once a cheater always a cheater
or do you think they can change
im skeptical about a guy/girl being able to change
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wtxman
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Jun 3 @ 6:22PM
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I think that someone can change in almost any situation,but experienced has shown me that those that cheat once usually do it again, and again.
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BigFlirt
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Jun 3 @ 6:53PM
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Anyone can change, if they want to. I known people who cheated and got caught. Some changed, some didnt....
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1bunny629
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Jun 3 @ 6:55PM
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I think it is like an addiction. Once you start you can't stop. But it could be in some situations feeling you are a victim of circumstance...and you need...so you feed... 
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Lisa46
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Jun 3 @ 7:43PM
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Well I'll put it this way IF I was dating a married man and he promise to marry me. I'd say no but that is jsut me 
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GSpotGina
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Jun 3 @ 8:18PM
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There's all kinds of cheaters. Some are one time and can barely live with their guilt. The worst kind are whenever knows they are doing it, except the ones being cheated on. Those types will likely do it forever.
What really matters is how the person who's being cheated on feels about it. I never did, and I expect the same respect, so even one time may mean the end of a relationship for me. Though, I have to admit back in my 20's I forgave him each time. Yeah, I was stupid then!
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sugarnspice005
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Jun 3 @ 8:21PM
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I always feel a person can change if they want to. Guess it depends on how badly they want to.
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NightOfOld
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Jun 3 @ 10:42PM
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If they do it once, they'll do it again. Only try to hide it better.
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BananaBoy4u
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Jun 3 @ 10:55PM
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. Remember this, if someone leaves a pertner for you, sooner or later they will leave YOU for someone else.
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straightup_9
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Jun 4 @ 2:21AM
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That would depend on WHY they were cheating.....If it was because they just wanted something new and different, then yes it's true...But on the other hand, if They were cheating to fill a void in their life, then, yes, they could change.
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zena343
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Jun 4 @ 2:43AM
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I have to agree with once a cheater always a cheater. If they cheat on someone to be with you... then they would definitely cheat on you with someone else!
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casuallylooking
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Jun 4 @ 3:04AM
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I think it is all based on the individual...People can and some 'do' change..
No, I don't believe the phrase..
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StraddleMyNose
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Jun 4 @ 3:19AM
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I think it is all based on the individual...People can and some 'do' change..
No, I don't believe the phrase..
I can agree with this statement from Trease
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Irridum
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Jun 4 @ 7:43AM
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I have never personaly met anyone who cheated who didn't do it again so I have to agree.
Lead yourself not into temptation for thy zipper stays up and thy staff stays down near married women lest thy behind filleth with buckshot 
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nativeamr35
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Jun 4 @ 7:56AM
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I changed....but that fact of that matter is this.
Only I know and believe it...
I cheated every chance I got when I was married. 12 years of marriage.
Never cheated on my last GF of 8 years.
People cheat for one simple reason, they aren't getting what they want from whomever. Plan and simple. Some people just can't be satisfied.
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BananaBoy4u
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Jun 4 @ 8:14AM
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I think it is all based on the individual...People can and some 'do' change. Certainly there are exceptions but the odds are so high it's very unlikely. It's kinda like saying "anyone can be president", name anyone you know personally this has happened to. The world is full of dreamers and realists, which one would you bet on?
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mrknowuwell
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Jun 4 @ 4:59PM
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does this apply 2 yearly tax returns???? 
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kris83
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Jun 4 @ 6:42PM
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always exceptions but for the most part yes
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Roguealone
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Jun 4 @ 8:23PM
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once a cheater always a cheater
or do you think they can change
im skeptical about a guy/girl being able to change
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Change is always possible. IF a person desires it.
Sadly, the excitement usually takes precidence.
Ex #1 and I were swingers. We BOTH cheated. I got caught. It destroyed me. Our marraige lingered for 4 years and I divorced in shame.
Hooked up almost immediately with Ex #2. Durring our living together, engagement and marraige, she continued dating her 3 previous boyfriends (I worked a LOT - 2 jobs; and she went to school). The marraige lasted 11 months and it destroyed me more.
Moral of my story: I'll never marry again. I'll never cohabitate again. I'll never get very serious again. That's why even though I have dated for a while, I WON'T get serious.
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SxzeNewMe
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Jun 4 @ 9:26PM
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"Always" is a pretty long time. Very rarely is anything ever "always".
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