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How far is too far?

posted 4/30/2008 8:21:56 PM |
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So for those of you that didn't know, my partner and I are in an open relationship. The rules are that we can sleep with other people, and have friends with benefits, but no romantic relationships. Obviously, with her being a beautiful girl, and me being a bit of a schlub, things are a bit lopsided. I've got a few female friends that, once in a great while, sleep with me, either out of boredom or wanting some BDSM and not knowing many others in the lifestyle, and occasionally I'll get the one-night-stand with some girl in a bar.
My partner, on the other hand, has a stable of suitors that read like the cast of The Bachelorette- doctors, lawyers, C.E.O.s, etc. Now we're eking out a decent starving-college-student existence here- big apartment, 3 cars, nice stuff, clothes, food, etc. But these guys, in addition to sleeping with her, are starting to lavish her with expensive dinners at fancy restaurants, new shoes from boutiques instead of the thrift store, etc. This is all shit that I can't afford to do for her. I know I should be happy for her, and proud that I got such a hot girlfriend on personality and bedroom skills alone, but I'm not. I'm starting to get jealous, which I never felt when she was just sleeping with other people. That didn't bug me. Now one of the guys wants to take on a trip for a weekend. How far is going too far? We agreed to not get romantically involved. Do the fancy gifts and dates count? Do vacations count? Am I going to lose her to some rich guy, now that she's gotten a taste?

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Apr 30 @ 8:27PM  
Just keep her happy in and out of the bedroom, and don't be boring or predictable, or come across as jealous. Keep her on her toes man!

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