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RE: On Being Bi

posted 4/21/2008 5:40:56 AM |
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It didn't let me post a comment...

People who are 110% sure of their sexuality are vastly in the minority- and I'm not so sure that's a bad thing. I've always been a fan of the Kinsey scale- it leaves more room for play, if you will, but even that doesn't really leave room for all the sexual identities out there- so I'm for damn sure that the old Gay/Bi/Straight categorization ain't cutting it.

Reminds me of a Q&A session with filmmaker Kevin Smith. A girl who identified herself as a lesbian was giving him a hard time, and in his retort, he refered to her as a "bi-curious college girl" and she said, "So just because I'm young, I'm just bi-curious? Did you know you were straight when you were eighteen?" With perfect sincerety, Silent Bob replied, "M'am, I'm 31 years old, and I'm still not sure."

I'm just thinking... Is it really someone's goal to find themselves a neat little box and stuff themselves in it for the rest of their life? Is knowing which box is yours something to be proud of?

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Apr 21 @ 6:56AM  
I'm proud of my box.......

Apr 21 @ 7:41AM  
And I'm damn proud of MINE!! I am Bi-nothing, not curious even a tad, actually the thought makes me sick!! Give me a MAN any day and I'm a happy camper!!

Apr 21 @ 8:23AM  
boxes were made for people who need structure and definition, those with out boxes need little structure or definition.. Smile..

Who really cares in the long run sexuality like anything is ambigious at best as are most things that identify us, this goes for race, religion, job status, and any other identity process.. In a constantly changing universe nothing is constant nothing stays the same.

This is the box I live in, one that has no sides..

Apr 21 @ 10:58AM  
Is knowing which box is yours something to be proud of?

No, but it's good self preservation thing.

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