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  lildevilgirl19

do you that you should have to change for someone
else ?
or do you think that you should suck it up and change

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wtxman

Jun 2 @ 12:12PM  
If you change for anybody else besides yourself,it will not work,jmho.
themama

Jun 2 @ 12:17PM  
Nope I don't... If they don't like the way you are then they are not ment to be with you.. Stay true to yourself always...
sugarnspice005

Jun 2 @ 12:18PM  
why change who you are for someone else? If you're going to change..make sure it's for yourself. People come and go in our life...but...you're always going to be facing "you" in the mirror every day.
NightOfOld

Jun 2 @ 12:35PM  

It's who and what you are that attracted them in the first place. So why Change ?
If they can not accept you the way you are. They're not worth having.
max49

Jun 2 @ 12:35PM  
No sweetie don't ever change for someone else. Just like was said if the other person or people don't like you the way you are you don't need them.
BananaBoy4u

Jun 2 @ 12:41PM  
It depends. Is it a change that will make you a better person? How about more specifics, pretty hard to tell if we don't know what this person wants changed.
lildevilgirl19

Jun 2 @ 12:48PM  
the person wants me to lose weight
and be more i guess you would say sexual
because he said he's a friend with benfits until
we meet then it would be more
but i dont think that i would consider an online friendship one with benifits since we have never met and we have only seen eachother on cam
and talked by microphone
so im confused i guess
sawduster

Jun 2 @ 12:50PM  
if it is one "small" change now, how many more on down the road? and how major a change. like others have said, if the person you are now isn't good enough, then the one wanting the changes isn't good enough for you
Wordsofwit

Jun 2 @ 12:51PM  
There are some things that may need to change if you are going to be living with somebody. Often these are more personal habits rather than fundamental personality attributes. For example, the toilet seat, drinking soda from the container, etc.
lildevilgirl19

Jun 2 @ 1:00PM  
the changes he wants
are not about the house or curtesy
they are looks and acting a certain way
sugarnspice005

Jun 2 @ 1:04PM  
the changes he wants
are not about the house or curtesy
they are looks and acting a certain way

Not completely sure how well you know him...but, if he has been chatting with you and now has decided you need to change your appearance and the way you act......and you do this.....just how many more changes is he going to ask for?
lildevilgirl19

Jun 2 @ 1:09PM  
well me and him first started talking in 2004
but i didnt talk to him for awhile because
i got annoyed with some of things he would say
and started talking to him more since march this year
sugarnspice005

Jun 2 @ 1:16PM  
well me and him first started talking in 2004
but i didnt talk to him for awhile because
i got annoyed with some of things he would say
and started talking to him more since march this year

I will not ask what he said to annoy you. That is between the two of you.

He found you interesting enough to initiate conversation...he has no business asking you to change your appearance or the way you act to suit him. People come and go in our lives..if he can't accept you for you..then maybe he's not worth your time?
mrknowuwell

Jun 2 @ 1:19PM  
u dont change....make him change............like maybe his........ATTITUDE
straightup_9

Jun 2 @ 1:27PM  
If he can't accept you for who you are, what you are, and how you are......kick him to the curb and move on.
Wordsofwit

Jun 2 @ 1:40PM  
Not to be mean, but the more I read about this, the more immature it all seems. Hell, if you haven't even met in person, why is it even an issue for you, much less worth bringing up in a blog. Too junior high for me.
lildevilgirl19

Jun 2 @ 1:41PM  
the reason why it is a issue is because the person plans on seeing me in person this year
and i would rather figure out if its worth it to meet in person ahead of time
shyone_4u699

Jun 2 @ 1:51PM  
I truely believe we all have to make some adjustments for those we love. To me, it's called "Give and Take." But to try to change one's personality is assinine in my humble opinion. How does one go about that? I have no clue. Wer ARE who we ARE.
sugarnspice005

Jun 2 @ 1:57PM  
the reason why it is a issue is because the person plans on seeing me in person this year
and i would rather figure out if its worth it to meet in person ahead of time


Personally....if after chatting with someone for a while...and then, before meeting he asks that I lose weight and act different....I'd tell him either you accept me as I am..or forget it.
Detach

Jun 2 @ 2:12PM  
I believe if you want to get married, you should change to a certain degree for the other person. If you don't plan to ever marry, you should stay exactly as you are. And if there is too much the partner demands for you to change, obviously you two are not meant for each other.
Lisa46

Jun 2 @ 3:52PM  
yeah people just love me for who I am, And if they don't?? then I don't need them in my life
BananaBoy4u

Jun 2 @ 5:02PM  
After giving this more thought, I would let this person know that if you were to lose weight or change anything about yourself; it would be for YOU not him.
If he desires anything other than the real you, perhaps a fantasy hooker is more suitable for him.
bone66

Jun 2 @ 6:05PM  
just be who you are anything that you dont want to do is just lying to yourself
StraddleMyNose

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Jun 2 @ 7:46PM  
If someone falls for you, then why change?
slohand_47

Jun 2 @ 9:04PM  
For someone to request you make changes before you've even met seems WAY too controlling to me. On top of that....... I suspect no matter what changes you make, they will never be enough. Whatever image he is trying to turn you into...... it isn't you and that alone should be enough for you to say......

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