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Is it wrong to be upfront...

posted 5/4/2008 12:28:48 AM |
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  alybai42

In my profile and essay if people would take time to read it first before sending me a e-mail it says what I am looking for...I am a honest person and tell it like it is.

I don't like to lie. I don't play mind games for any kind of games for that matter.
Unless it is naked twister..

Anyone want to play...

I get a lot of e-mail's on why I am here if I am not looking for sex...I write back and tell them the truth..

My pictures are of the real me...I am not fake.

Maybe I am wrong for being honest on what I want..Maybe that is why I can't meet anyone

Maybe I should rewrite my essay.. Naw that is just not me..

Why I should ask myself why I am still here? I will say this much it is because of the people I have met on this site..That is why I hang out. I don't post comments on blogs like I use too. I don't play in the forum's like I use too. But at least I am still hanging around..
And I have gotten a few e-mail's from friends saying they are glad I am back...
It is nice to know people do care..

My question is: Am I wrong to tell the truth and be upfront.

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clickedanad2

May 4 @ 12:39AM  
hang here for your friends
post a profile elsewhere
try plentyoffish
you'll still run into "freaks"
hey - it's worth a shot
alybai42

May 4 @ 12:41AM  
I am on POF..I get all kinds of weirdo's on that site..I check it maybe once a week to see if I get mail..
j3411

May 4 @ 12:42AM  
Being true to one self is never a bad thing. You know that. I'm also sure since you've been here for awhile you know that we as men aren't known for really reading much past ( gezz I should say me I guess) the first few lines.

If you've done a good job with your essay ( I read it all the way through) and you think it says what you want it to. Leave it alone, keep it truthful and real. ( just like it is)

Hummm Neked Twister ! OK but I get to spin the spinner thingie !
StraddleMyNose

May 4 @ 1:35AM  
Unless it is naked twister..

I'm in!
mrknowuwell

May 4 @ 1:37AM  
when we play nekkied twister....u cheat
sumdaysoon

May 4 @ 6:30AM  
you know what i think.........
jcarolina

May 4 @ 6:35AM  
Much of the time, people read into things to best suit themselves. They mentally twist things, denying stuff, disregarding stuff, and basically interpretting it completely different from what you intended. It's like they don't like what you say about something, so they change it around.

Being honest can be difficult, but it works out best for everyone. And you can always say, " That isn't what I said".
Wordsofwit

May 4 @ 8:27AM  
Of course being up front is best.

Maybe I should rewrite my essay.

I have each section with the date I did it/updated it. Sometimes updating is in order.


Roxanna

May 4 @ 8:33AM  
I am a firm believer at being up front and honest even if it comes off as abrasive and blunt. At the end of the day, it is YOU who faces YOU... might as well be truthful.
greatsax

May 4 @ 8:52AM  
Yes it is wrong to be yourself. You have to be something your not and you have to be a superstar here to be accepted or be popular on this site. If you aren't a great writer there are people here waiting to point that out to you. They spend all day just waiting for a chance to show how smart they are. No, you need to find some fake pics and put them up or don't show how beautiful you are for being yourself. You need to be a raggy bitch like most of the women on here...then tell the men how much you want to fuck everyone here........seriously, the right moment is waiting for you if you are true to yourself. It is hard to be patient but it will happen. It will if you keep yourself out there.....
straightup_9

May 4 @ 10:50AM  
I just never understood why anyone would have a problem with someone being honest...Especially when MOST of them have that as a requirement in their own profiles.....just sayin'......

You go Girl!!!
Ewe_Wish

May 4 @ 11:36AM  
Tammy............I am glad you're back........and sorry for not emailing you when you did come back.........had a bit going on.......but you know I lubs ya girl...........hell we will both be Minnesota girls pretty soon.........we can hang out in real life when we want to.......yanno?

As for being honest..........well yes being honest is the only way to go.........be true to yourself........because you are who you have to live with.........but in all reality with some people.........they are still going to accuse you of lying or spread shit about you..........thats the way some people are..........the good thing is you dont have to be like them or be around them if you choose not to be.........I have always been honest here.........of course i have been accused of not being...........but when I look in the mirror each day.........I know the truth............and so will you if you stay honest.........
tassie1

May 5 @ 4:01PM  
that's why I like ya
but we both know its cos you simple can't resist all those dick pics you get sent and the ruggedly handsome good looks of the aussie's on here

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