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posted 4/16/2008 3:31:34 AM |
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  funnygirl730

i have been told many times in my adult life that i'm heartless because other then my kids and gdaughters i have never allowed anyone close enough to me emotionally to hurt me.i have never been in love with anyone only have one friend that i trust completely even my siblings are only allowed so close.so am i missing out or am i being the smart one?i know most would say i'm missing out but are there others out there who understand and feel the same? did something or someone in my past cause this? probably but how to change after a lifetime i being this way is beyond me.i guess i just needed to sort it out a little.thanks for listening.

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StraddleMyNose

Apr 16 @ 3:59AM  
Well, I don't think you're going to find that special someone without some kind of risk involved. As for me, I think the risk is worth taking most of the time if not all.
TheAvenger

Apr 16 @ 6:16AM  
"Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all."
orzie

Apr 16 @ 7:16AM  
hurt so good !
just dont let a man thats in bed with you pull your hair
Scottishtease

Apr 16 @ 7:33AM  
It's whatever makes you happy...if you like living like that who are we to tell you other wise...good luck to you whatever you decide to do. Tease.
jcarolina

Apr 16 @ 7:35AM  
You've never been in love? That's pretty sad. Love can be painful, but what in life isn't?
slohand_47

Apr 16 @ 8:13AM  
I like to fool myself into thinking I can come up with an answer for just about anything. For this..... I really don't, other than to suggest...... if you REALLY want to change the way you act and think....... try counseling. It really can make a difference. Some counselors are better than others and if you find yourself not liking or responding to the one you select after about ........ say 3 or 4 visits, try a different one.
Wordsofwit

Apr 16 @ 8:50AM  
If that is how you naturally feel, then fine. After all especially concerning love, you can't put something there that isn't. Love doesn't come with an on/off switch.

On the other hand, if you build walls so to speak keep others out so as to not get too close to you, then you are creating a prison for yourself.
themama

Apr 16 @ 9:01AM  
I for one was the same way.. Had a bad relationship... My now husband saved me from.. But It took me a long time to truely let him into my heart and my soul..
Take your time and let your heart and soul heal....

Dave2Maybe

Apr 16 @ 9:38AM  
TheAvenger up above has it exactly right! My heart is still broken from the little barefoot blond I fell for many years ago. I've never met another so affectionate with always sweet little words and smooches. Nothing has ever shattered me so emotionally as when she said goodbye for another(her first love). But now, all these years later, I wouldn't trade those memories of her for anything in this world...
Lisa46

Apr 16 @ 10:09AM  
I had love once! And I want it again
straightup_9

Apr 16 @ 10:14AM  
If you are comfortable with yourself, and your life, then you aren't missing a thing....Your life should be about you, not what others think it should be about.
Playful

Apr 16 @ 10:20AM  
That is sad to me, I have loved someone so long, I can't imagine being alone like that.
However, the road has not always been an easy one or uphill one.
No relationship is.
But worth it.
Even good friends are hard to find, a few really close ones and it's good.
It pays to take the chance and give people a try sometimes.
NachoBaby

Apr 16 @ 10:34AM  
I wouldn't say heartless, more like tender hearted. It's true though, you will never find true love until you put it out there and take the chance of being hurt.
casuallylooking

Apr 16 @ 10:43AM  
I agree with Nacho.. You will never find that love if you don't take a chance.
I am as good or better than anyone I know about building those emotional walls so noone can get in.. Someone once told me if you put up brick walls to keep out the bad, you're stopping the good from getting in also.. they were right. I'm learning little by little every day to let some of those walls down. It's scarey as hell, and I might get hurt, but it sure feels good in the meantime...

Personally, I think you are missing out on so much that life and love have to offer...but it is your life and your choice to make..

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