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posted 5/8/2008 2:37:28 PM |
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I'm a 60ish male. Been married over 30 years to a woman who never felt sex was an important part of a relationship. I was a good and responsible guy who trie counseling ,therapy, etc. Nothing worked. Now due to time and Illness, I am no longer capable of sex. However, I still require intimacy. I have no idea how to find a woman willing to hang with me. I don't know how unusual this is, but I'd still like to feel something before I go.

Anyone else have this experience or find a way to go on? Gals, is it all about sex for you (although not in my experience). Any idea how I might be able to meet a woman who can care for a person as they are?

I know this sounds pretty hopeless and stuff, but it's just the way it is. If you feel the need to be rude or snarky, please count to 10 and go away. Thanks.

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May 8 @ 2:43PM  
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May 8 @ 3:47PM  
I wish I had some answers for you but I don't. Your wife should be there for you...intimacy is more than just sex...and shame on her for not being there for you.

I'm not sure looking for what you need outside your marriage is the answer either. Have you talked this over with her so she knows you need attentiveness? Maybe she just doesn't realize that this is so important to you. Although I'm not married, I can feel your isolation...sometimes it's just touching and holding that makes a difference in how we feel.

I wish you luck in finding what you need. A virtual hug isn't the same as a real one...but I'm sending you one anyway.

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