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posted 4/24/2008 3:16:44 AM |
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  jcarolina

What's up, pervs? Just how is everyone this fine AM?

I'm sitting here, thinking about how AMD was a cool ass, fun web site only a couple of months ago. Now, a lot of folks have left, or they just lurk, which is the same as leaving in all practicality.

The trolls have started a war and seem to be winning. People creating profiles in attempts to get information. Antagonizing folks and then reporting them for abuse for defending themselves. Straight up fabricating entire situations, pretending to know others and having pretend conversations.

Just today I asked someone for a photo. Someone that began writing me, quickly began asking questions of a personal nature, then called me "a fake, phony asshole" because I asked for a picture.

One of many profiles of late, approaching me and acting as if we've been friends for ages. What amazes me is the sheer brazeness with which these people assume everyone is dumb.

I'm puzzled at what could have happened in these people's lives that led them to believe that they're so much smarter than everyone else. Such behavior doesn't point to education, or even much common sense.

I keep saying I'll blog something interesting, but my imagination is constantly inundated with distractions posing as people posing as yet other people.

What is so fascinating that people feel the need to engage in such behavior?

Does this take the place of a life they can't acquire?

Do they feel important if someone will chat with them when they pretend?

Is a bruised ego so easily soothed by creating situations that have no basis in reality?

Does thinking they're tricking someone give them some false sense of intelligence?

Or am I just naive? Do I have unreasonable expectations for people?

Maybe, but I know one thing. My friends in the real world don't play around about bullshit like some of the idiots here.

This has been a late night rant for all you no-life-having assholes that like to play games and pretend you are somebody. You're the embodiment of low self esteem and insecurity.
You can't get away with your stupid shit in real life, so you go online where you're safe.

Complete and total losers.

So goes my quest for fun. Thwarted by a bunch of poseurs, bent on making the world as dull and uninteresting as they.


Maybe next time.................................................................................................maybe..............................................................................................................


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lunanegra

Apr 24 @ 3:28AM  
You know I agree wholeheartedly.

Sadly,they will have this blog pulled because it violates some "bullshit" rule.
Looking4ever

Apr 24 @ 3:31AM  
I can say I read it before it got pulled...which will be too bad because it poses some very good questions that I think some should ask themselves.
jcarolina

Apr 24 @ 3:39AM  
Luna. Just got tired of the crap, darlin'. You wouldn't believe the imbeciles that write me and think they're slick.

It's funny really. I wonder how these people live from day to day.
jcarolina

Apr 24 @ 3:43AM  
Thanks "Looking". For what it's worth, I wish I had somethng better to post, though.

Hey, you really can kudo yourself!
lunanegra

Apr 24 @ 4:06AM  
Luna. Just got tired of the crap, darlin'. You wouldn't believe the imbeciles that write me and think they're slick.
They haven't gotten to me yet,J but I'll give it some time before they do.Not to be a conspiracy theorist,but I think thats what they were doing all along- trying to get rid of the most active people here,or at least put all of us asunder to make us cancel.Whomever these people/persons are need to get a fucking life and grow up.
DangerousCurves999

Apr 24 @ 5:02AM  
I'm still here too. I just keep checking the blogs and mail as I am working. Going crazy putting together my big salmon tournament of the year right now with prize money over $30,000 and growing. Keeps me on the move so I am not getting as much online time as I would like so I missed most of the blog wars. The ice and snow are melting and it was up in the 50's here today. sun is setting around 11pm and I just want to be outside. Maybe it's just spring fever.

I will keep coming in because I love the friends I have here and it's good company for me as I live so isolated. I have met some awesome people here and a few of them are something special especially Nomi and John. You got to be the cream that rises to the top and floats above the crap... that will eventually sink and the waters will be calm once more.

Mimosas all around
Cheers
Judi
ynot7769

Apr 24 @ 5:58AM  
What is so fascinating that people feel the need to engage in such behavior?

should you happen to learn the answer.........a copy of it in my email if you please?
StraddleMyNose

online now!
Apr 24 @ 6:09AM  
Antagonizing folks and then reporting them for abuse for defending themselves.

Yeah, when I read this part I thought of a well known troll who has been on here for a long time spewing left wing politics, and almost no one likes this person on here. They bitch about waiting for their comments to always be approved on peoples blogs, and yet this person has their setting set for everyone to wait as well. They cherry pick their comments too.

Thwarted by a bunch of poseurs, bent on making the world as dull and uninteresting as they

Yep, I have seen this lately on here.

Good blog!
sumdaysoon

Apr 24 @ 6:22AM  
people would do that kinda stuff............
Ashinatrix

Apr 24 @ 6:48AM  
Are you one of the Quaid brothers?
Roxanna

Apr 24 @ 7:10AM  
I'm not even in the loop, more of the person in the dark corner, but I have found the same thing happening to me.
I have even gone so far as to add people to Yahoo to try to get more out of what they were hiding - only to find that that Yahoo profile was a brand new one. People think they are slick. I find it pathetic. Living one sad little life and letting it revolve around being deceitful on a website. What REAL LIVES could these people possible lead?
DeviousFem24

Apr 24 @ 7:13AM  
Durf Durf Durf

Shneh, the world is rife with idiots. my way of dealing with them is to simply not give a shit about 'em.
Giving a shit seems to fuel ppls retardedness, sorta like arsenal for their loserdom.
No amount of bitching and moaning is going to rid the world of idiots, because every second new idiots crop up, ready to take their place. Such is the way of the world...But really, my thouights are...fuck 'em. The amount of energy needed to bitch and moan about em could be spent focusing on bigger and brighter things and people...

But in other news, i'm going to bed, anyone wanna join me?

.....Anyone?

........ANYONE?

*whimper*

...*mumbles* damnit, looks like another night spent with mr rabbit.




SxzeNewMe

Apr 24 @ 7:37AM  
I keep saying I'll blog something interesting, but my imagination is constantly inundated with distractions posing as people posing as yet other people.
Yes! That is exactly what I've been experiencing! To try to formulate decent thoughts when everything around you is in turmoil is nearly impossible. I wonder if this is why so many people say they want to blog but "can't"...
Sunshine79

Apr 24 @ 7:52AM  
I'm just little Ol' me over here...No alternate profiles....no fake pictures....I don't have time to try and "not be myself". It's hard enuff being funny Sunshine...keeping the peace in my own space over here.

I hear ya though, those losers......making it rough for all....it ain't right!!
dumblonde

Apr 24 @ 8:37AM  
some people are real and good but are judged by others...
themama

Apr 24 @ 8:38AM  
Good blog....
Like sunshine said I'm real don't have time for more then one profile..
These ones that do go out and get a life and stop with the insanity......
Scottishtease

Apr 24 @ 8:56AM  
Couldn't agree with you more Jcarolina...you did post a good blog,everyone is getting a chance to say how they feel...that's always good. Tease.
harleybadboy

Apr 24 @ 8:58AM  
"Misery loves company"...........if they can't find it they create it.....

I come here mornings to see what is going on and keeping in touch with some new friends I have met on this site. Plus the hopes of a possibility of meeting, in person to person, someone with simular interests. Hopefully female.

I look at it this way. If someone wants to be an asshole then I have no time for them or the urge to fuel their fires. Opinions and thoughts are like assholes......everyone has them. Do we have to encourage them by giving them recongnition? Usually if you ignore an aggravation it will just go away.

j.....hang in here.....there are a bunch of nice people here. Be real and have fun with it. Don't let the hemeroids of life take you down with them. Cheer up and enjoy the nice spring we are getting.

Good blog........a greenie for ya'll



GSpotGina

Apr 24 @ 9:11AM  
I have been the same Spot since I got here and it was long enough ago, that it was a completely different format. Nothing sexist about this.... but I'm ashamed sometimes at the behavior of certain women on this site. They confirm to everyone that, they totally misinterpreted what it means to be a real B.I.T.C.H. They believe that being downright nasty (and... I'm not talking in the sexual sense)... is the way to hook a trout. Low self esteem and insecurity doesn't begin to portray the whole of it.

I'm not saying men are innocent... I'm sure there's a few that are true bastards, but I'm not finding them as prominent as the bitches here.
SxzeNewMe

Apr 24 @ 9:27AM  
I'm not saying men are innocent... I'm sure there's a few that are true bastards, but I'm not finding them as prominent as the bitches here.

From now I would appreciate it if you would refer to me as...




Thankyouverymuch!

jcarolina

Apr 24 @ 10:02AM  
@ Nomi. That's not working for ya!!


Thanks everyone, I know there are some fine folks here, I caught half of them with this ridiculous blog.

Ash- that's not the first time I've gotten the "Quaid" thing, so I'll take that as a compliment.
I'm not one of them, but I can pretend like I am if that works.

Dev-a llama and a rabbit? You is a freaky freak.


What surprises me is that no one noticed that I have nothing better to do in the dead of night but post shit like this. And here I am calling others losers.
cutecarrie6969

Apr 24 @ 10:08AM  
I don't get those fake profiles hounding me like ya'll are describing....now I feel left out and unimportant ....or maybe I just unwittingly don't read/don't respond to them

In either case, ignorance is bliss....
soft_touch938

Apr 24 @ 11:14AM  
I haven't had any scammers or "wanna fucks" in my mailbox for quite some time. I don't know what I did right but it worked!

I do occasionally get..."hey lady, this is an ADULT SEX site so quit ur bitchin'..." I even had one guy the other day tell me "someone should shoot you"....just because I asked him to explain himself and why he thought the way he did. No...he had no answers to that...just a nasty remark and threatened that I needed shot. Go figure. I reported him promptly.

My biggest problem here? What to blog about. I don't fear AMD shooting me down as I stay in the safety zone. But everyone is so "shell shocked" now that knee-jerk reactions have become the "norm".

So I will take a vacation until I "kick the habit" and regain my health issues then I will return to see what I find. Hopefully a new and improved Pervia.

(It can happen folks so don't give up hope.)
SxzeNewMe

Apr 24 @ 11:42AM  
What surprises me is that no one noticed that I have nothing better to do in the dead of night but post shit like this.
So ah...is this your way of asking for titty pics???
casuallylooking

Apr 24 @ 12:02PM  
What surprises me is that no one noticed that I have nothing better to do in the dead of night but post shit like this. And here I am calling others losers
Jeff, Is that anything like the pot calling the kettle black? Sorry, couldn't resist..and seriously, I'm just kidding...
I write some silly stuff in the middle of the night..(did you ever read my blog about the spoonful of sugar song being stuck in my head?) lmao... Some of us are just serious insomniacs..and this USED o be a really good place to come on those sleepless nights..
Doesn't mean I'm a loser.....Umm, does it? Well..Does it?

Like Ynot said, if you get answers to some of these questions, could you drop me an email too?
sundance64

Apr 24 @ 12:13PM  
Just checking to see if i"m still suspended...this seemed like as good a place as any...

oh...good blog J...kudos to you!
DeviousFem24

Apr 24 @ 12:29PM  
Dev-a llama and a rabbit? You is a freaky freak
Sweetums, i'd substitue the wabbit for u anyday!
On a side note,
I'd still hit it
clickedanad2

Apr 24 @ 1:28PM  
Misery loves company"...........if they can't find it they create it.....

amen
girlcountry

Apr 24 @ 1:59PM  
Yes, things have gotten really quiet here...I joined last fall and now it is so different...it's not fun anymore...I'll be here until Aug. when my paidmembership is up, but may still stick around and read my mail and the blogs... But I'm with ya, J...maybe we need to do something to make it more fun?

I know...wanna fuck!!!????
l00kin4myprince

Apr 24 @ 5:57PM  
**News Flash** There's a nasty disease taking over AMD some of you may know it as, MISERY! Mr. jcarolina the best way to get rid of this disease is to spread as much joy and happiness every where that you can! If the symptoms continue for 7 - 10 days I suggest you consult the doctor, as for this can become a world epidemic.
Oh and smile its the second best thing to do with your lips!!!
SxzeNewMe

Apr 24 @ 6:18PM  
Oh and smile its the second best thing to do with your lips!!!
Oh??? So....ah, l00kin4myprince....what's the first?
l00kin4myprince

Apr 24 @ 6:23PM  
The first would be kissing me, duh!

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