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Do women really seek sex on here or is sex one hell of a lure?

posted 4/7/2008 4:26:54 PM |
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As a male who often thinks with both heads equally but not always at the same time. I often wonder if the women on here are seeking a higher emotional attachment rather than a sexual release.
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Apr 7 @ 4:30PM  
I'm just lookin for a couple of nuts and the back door.

Apr 7 @ 4:32PM  
*pssst! Stand may get trampled!

That is what most women around here want. Problem is, men seem to be too shallow to give more than what is physical. I have met men here who want to be good friends (with benefits) but I've yet to meet a man who wants more. At least, none who have told me!

Apr 7 @ 4:33PM  
Hmmmm...another NC boy? My, my...y'all are on this site in droves! A girl could have a lot of fun if she were to be coming that way...


Apr 7 @ 4:37PM  
As for most of the people pairing off lately,its more than a sex site...its also for dating as well.Not too many women will admit that they want more, in order to impress a guy.But at the heart of it we are relationship-oriented...most men,not so much.Sorry if there's any sweeping generalizations..

Apr 7 @ 4:41PM  
I agree with you on that.

Apr 7 @ 4:41PM  
Can't answer for everyone but there are different kinds of women on here. Some wish only the sex. Some want more than just sex. Some women use it as a means of "entrapping" men into longer, knowing they think with their dicks sometimes lol

It's usually in the essays if you read it...but then sometimes not

Apr 7 @ 4:45PM  
Great points be put out.
Perhaps some men will read your replies.
an open mind and or an open heart is a bad thing to waste.

Apr 7 @ 4:58PM  
For every person on here there are different reasons to be here.
So the answer is yes to all versions of the question.

Apr 7 @ 5:05PM  
I've been thinking about this...using sex as a lure. What would be the point? Sex doesn't equal love, nor does having lots of sex (even if you call it "making love") make love happen. Do women really think that's how to get a man to love them - to fuck or suck 'em until their eye are rolled back in their heads - and *pow!* you get a wedding ring?

Apr 7 @ 5:12PM  
Yes some women do think that.
And some men think if they say the right things, even misleading ones, they'll get sex.

Apr 7 @ 5:40PM  
And some men think if they say the right things, even misleading ones, they'll get sex.

And they do ;)

Apr 7 @ 6:19PM  
Everyone seeks what they don't have, or fantasies about how things would be if. Some wish for wealth, some for health. If you have money, money seems unimportant to you. If your healthy, being sick is the last thing on your mind. I think relationships are very similar. If a man, is fortunate enough to be in a relationship where the sex is frequent, exciting and uninhibited, its the last thing on his mind is sex. He is able to focus on being a partner. When the sex is routine, or it seems like a chore for the female, I think he is less likely to want to be part of the relationship. My point is this, for a man, without a strong physical side there is no emotional connection. For a women, if there is not a strong emotional connection, there's not going to be a physical one either. I am speaking in general terms only.

Apr 7 @ 6:21PM  
As as man, Ill takes whats I can gets.

Most of us men are looking for more than sex as well... of course sex is a good start and...well don't get me wrong...

We just want atleast sex, its o.k. to admit this, it doesn't make you less of a man to say you want to be loved....pussy.


Apr 7 @ 7:44PM  
I know I didn't use sex as a lure. Never have. I want sex. Plenty of sex. I'm just not willing to have it with just anyone. I found exactly what I wanted here...which includes sex. I think too many men treat this site (or have expectations) as an Internet whorehouse. They expect that just because a woman is on this site, she should be willing to have sex with them. Ah, only in fantasy land...or when you pay for your whore.

Apr 8 @ 12:59AM  
And some men think if they say the right things, even misleading ones, they'll get sex.

Heh-heh...some women do the same thing and it works every time.

Apr 8 @ 1:45AM  
Watch what they do, not what they say.

Apr 9 @ 12:13PM  
So far seems just lure and blogs... Unless you are a woman seeking a woman.

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