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Do women hit a age where they dont want sex?

posted 6/10/2008 3:18:03 PM |
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I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and over the past 3 months she has lost total intrest in sex. I have tried everything (I mean everything) The romance and passion is gone...She said she's not intrested in anyone else just doesnt want it...HELP!! Is it something women go though? She has even told me to go get it somewhere else just as long as she doesnt know who...i dont want that and you can only spank off os much (lol) Any help would be great!

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Jun 10 @ 3:57PM  
Yes Luv ... however age has little to do with it ... it is about a woman's horomone levels. When the decrease and age yes can be a factor, the sex drive decreases. Thousands of studies have been done on this topic. You can set the mood and foreplay until your balls fall off ... won't make a difference to her. It is biology ... horomone levels. Estrogen to a woman is like testorone to a man ... and women do have levels of testorone ... some doctors even prescribe testorone to women to help improve their sex drives and horomone levels. If she is interested ... have her talk with her ob/gyn.

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Jun 10 @ 5:36PM  
I don't know her age......but it could be the onslaught of MENOPAUSE!!

Jun 10 @ 6:24PM  
Well, I'd say the "problem" is either physical or emotional. A trip to her OBGYN could help with any physical symptons.

Emotional...... that's a different can of worms. Every woman I've encountered who ever lost interest in sex....... meant she was no longer interested in me. That is a lot harder to fix......... IF it can be fixed at all. Takes a lot of conversations. Counseling can help........ if you want to expend that much energy. She may have already "given up" in her mind........ but is reluctant to leave the relationship because to MANY people, men and women, a bad relationship is still better than the unknown of being on your own.

You have some work ahead of you figuring out just what is going on with her.
Good luck.

Jun 10 @ 8:53PM  
Ohhhh but I have very strong feelings about this topic. So here goes and you might want her to read this.

Assuming the relationship has not been jeoparized for other reasons and unless there is a valid medical reason for your g/f no longer enjoying sex then she and subsequently you,have a serious problem.

It is completely unfair for a parnter to simply say they have stopped enjoying sex and leave the partner to their own devises. This tells me she has already left the relationship physically and emotionally will not be far behind.

Not knowing her age but given the possibility she could be pre-menapausal, is still no excuse for quitting the sexual enjoyment you receive in a relationship.

Many women do feel the effects of menapuase and simply no longer feel sexual This means they have to work harder at being sexual until it's 2nd. nature again. And ladies yes, sometimes it is difficult but you must continually work at it and make it just as important to your life as the rest of your activities.

Sexual intimacy is part of a healthy relationship. Granted the encounters may lesson with time but to banish them from a realtionship all together spells trouble.

To expect your partner to accept your decision to restrict or limit sexual intimacy truly tells me you no longer care about yourself, your partner and the strength of the relationship.

Humpppffff...guess I said enough.

Jun 11 @ 5:59AM  
I feel for you my friend,and agree with the previous posters,most of the time it comes down to hormone levels or doctors who don't have the nerve to admit they don't know whats causing it.

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