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Massage - therapy or erotic stimulus?

posted 4/13/2008 8:26:24 PM |
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I've been encouraged lately to get a massage. A bout with sciatica and everyone has a cure. Though many people I know have extolled the virtues of therapeutic massage. The only one I ever got was pretty lame.

My ex used to get massages all the time and swore by them. She wouldn't let me give her massages because we always ended up having great sex (which she avoided).

Now I'm wondering;

Why do YOU all get massages? Therapy, relaxation, erotic turn on?
Do you get them as often as you like? Weekly, monthly, special occassions?
Are they worth it?

Thanks for the input.

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Apr 13 @ 8:29PM  
Twice a week and yes a great sex session follows immediately thereafter

Apr 13 @ 8:37PM  
I used to get massages 3 times a week for back issues that I had. I never felt sexual when getting them from a hired massage therapist. Now if a man friend gives me one, that's a different story and I'm sure he knows what he is doing and what he is going to get when he's done!!

Apr 13 @ 8:52PM  
I get massages every couple of months as stress therapy so for me it's not the least bit erotic. However...if anyone is offering an erotic massage I am open to suggestions.

Apr 13 @ 8:56PM  
I've never had one professionally but would love to!!!

Preferably by a gorgeous man [e57]

you offering??

Apr 13 @ 9:02PM  
I've never had a professional massage, either. I think... I'm afraid to! lol

Apr 13 @ 9:02PM  
Boy, can I relate. I have two degenerated disks in my lower back and have had since I was 28 two excruciatingly painful (to show HOW painful, let's put it this way: the pain I had would literally define the word "excruciating") muscle spasms in my spine, plus occasional sciatica ever since.

But I do landscaping, which requires all kinds of lifting, bending, etc. And yes, it bothers the hell outta me, but I think it's good for me in the long run. It strengthens my back muscles.

What I wouldn't give for a nice therapeutic massage, though! And I'd be profoundly grateful for the massage in and of itself, but if it just so happened to involve someone I was dating, and "erotic stimulus" came into play, woo hoo! That's even better!

Apr 13 @ 9:44PM  
I get massages for the therapy - the relaxation it gives the body and mind. But I also get some energy work done - something similar to reiki. I sometimes leave in a peaceful and meditative state. It's great! I think everyone should experience that state of mind. I honestly think if everyone could, this world would be a more peaceful place.

The massage therapist lady who massages me doesn't turn me on intentionally - she knows where to touch - or where not to touch. But she's quite experienced, and very intuitive. She's been touching bodies for 30 years, so she knows what she's doing! I think or her as a healer.

Someday I would like to be able to effectively heal myself.

Apr 13 @ 9:57PM  
Just my pretty feets get massaged when I get a pedicure. It's relaxing and feels wonderful. If I had the $, I'd get them massaged everyday for an hour!!

Apr 13 @ 10:29PM  
I live for them. I have always been very physically active and they rejuvenate me and heal me so I may accomplish my physical goals. My favorite erotic stimuli is to be asked by my massage therapist if I would like to be massage on the inside, and I immediately say yes...he lays his tool in my hand for approval and has me stroke lubricant on the tool so it will enter easier for it is very large and I am so tight...need I say more...masturbation sets in and my erotic dream is continued by a lengthy vision of the therapist and his role in taking me to my ultimate height of orgasim...

Apr 13 @ 10:42PM  
I'm a massage therapist, so I'm biased, but there is nothing better than a massage for relaxation and pain relief.
My massages are not erotic at all, but I still have a few men who become "aroused" on the table. Even whenn this happens, it is really not's just a response to being warm and relaxed and feeling good. They are usually a little embarrassed that it happened.
I try to get one weekly, but there is no such thing as enough for me. I would get one daily if I could.
And if you have a good therapist, it is worth every penny she/he ccharges and you will probably offer a tip on top of it.

Apr 13 @ 11:16PM  
I went to a massage therapist for a pinched nerved in my neck. Best thing I have ever done...she was good. I walked out of there feeling totally relaxed and at peace. I will go back anytime it acts up. I think you just have to find the right one. The ones I was getting in therapy they only hurt me. She never hurt once, it was amazing. If you ever come to Ohio I will give you her number...I recommend her to all my friends!

Apr 14 @ 12:28PM  
I have never gotten a professional massage but I would love to have one it sounds so relaxing.
So far I have only had massages from talented amateurs (sometimes not so talented).
I know when I go the Chiropractor and he hooks me up the electrical thing I am just a drooling mess, it’s great!

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