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posted 5/8/2008 10:48:44 PM |
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  sawduster

As I sit here and stare mindlessly at the computer screen, a thought crosses my mind that has visited me on many an occasion. Why can I not find one person to accept who and what I am. Is it my stature? At 5'6”, I'm no giant. My build, very slim and small framed, my looks? Not that great, but not an ogre either. My attitude? It isn't as bad as it seems in the blogs at times. My very nature has always been one of a mild sort, till you step on me.

Am I too blunt with what I want, and not willing to waste time on games? I think many of the people I have privately messaged would say I have shown a lot of respect for them as humans, tho the messages have not been more than “hello, I find you quite interesting and would like to get to know more about you as a person.” Something along those lines, nothing there that would indicate more or less.

I have a sense of humor, as well as the serious side, I have compassion for those that need it, but not willing to do more than give them a hand up. Which often is more than I have been able to get. I ask for little, and give all I can of what I can give. It may be an ear to listen, or a shoulder to lean on, or advise as best I can give it or direction when a person is lost in their own forest.

What does it take to get a person to see what is never seen on the outside, but only discovered on the inside, if they take the time to discoverer it? I know this is something that has been gone over before, and probably run into the ground, but each person that asks, is a unique individual, searching for answers, and often wondering what is wrong with them. Why?

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1bunny629

May 9 @ 12:13AM  
When I have to ask why...I realize once again I am relying on answers that I think someone might have, but they don't...they have experiences, but aren't you nor me. Live and love doing what you like to do...don't wait or you will lose your fate. Keep your chin high, let yourself be who you want to be...and the rest will follow!
rescueremedy

May 9 @ 12:14AM  
Why do you think there is something wrong w/ you ? I think alot of people like you . I`ve recieved emails from you and thought you a very nice person . I think it takes time to find the right someone . I`ve been on here a while . Well, right now i don`t have time for a man in my life . I`ve met some wonderful people and made some great friends and new ones everyday . When the time is right .... you will find the person who loves you for who you are . Take care , J
1bunny629

May 9 @ 12:40AM  
I promise...even though men hit on me...they do it conditionally...NSA, or I don't want a relationship just a place to lay my head whrn I travel...i have heard it all. What am I supposed to do? Well I assure you I don't wait for them to show up no matter how sexy their pic is...keep going and don't rely on others to keep you happy!
Zaftik

May 9 @ 3:07AM  
Hun, folks have been asking this question, or some variation of it , since the beginning of time.
And we still don't know the answer.
The ladies are correct ......ya just have to be you...there is someone out there and the best things happen when you aren't looking and are just being you.
Cheer up!
justa_country_boy

May 9 @ 7:00AM  
SawDuster a wise Tough old man once told me "A Man only gets One Good Dog, One Good Gun and One Good woman in his life and it takes time to find the ones that fit you Good"
sawduster

May 9 @ 9:13AM  
i know there is no one answer to all of this. there never in the course of human history has been, it is like asking "why is there air?" ala bill cosby.

tho they are just online personalities right now, i have met a couple of very interesting ladies on here of late. what will become of them, i have no idea, maybe just chat friends.

oh well, on a lighter note, as per the good old amd protocols, wanna fuck?

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