.............good luck in finding a good one..........
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shepster101
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Jun 23 @ 4:21PM
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I agree with these two. I checked your profile and I can't think of any reason why it shouldn't take much longer before you find "the guy" your looking for. Sometime it takes a little patience (which I don't have either) and some lucky timing. BUT usually when it's your turn you won't even notice it's happened untile one day WHAM right between the eyes...."that is the person for me"
With someone as hot looking as you are at least you will be able to get the kitty petted and at the same time you can put the goofy lookin smile on some guys face when he gets lucky!
By the way....if it's true what most women say that men don't read the profile I would suggest mor tata pics  
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shyone_4u699
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Jun 23 @ 4:33PM
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Awww Ewe_Wish, don't be so hard on the poor fellows on the site. Most of us are just trying to get along. And, some ladies on here don't play the same games?? Of course, they do. We just have to be astute enough to tell the difference. I'm betting Decemberunrest will find that special someone when the time is right. 
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Ewe_Wish
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Jun 23 @ 4:38PM
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Ah shyone i wasnt being tooo hard on the men i said there were some that were upfront and honest............few and far between but some.............and no doubt about it there is the same three kinds of women on here too..........makes you kinda wonder how anyone ever gets together isnt it?
and I wished her luck on finding a good one..........I hope she does..........I hope all those that are real on here find what they are searching for.........but i am also realistic enough to know there is a better chance of the target store in BFE getting taken over by terrorists...........could happen............but im laying odds that it wont.
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decemberunrest
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Jun 23 @ 4:50PM
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hahahahahahaha! i'm going to agree with the Target comment!
it just seems like a waste of time. but like any girk....I hope
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Lisa46
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Jun 23 @ 4:54PM
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and the shitter is IF you find one you might wanna get to know that person lives in BFE 
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Ewe_Wish
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Jun 23 @ 4:58PM
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Sweetie.........I didnt say what I did to make you want to give up hope........it can happen it has happened here.........but realistically unless you personally meet them within a few weeks of meeting them online.......it probably isnt going to happen........and it really is just waiting and hoping that someone comes along and means what he/she says...........Your a beautiful young lady........I have no doubt someone will come along and grab you up in a heart beat.........just not sure that it will happen here...........and when it does happen i hope you write a blog called UP YOURS LOSERS.........YOU LOST out on a wonderful woman. 
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decemberunrest
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Jun 23 @ 5:05PM
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i'll just work on coming to terms with probably being the crazy cat lady that was always single.
I honestly think I scare men away because of who I am. and in the end it bites me in the ass.
I haven't been with anyone in almost a year! not even close.
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decemberunrest
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Jun 23 @ 5:14PM
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AMEN! the only ones that seem genuine and truly interested in yyou as the person and not he picture of your tit, live a thousands of mile away in some foreign counntry!
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Wordsofwit
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Jun 24 @ 2:27AM
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This is a nice site for becoming acquainted with people in cyber space, but it is too small of a site to hold much potential for actually meeting anybody living near by. A few people have met an SO on here, but the key word is "few".
and the shitter is IF you find one you might wanna get to know that person lives in BFE
Bingo. There really isn't any available women on this site that match my parameters within 200 miles of me that I want to meet.
Now I did have a nice long lunch with somebody from this site, but she resides almost 500 miles from me (I was passing through here town on my way to see family).
Besides, I have had plenty of people I dated living near by that didn't work out to be anything long term, so why should I expect it to be any different hundreds of miles away.
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beefygoblin
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Jun 26 @ 4:13AM
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I know this feeling...I literaly haven't had sex in several years (not going to say how many... yeah its that sad). I have finaly givin up on finding that one who accepts everything about me. I'll settle for a cute girl like you... and keep my fat mouth shut in regards to anything which might disturb her (like my views on religion).
I went so far as to attempt a soulmate in Ireland, but she dumped me to cam with some married douchebag (internet relationship...bad idea, especialy if its going to be more than a couple months before your in the same country).
I had givin up on this place and only come back to close out my account- when I discovered a email from a local girl...  .
Now lets just hope that she's ms right...or atleast willing to put out.What its been a couple years.
Would you settle for a "mr right now"? I don't believe I'm up to the mr right title challenge.
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