OK I'm seeking enlightenment, or plain ole fun.
As a married person on here I wonder what other people thought about this subject.
Thank You.
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SxzeNewMe
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Apr 9 @ 10:17AM
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Ah shit...are you ready to get slammed??? I pass no judgments, personally, but that's just me. :)
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bandengor
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Apr 9 @ 10:21AM
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Fair game if the marital status is known to both the potential partners.
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ThePurpleProphet
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Apr 9 @ 10:26AM
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I would say simply, fair game if they want it and off limits if they don't.
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max49
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Apr 9 @ 10:32AM
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I say that as long as both parties know that the other one is on here or joins in then it's no big deal. To each his own.
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TheAvenger
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Apr 9 @ 10:37AM
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No two ways about it: off limits. 
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Xien607
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Apr 9 @ 10:55AM
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Tastes = Taste
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1bunny629
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Apr 9 @ 11:39AM
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married men are off limits for me...everyonelse have at it...your choice.
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BlueEyes708
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Apr 9 @ 11:41AM
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When I was not in a relationship myself. A married man what off limits, end of statement and NO compromise. I don't poach. If it's that bad at home talk you partner into a threesome or divorce and find someone else.
Now that I have someone. Forget it. I wouldn't do anything to ruin that wonderful relationship. They're hard to find and just not worth it.
You get a greenie
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lunanegra
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Apr 9 @ 12:19PM
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I don't give a damn what others do,but I wish they would be more honest to their spouses that they want out instead of cheating on them.Open marriages,poly, swinger couples seem to be more honest because more often than not,both parties know and are okay with it.At any rate,many married men(and women) have approached me and politely decline- I won't ever be the fall guy/girl because of an unhappy marriage.
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patrick2369
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Apr 9 @ 12:22PM
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A BIG Thanks to all who have commented on this thread. I and I hope others appreciate your candor.
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nawtikitty
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Apr 9 @ 12:57PM
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That's a bit too vague to answer?
Are you in an open relationship?
Do you swing?
Does your wife know?
Has she encouraged you to have a lover on the side?
Does she have a lover on the side?
"Married" isn't always what it appears
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BKB1972
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Apr 9 @ 1:00PM
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off limits...no questions, no exceptions
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40DWM
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Apr 9 @ 1:57PM
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As my ex told me when her alibi spilled the beans.......
"It's not really cheating, It's just something different'>
If each knows what the other is doing, and is OK with it, it's their business.
If one is doing it without consent.....I've no sympathy when the split hits the fan.
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canuhelpme258
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Apr 9 @ 2:24PM
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Doesn't it depend on the spouses knowledge and consent there of to extramarital relationships with some people?
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tassie1
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Apr 9 @ 3:32PM
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just cos ppl are married doesn't mean they are dead. 
as for this question,there is a very easy answer ;
if they are honest,READ THEIR ESSAY'S 
I am married,I am here,so is my wife. and you would be amazed at the lectures we get about having the nerve to even be on an adult site in the first place.
as for 'fair game'
that depends on what it is the married couple are looking for,if they want extra-curricular activities then thats fine if they have an open relationship,each to their own.
but when they say they are only here to chat and have fun meeting new friends that should also be respected.  
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nawtikitty
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Apr 9 @ 4:30PM
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tassie
thats because they are narrow minded morons who never ever learned how to "think outside the box"
or can't think for themselves so they repeat other peoples answer...
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canuhelpme258
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Apr 9 @ 5:00PM
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No McCain is fair game, only if he talks dirty to me first!
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DarkKnightWalking
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Apr 9 @ 5:24PM
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Personal Opinion...OFF.
For those who "cheat"...30 min of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of happiness. And if its so damn bad in your situation, break it off.
If its an "Open" relationship...if it works for ya, fine. In my personal experience from knowing quite a few....rarely works out. Either causes divorce, one or both partners leaving for greener pastures or both. If it works for you, by all means.
For myself, I will soon confirm that I have what I want in a mate, totally. And I will be loyal unto death. far too many toys and accessories to make it ever necessary to bring another person into the mix.
Just me. And you asked.
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