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posted 4/6/2008 7:28:49 PM |
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Mutual, or simultaneous, orgasms are great, but I'm beginning to believe they aren't worth the effort sometimes.

Some people put so much emphasis on climaxing together, the pressure becomes counter-productive. Why not just cum when you're ready and then start on another? Nothing wrong with taking turns. And when a simultaneous orgasm does occur, it is special.

What do you think?

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Apr 6 @ 7:34PM  
I agree, I cum when I cum, I am not holding back and waiting......But then women can cum over and over again......

Apr 6 @ 7:34PM  
Doesn't matter to me where they're together or separate. Most of the time, I'm going to have 10 to his 1 I've got no reason to complain!


Apr 6 @ 7:43PM  
When they cum, let them cum! When your with your special one your bodies will become intune and many times will work their magic with out any extra effort!

Apr 6 @ 7:55PM  
I prefer seperately, if my partner has an orgasm at the same time as me, it distrubs my train of thought.

Apr 6 @ 7:56PM  
Whenever it happens to either one is fine.
Together is great but it’s like a once in a blue moon type thing, special because it is so rare.

Apr 6 @ 7:59PM  
i LOVE to cum together...feels so great to both be shuddering and quivering at the same time, even if i have cum several times, i can often manage another jolt to enhance his pleasure with some pulsating action...

Apr 6 @ 8:36PM  
I thought simultaneous orgasms were a myth of the sixties or the seventies or something.

I find any kind of thinking or concentrating gets in the way of letting go.

Apr 6 @ 8:43PM  
My girl and I have simultaneous orgasms frequently; I would even call them de rigeur...but I think that speaks more to the connection involved...if you and your girl are BOTH in exactly the same mindset, and the breathing gets're sweaty...grinding...staring into each other's eyes...sloppy kisses...well, let's just say that I don't think simultaneous orgasms are exactly a pipe dream, and those of you who DO should examine your mood when you shove Tab "C" into Slot "P".

Apr 6 @ 9:13PM  
i dont think much about it...just let go...perhaps i can multi-task...

Apr 6 @ 11:06PM  
I agree...of course women are lucky and we can cum many times hopefully!!

Apr 6 @ 11:30PM  
Ooooh, mutual orgasms are the best!!! But I think you have to get to know someone's body (signals, etc) before that can really happen...or, at least, to be "the norm" between 2 people.

That said, I don't see that mutual (simultaneous) needs to be the goal at all. In fact, "staggering" them prolongs the experience...and I'm all for that!!!

Apr 6 @ 11:34PM  
i don't care when he cums as long as it is with me or after me. NOT BEFORE ME

Apr 6 @ 11:39PM  
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Mutual (simultaneous) Orgasms