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HELP! I can't get off!

posted 6/13/2008 5:00:23 PM |
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So, I can't get off from just your average normal sex.I don't think there is a cure either! Not that I don't enjoy it. I enjoy it alot. Infact, I'll just lay there and completely enjoy it so much, that I won't cum. I mean, I could fuck for hours just enjoying the feeling but not cumming.
What does make me cum? Well....a combination of being talked dirty to and being either slapped, choked, spanked or having my hair pulled. As soon as someone does that....I have a serious orgasm. But, up until that point....I can't get off. Don't know why....Anyone else got issues??

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Jun 13 @ 5:04PM  
I don't have any issues, but I do have a few suggestions. Seems like you need a shakeup from your normal sexual pleasures. Try some fourplay such has humping and grinding on a stuffed animal. That may help.

Jun 13 @ 5:21PM  
I belong to a program that is "solution" oriented,not problem oriented. If you need a solution to your problem then just call me......................Damn I already tried that with you,sorry M

Jun 13 @ 5:23PM  
What does make me cum?

I can only cum one way and that's through masturbation. It's been so long since I've had sex and everyone knows oral can't get me off. (that could be a challenge) Masturbation is the only way. I have to softly play with my nipples with one hand and stroke myself with the other. Stroke myself faster and faster until oh oh uuuuhh.

Jun 13 @ 5:39PM  
try a small vibe on your clit

Jun 13 @ 5:59PM  
^^^^ that does not work 4 me

Jun 13 @ 6:40PM  
I got issues, my issues have problems even, but not like that.

I think we should explore this problem of yours more deeply.

Third generation Irish, I love your primary today.

I'm also almost as drunk as I should be too, but I'll be completely Irish in another 7 beers.

Jun 13 @ 7:49PM  
we don't have that problem.......tho i have grabbed her hair a time er two................or even three....

Jun 13 @ 10:01PM  
Actually your issues don't sound so strange to me. I find that if I think about cumming I generally can;t. Thinking is my enemy. I have to have someone distract my overactive brain..

If someone says "I want you to cum for me now." something inside me says "Hell no."

I think that is why I like the pain/pleasure mix in D/s . And why I like blindfolds and sensory deprivation and all the surprises that come with that.Surprises that often result in earth shattering orgasms that come out of nowhere.

Some mornings I wake up really horny, and instead of playing with myself and getting myself off, I find I just like feeling the tension, the pleasurable tingle inside as I lay there daydreaming, fantasizing , perhpas remembering a recent encounter. Sometimes I think that is actually more enjoyable than a ho-hum self-release.

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