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posted 5/17/2008 12:15:27 AM |
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When my ex (we will just call him asshole) and I were together, we were out at the bars drinking and dancing like most people. Then we went to Denny's to get a bit to eat, well while we are there asshole, who is funny as hell, was cracking jokes about the security guards boots( you had to be there, I was LMAO). And I noticed this waitress checking my boyfriend out, now I am not the one to play the insecure woman, but she was staring hard enough for me to notice. You ever just get that vibe like you don't like someone for no apparent reason, yeah I had that feeling. I looked at my boyfriend and told him,"Looks like she wishes she could be me." She continued to watch us the whole damn time, truly I wanted to beat her ass, but I said fuck it and went about my business and forgot about the bitch! Well time went past, found more out about asshole and let me tell you it wasn't to my liking. The lies started rolling in, he kept getting caught in his lies and would try to lie to cover up another lie he told and got caught in.... Confused yet? Yeah, tell me about it.. Now you see why he is asshole. Eventually, we split up and he tried for the longest time to tell me that he didn't have a girl, that I am the only one for him and all that other shit men think women want to hear! Well this city is way to small for me not to find out, people would call me and tell me that they seen him in her car, he wouldn't ever admit it though even though I caught him red handed driving her car! More time passes, now he can't deny he's with her, but still comes over talking about how he wants to be with me, we are getting married, blah, blah, blah! He comes over on a pretty regular basis, hangs out with the family, goes to the bars with me, kisses, hugs, and touches on me in public! At first, I felt bad for his girl until I found out that she waas the waitress at Denny's that night and knew about me the whole damn time...... So, today I get a phone call and it went something like this:
Me: Hello?
Her: Are you dating asshole?
Me: Who the hell is this?
Her: I got your number out of asshole's phone.
Me: So why didn't you ask him who I am?
Her: I did, but he won't tell me who you are.
Me: So who the hell is this?
Her: This is asshole's girlfriend.
Me: What's your name?
Her: Long Pause Renee...(Her name isn't really Renee, that's just what she said)
Me: Hung up the phone

Now I could've told her everything he does and says, but I figured in the long run its just going to be more drama for me. Was I wrong should I have told her everything? Should I have told her that I am the one that he was with when they started fucking around? What do you think?

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StraddleMyNose

May 17 @ 12:22AM  
I think that you should cut loose the cancer (your ex and whoever else that loves negative drama in your life) out of your life and not give it a second thought. life is way too short to be angry over losers that you care nothing about. JMO
StraddleMyNose

May 17 @ 12:28AM  
*comes back in to give ya a kudo to cheer you up*
asnet

May 17 @ 2:02AM  


Yeah, I think your city is way too small.
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Was I wrong should I have told her everything?
NO! maybe NO.
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Should I have told her that I am the one that he was with when they started fucking around?
NO! maybe NO.
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What do you think?
I think you are really pissed at both of them and are tempted to tell her some really hideous story to blow them up. I think maybe you look down on her and him because she is just a common waitress and you are above that. So do you think he is just slumming? How long ago did u and asshole split? How long do you think it will take before you stop recognizing his car?


alybai42

May 17 @ 2:02AM  
Let her find out for herself..I had to the hard way..But you know even if I was warned I would of never listened..

Lession #2...Get rid of him for good...
Sunshine79

May 17 @ 7:20AM  
I agree with let her find out herself. My asshole cheated on me and I kicked him out and told him to go be with her. It's been 4 year's they've been together and wouldn't ya know, he's pulling all the same bullshit with her that he did with me.....Funny, huh?? Hey....she wanted it, she can have it!! LMAO!!!
orzie

May 17 @ 8:14AM  
after you get layed just go home
put your legs in the air like you dont care
GSpotGina

May 17 @ 10:03AM  
You know how the saying goes.... leopards spots never change. He will continue to cheat on every woman he's with and there will always be that woman who knows they're cheating on one person "together," but she's convinced she has enough hold on his balls that she'll be the last one he's ever cheated on.

Nah, say nothing. She's his problem. Advise him to learn to start telling the truth, beginning with she.

Move on Megan. Not to say you can't continue a friendship with him as you wish, but seriously put up the hand when it comes to any coziness from him that extends beyond a quick kiss and hug for hellos and goodbyes.

I have plenty of stories I could share, but I don't want to take up your blog.


sugarnspice005

May 17 @ 10:17AM  
Was I wrong should I have told her everything?

What's to tell? She was messing with him while knowing he was with you. If that doesn't scream "asshole" to her.....then she's either dumb or blind.


Move on, let them be miserable together, and you find someone worthy of you.
l00kin4myprince

May 17 @ 12:58PM  
I think maybe you look down on her and him because she is just a common waitress and you are above that. So do you think he is just slumming? How long ago did u and asshole split? How long do you think it will take before you stop recognizing his car?
No, I don't look down at them for being them, I look down at them because they are both two low life cheating trifling deceiving people that deserve the world to some crashing down on them. Yeah he is just slumming - now that he knows her teeth are dentures, tits are saggy, her attitude sucks, he can't take her anywhere to have fun, she can't dance and all his friends and family talk shit about her. We split a year and a half ago!!! It will take a awhile to stop recognizing her car he's driving because he constantly picks me up in her car!
GSpotGina

May 17 @ 1:15PM  
Let me guess... he's too far in a hole with her to just walk away. She's providing the roof over his head, the money in his pocket to burn, the car to drive, etc.
l00kin4myprince

May 17 @ 7:14PM  
U hit it right on the head, Gina... He knows I won't support his ass like that. So he calls his self getting on his feet by using her. The crazy part is that he really thinks that we are getting married!
redbronze

May 17 @ 7:31PM  
LOL here is a different take you should talk to her compair notes.. I had a guy I dated at one point in time way back when I did the long distance thing who was like this said one thing to me and another to her.. We compaired notes and we both dumped him.. He had to figure it out for himself well not really as he also had a third woman in his life and perhaps a forth but hey we became good friends and he could not use her or me any more.. I came out on the best end of the stick because she supported him and also lent him money he could nor would pay back... Me I am to tight with my money LOL only ones who can get it from me have come from my body...
Detach

May 17 @ 8:29PM  
I think we are forgetting one important point here- He may be an asshole, but you once enjoyed spreading your legs for asshole. Would you have been so sexual with a "nice guy"?

It amazes me how often women refer to ex boyfriends as assholes.
GSpotGina

May 17 @ 10:34PM  
Detach... you need to realize that for many of us, those guys who turned out to be assholes, were the nicest guys we'd ever met in the first place. Who knew then they would turn out both an asshole and a loser?

l00kin4myprince

May 18 @ 12:46AM  
I think we are forgetting one important point here- He may be an asshole, but you once enjoyed spreading your legs for asshole. Would you have been so sexual with a "nice guy"?

It amazes me how often women refer to ex boyfriends as assholes.
That's part of the reason he is an asshole, we would have sex 3 or more times a day, any and every where and was treated like a prince, there was no reason for him to cheat all he had to say was he found someone else! Oh and he is a very nice guy just an asshole to date! And for the record I am cool with just about all my ex boyfriends!

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