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posted 5/3/2008 3:31:41 AM |
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I just got home from my first night at a swingers' club! It was pretty sweet. My partner, a group of friends, and I went to Club Princeton here in Columbus. We all got in free because they were having a Rocky Horror night and we were performing. Security was a bit different than what we expected- we all got a months' membership, and a couple of us signed up to be there just earlier today, and they still accepted them. We all had to get frisked, and there were bouncers everywhere, but they were very friendly.
The Club itself is fantastic. A big bar area, dance floor with several stripper poles, and it's BYOB so of course they always have your favorite drink. The back rooms are spectacular! Screens on the walls showing porn, a big cummunity room with lots of beds adjacent to one another, hot tubs, 2 Sybians for the ladies, and some novice-level bondage equipment- including a St. Andrew's cross OUTSIDE on the smoking patio, by one of the hot tubs.
The crowd was pretty thin, though. I was told that they have a lot more on Saturday nights; tonight was unusually slow even for a Friday. There were several girls dancing in thongs on the poles and on their dates' laps, which was fun to watch. One of them actually complimented me on my legs (of all things!) and we made plans to go in the back room but she had to leave. She gave me her number and said to call her. There wasn't much going on in the back rooms. The situation in the play area was very much oriented towards women's safety- men were only allowed back there if escorted by a female or couple, unless they are known to the staff to be gay and are with another gay guy. I got back there only to find it very quiet, save a few monogamous couples having sex in little corners, just getting off on being in public.
There was, however, some action going on in the hot tub outside. No bathing suits. We've been open for a while, but tonight was the first time I've ever actually watched my partner with another man. It didn't bug me nearly as much as I thought it would. Then again, I don't blame her- he was fucking hot. I mean I'm straight, but DAMN. I got a little play from another girl in the tub, while some other girls were groping and teasing her. I felt extremely self-conscious sitting buck naked in the hot tub in front of other men and women. I probably would have been able to get with more of them, but something about the public nudity, as cool as I was acting about it, just made me feel sort of shy. The phone number and hand action in the tub ended up being all I got that night. My partner, on the other hand, got a few guys. I'm coming to terms with the fact that she is ten times more attractive than I am, and therefore will have a much easier time getting sex.
When we got home, we both had the same complaint- It's awkward, almost embarrassing, to be one of a handful of real swingers in a club that's mostly full of tourists. We both had stories of dancing/making out with other people, asking if they wanted to hit the private rooms, and being told "Oh, I'm just here to watch" or "My boyfriend and I just come here because it's such a nice place to have sex with each other." We were told that it's better if you go on a Saturday night- there's still tourists, but enough people in the back rooms that you won't have much need to bother with them. We'll definitely be going back on a Saturday night this month!

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Tracker0523

May 3 @ 4:40AM  
interesting story...i've been invited a few times to swinger partys here in Florida but, i always chicken out....i've always viewed sex as private and behind closed doors....although i am open to the idea of seeing what it is like and trying something new ....maybe one of these days i'll get the nerve up and not be so chicken and go to one of these parties...perhaps if i went with like a group of friends where we all know each other then i'd feel pretty good....i know they have a lot of these swinger parties here in Florida....of course you have to be invited by a member if your single to get in.......i know others allow couples and singles to come and of course they are all BYOB....
beefygoblin

May 3 @ 5:28AM  
unfortunately you have to have a partner to join most of those places...and I don't have one.

How much does the one you joined cost? It sounds heavenly.
Nathanial

May 3 @ 6:22AM  
It does sound fun...just can't get over the idea of having a partner, and having to watch her go off and do something with another guy...that's one area where I haven't learned to be comfortable. But going as a couple, as tourists, just to see what it's like, would be interesting.
dumblonde

May 3 @ 12:31PM  
dont think i could do that...
evild614

May 4 @ 4:47AM  
It is possible to join ours as a single male, but you have to have references, pass some sort of interview, etc. They don't make it easy. On top of that, most Saturday night events they don't allow single male members in.

Cost is $25 for a month ($5 for single women) or $99 for a year ($29 for single women), plus each night you go, price can range from $35-$75 for a couple, up to $75 for single men (on nights they're allowed), and between free and $10 for single women.

Tourists- eh. I was getting the impression that a lot of the staff and regulars weren't too fond of them (aside from taking their money). It does seem a bit of a waste. A monogamous couple can have sex at home for free. I know that back when my partner and I got together, and we were exclusive, there was no way in hell we would have spent that much money just to have sex in public or watch other people. Yes, there was some bondage equipment there, but not as nice as we have at home, and BDSM clubs and parties tend to be much more affordable than swingers' clubs.

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