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posted 5/21/2008 9:54:08 AM |
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  birthdaygirl

Sometimes I wonder if I am wired differently. As far as love and emotions go, I have my one man, and that's all I want or need. Sex is a different story. I love being the center of attention, and being "outnumbered". Are there any other girls who feel this way? Or am I just a freak? This is my first blog so, be honest but please be nice

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funnygirl730

May 21 @ 9:59AM  
nothing freaky about it we all want to be the center of attention.my advice is be true to yourself and enjoy
1bunny629

May 21 @ 10:35AM  
As long as your partner doesn't mind. If he does then I think you want your cake and to be able to eat it too! Your young, most young people want the world fast...you'll get it, but ya might be careful what you ask for.
Coemgen

May 21 @ 10:36AM  
You are not wired differently. I think that human beings, by nature are most definately not monogamous. What keeps most of us monogamous however are emotions. Most people still enjoy the idea of the traditional relationship and having someone all to themselves... not necessarily sexually, but emotionally. But since sex cannot be separated from emotion for most people, then we end up being monogamous.
JazzyJ

May 21 @ 10:45AM  
Hello B-day girl!

Well obviously I can't give you a woman's perspective but I want to congratulate you on being part of only a handfull of women who know what they want and don't care what others think so congrats on that. I really don't think you're alone. Some women just get a kick out of being dominated and possibly out numbered. It makes them the center of attention (like you said) and the feeling of being taken advantage of, or being used as merely a sex object, or anything of the like and some women are turned on by that. I'm sure a few more guys would agree with me on the fact that we wouldn't mind if the tables were turned! LOL At least I wouldn't. I think a few guys here wouldn't know what to do. So I just wanted to throw in my 2 cents and now I'll step aside and we'll hear from the gals here.

PS: Congrats on your first blog!
princealucard

May 21 @ 11:29AM  
Well birthday, as far as i see it, yeah u have ur guy, but for some reason he doesn't really (REALLY) trip ur trigger. Unless, ur not looking for that, some want their cake and eat it to! Until then honey just test drive all the other's! Your MAN is ur security blanket, but doesn't really do in ur heart what u desire u need. But, then again keeep him and seek other's, have ur fun! Life is short, try to live it to the fullest everyday.
orzie

May 21 @ 11:50AM  
just put a blind fold on .and put your legs in the air like you dont care
mrknowuwell

May 21 @ 12:18PM  
u say freak....like its a bad thing
birthdaygirl

May 21 @ 2:47PM  
Let me make it clear that I am 110% satisfied with my husband, sexually and otherwise. We just really like this lifestyle. I get just as turned on seeing him with other women as I do being with other men.
someone942

Jun 2 @ 10:53AM  
ever tried role playing where he pretends to be someone else? that may solve your problem. If it's not all the time and you are both ok with it then go for it. The only way it would be wrong is if you were hurting him. No pain no problem. I'm the monogamous type so I don't really get the need for more especially when there's so much better stuff you can do when you are comfortable with each other that you can't do with a stranger. That stuff actually feels awesome instead of giving you a quick rush from being with a stranger/ other. It sounds like you are doubting it which means usually that there will be pain down the road. Trust your gut not the perverts on this site. If you don't feel bad you're good until it hurts him. You don't have to live up to a porn star or paris hilton remember that. You are you don't let someone change that.

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