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  sundance64

There have been alot of suggestions, innuendos and insinuations flying back and forth, and I for one am getting a little tired of it. So...in an effort to clear the air a little, I'm going to attempt to...well, clear the air and offer up a few realities.

First...

I did a little research (yea, I've got too much time on my hands this week...Fred's here and I can't do other things that I'd like to...) I found that a little less than a third of the total members on this site are paying (Gold) members. Of those members that are Gold...less than half have been active in the last month.

It's been hinted that Gold members have more pull...or say so on this site. Actually, since Gold members don't have ad banners, it seems that they would have less pull...here's why:

Ad banners typically cost the advertiser around 3 -5 thousand annually...either in annual fees or in Price per Click....which means they have to pay whenever someone clicks on their ad.

A gold member...if they pay for an entire year, spends 80.00...if they only pay per month, it's 20.00 a month. My understanding is that a gold member is only paying for the bandwidth that is used for the extra privileges...the ad banners actually pay the salaries and other overhead costs of the site.

Now think about this...if every member went gold, the site would either have to A) Raise the membership fees to cover the costs of losing advertising due to the fact that Gold members don't have ad banners, or B) Change the format so Gold members do have ad banners...

So...to say that a Gold member has more say in how the site is run...is incorrect. I've been a Gold member, and know plenty of other people who are Gold members. I know plenty of people have written to the admin and complained about various things such as forums threads being deleted and blogs being deleted "unfairly". I've also been seeing people insinuating that because they aren't a Gold member, they'll get canceled for speaking up about this. Okay...so who's been canceled for speaking up? Anyone? Who's even been suspended for complaining?

I will say this...speaking from my OWN experience on this site in the last two years...both as a Gold member and a Free member...

The only 'special' privledges a Gold member has are:

* no advertisements on site
* initiate instant messages
* see who has viewed your profile
* view all nude pics
* photo filtering of nude men/women
* highlighted profile
* show up first in search results
* private photo album

One thing that isn't mentioned here is that a Gold member can also forward emails...so I did a little more research and found out how that works...
A Gold member can forward emails to their own private off-site email address that they have registered to the site. Those emails can then be edited...

No member has the ability to edit or alter any emails that are sitting in their AMD mailbox...as the people who took me up on my challenge to see the truth found out last week. Hmmm...seems they found a big difference there huh?

I, personally, have never had any more or any better or worse response from the site admin over complaints or suggestions as a Gold member than I have as a free member.

Now...speaking of "special privileges"...

Neither I nor anyone on my friends list can delete blogs other than our own. We also cannot delete forum threads or do anything with them other than post comments. No one other than the moderator or the site administrators can do this. And neither I nor anyone on my friends list **except Matchdoctor!** is either of those two things. Okay...so I have Matchdoctor (The Bear) on my friends list...so do alot of other people...it means nothing except I sent a friend request and he approved it. Are we buds? No...but I'm still waiting for a reply to the 'wannafuck' email I sent him...hey...it could happen, right? Eh...probably not, but a girl can dream...

My point is...if someone thinks anyone who is not either employed by Online Singles or a representative of Online Singles in any capacity can do those things...they're wrong.

On to other things...for those who haven't already passed out from boredom...

I've been getting emails from people on my friend list, saying they've been getting harassed by "new" profiles...

Stop it. Leave my friends alone...you got a beef with me, be an adult and have the courage to take it up with me.

I've also been getting emails from others who say that they're being told they can't talk to so and so if they want to talk to so and so.

WHAT??

First of all...I have to ask; since when does talking equal fucking? Since when does harmless flirting (as in flirting with someone you will probably never meet...)equal cheating? And who decides when and how two people cross the line from friendly flirting to being exclusive?

To that last...I'd say it's no one's business but the two people who decide to be (or not to be) exclusive.

Finally, to put certain rumors to rest...

My good friend Nomi is coming to NC in two weeks...

She's coming here to see ME. Her original intent to fly down here is and has always been to see ME. We will probably drive to High Point (ALL of us!) to have lunch and meet jcarolina while she's here...because WE All THREE want to meet him! And unless either me, Billy or Nomi has said elsewhere privately, No One Else is invited to my home! So stop trying to start stupid rumors...this is what's really going on! If you haven't received an invite...you're not invited. Period.

Oh...to my friends...and you all know who you are...don't take that last statement the wrong way...you know what I mean.

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TheAvenger

Apr 5 @ 12:12PM  
You mean people actually care about this trivial shit? Who gives a damn what "prviileges" Gold members get or don't get?

And who gives a damn who's coming to visit you and why?

Meaning, why would people even concern themselves with such things?



rnj1013

Apr 5 @ 12:13PM  
I'm not a gold member but I can still see nude pics on here. A few people have asked me how I can see them and I have no answer for them other than, I can.
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 12:18PM  
Some people really don't have a life...everything in their little world revolves around what goes on in this little corner of the web. It's sad...especially when they have to make shit up in order to justify they're behavior...

For me...I have real friends on this site...people who I interact with offsite more than on...this place is little more than an amusing diversion for me...and contrary to popular belief I don't spend 24/7 on here. I pop in from time to time when the computer is free and see what's going on...answer emails and scratch my head at all the stupid shit some people come up with here...
str8ngr84u2

Apr 5 @ 12:18PM  
Guess I have missed it all again!!! Whew...
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 12:20PM  
I'm not a gold member but I can still see nude pics on here. A few people have asked me how I can see them and I have no answer for them other than, I can.

If you were an active member before they changed the format over a year ago...and have remained active, as in logged in at least once every two weeks...then you were 'grandfathered'.
Also...when someone posts a picture, they have the option of checking whether or not it's a nude pic...if they don't check the box saying it's a nude pic anyone can see it.
str8ngr84u2

Apr 5 @ 12:21PM  
I'm not a gold member but I can still see nude pics on here. A few people have asked me how I can see them and I have no answer for them other than, I can.

You had to have been here before the effects took place. There was a time that all non-gold members could see explicit photos. When they made the changes to only gold members seeing them, they also made a stipulation that anyone who was non-gold(at that time) could continue to see as long as they logged into their account at least once every two weeks.

I hope I stated this clearly...
asnet

Apr 5 @ 12:21PM  
That is a screenful SunD.
I think I will go as far as saying
Talking and fucking are different.
As for the rest,
I am not good at some fantasies and superstitions.

ladybootscooter

Apr 5 @ 12:22PM  
Who gives a damn what "prviileges" Gold members get or don't get?
Duh! gold members!!
since when does talking equal fucking?
Apparently it does to some. I think it's a "territorial" thing tho
If you haven't received an invite...you're not invited. Period.
Oh well why didn't ya say so?
Hey coffee alone wasn't cutting it, had to have some grits for breakfast!
GSpotGina

Apr 5 @ 12:23PM  
Billy or Nomi has said elsewhere privately, No One Else is invited to my home! So stop trying to start stupid rumors...this is what's really going on! If you haven't received an invite...you're not invited. Period.

Oh, phuck! I better go change those plane reservations.

lol j/k. My wish... for anyone who started those stupid rumors is that a bus load of Greek tourists shows up at their doorstep.
ladybootscooter

Apr 5 @ 12:24PM  
*runs back through and tosses out a kudo!*
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 12:28PM  
Oh well why didn't ya say so?
Hey coffee alone wasn't cutting it, had to have some grits for breakfast!



LBS...didn't I say you'd have to make your own grits if you come here?
ladybootscooter

Apr 5 @ 12:31PM  
LBS...didn't I say you'd have to make your own grits if you come here?
Just for that gonna send Billy my recipe for cheesy grits! Great as a side dish, give ya a break from noodles and smashy taters!!
rnj1013

Apr 5 @ 12:32PM  
Damn! Have I really been here that long? I gotta get a life or somethin.
themama

Apr 5 @ 12:38PM  
I for one am happy you posted this.. I have had a gold member that keeps changing his name and mail me the same thing once a month. They were some nasty mails I got from him.. So I finally had enough and reported him.. And also wrote him back telling him to leave me alone..
HE wrote back telling me I'm a scanky whore. And who are they gonna believe him or me cause I'm not a gold member.. I just reported him again and blocked him..
I hope he reads this. But I know he won't..
themama

Apr 5 @ 12:42PM  
Oops forgot.. I am one that does also care about Nomi coming to see you guys..
Hoping she has a great time....
jcarolina

Apr 5 @ 12:43PM  
I like the way you think, Sunny. I'm glad I'm getting to know what's what around here.

Thanks and I'm looking forward to meeting you guys,too. All of you.

And if anyone has a problem with that, I hope they can be adults and kiss my ass over it.

I don't like people trying to get in my business, if you don't know me, don't judge me only by my comments here. I'm easygoing and I try to avoid trouble but I'm no pansy.

I also don't appreciate people taking things I say out of context and trying to make it look like I said something else. Keep your disturbia to yourself.

I was gonna post a blog about this, but you saved me the trouble Sunny. I hope you don't mind.

Here's something green.
zaralyon

Apr 5 @ 12:52PM  
All that really matters is that you all have fun. Nomi is a wonderful lady and you all deserve some fun and laughs. If others can't understand then they are just plain jealous.
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 12:54PM  
Mama...does a Gold member stay blocked after they change their name but keep the same account? Something to look into...can anyone do an experiment and find out?

Like I said...it really doesn't matter if someone is a gold member or not...paying members have to abide by the rules just like everyone else. In fact...Gold members have their own set of rules here
So, given that...I don't believe a Gold member is going to have any affect on whether or not you are believed by the site. They do have the ability to see what people are doing here...including who has multiple profiles and is using them to harass people.

The best way to report abusive emails is to click on the "Report Abuse" link at the bottom of that email...and every other abusive email you receive...before blocking someone. If they see that you are receiving abusive emails from different profiles...they can find out if it's coming from the same IP and then do something about that.
themama

Apr 5 @ 1:05PM  
Sundance nope evertime I blocked him and he changed his name he would send me the mail..Hmm just thought though he might have multiple accounts on here...
Yep that is how I report every thing....


sundance64

Apr 5 @ 1:11PM  
Multiple Gold accounts??? Gawd...nothing like having too much time AND money to waste...I mean really...it's not like you can just create a new profile, you also have to use a different email address, and a different method of payment...

That's something the site needs to address...if a Gold member is being blocked, then changing their name simply to be able to continue harassing people...
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 1:16PM  
No one has asked who Fred is...
themama

Apr 5 @ 1:18PM  
Just went and looked I know of had 3 names and the other two are not one my blocked list.. Just the new one he is under..
Yeah that would be alot of money if they are all different accounts..
Some people?
themama

Apr 5 @ 1:19PM  
Ok I will who is Fred???/
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 1:20PM  
I posted a comment in the Help and Suggestions thread...hopefully the Bear will see it, and I linked this blog to it as well...
themama

Apr 5 @ 1:30PM  
Thank you..
clickedanad2

Apr 5 @ 1:34PM  
ok "GOLDIES"
how cum I can post that pretty blue thingie to the left
butttttttttttt
the explosive red thingie keeps gettin' rejected by
"YOU"
don't like red or what????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this site is no different than any other
it's run by "THEM"
and you ain't "THEM"
max49

Apr 5 @ 1:50PM  
I've been here forever and when they switched so that only gold members could see naked pics they switched me as well. I am here at least twice a week but most generally more than that. I CAN'T SEE NAKED PICS!!! I'M GETTING SCREWED!!! WELL AT LEAST I WISH I WAS!!!
TheAvenger

Apr 5 @ 1:50PM  
Duh! gold members!!

Duh...I meant WHY do they give a damn about it? Like that MEANS something? Like because they're ...ooh! .... GOLD members, that somehow makes them "special?"

Duh ???

DarkDesires99

Apr 5 @ 1:54PM  
Well I hope you all have a wonderful visit together with Nomi and also with jcarolina.
SxzeNewMe

Apr 5 @ 1:56PM  
Damn, sunny, we could start our own R&D consultation company! I'm damned good at it, too ;) Well done on the research!

But I don't think I saw anyone mention the most fun privilege of upgrading...creating colorful emails, blogs, and comments and posting images!!!




As for the other things...

I've been a standard member longer than I've been a gold member. What I don't like is this feeling that gold members are some how better than standard members - or that we think we are...which is like saying the star-bellied sneeches are better than the ones w/o stars (okay, bad example...they are better! ) I have never seen things this way - I wish everyone could splash color all over this site!!!

And if anyone has a problem with that, I hope they can be adults and kiss my ass over it.
So, if I don't have a problem with it, do I get to kiss something else??? Hey, it never hurts to ask!

She's coming here to see ME. Her original intent to fly down here is and has always been to see ME.
Well, and Billy, too! But yeah...gotta see my girl and talk smack about men!!! And if I am so fortunate as to meet anyone else down there, well...dat be my bizness!

Oh...and let's not forget...there's someone else going with me; my niece/daughter! And she is ever-so-anxious to meet all of y'all!!! (I'm working on her joining AMD...ya been warned!)

surfin4fun

Apr 5 @ 1:58PM  
Good Blog! However, like some, I missed the boat on all the undercurrents, so I don't know what pushed you to have to go the lengths you did, to do that excellent research. It must sure take, some of the fun, out of being here.

You konw it sounds like the immature stuff we left behind in high school and for me, that was a long time ago I'm surprised I can remember that, since I usually can't remember what I have for breakfast. I would like to try those grits though! I hope this clears things up for you, or at least give you a rest.

I did learn one thing, that if I enjoy this site, and want to help support it, I should occasionally click on one of those ad links, which I will start doing. A kudo for your effort and frustration...
LadyLuLu

Apr 5 @ 2:06PM  
You have amnesia!!! I recall a blog you did that was worse than anything posted here and gold members stayed while I aim2pleez...who by the way, was telling the truth and mild compared to you...was cancelled. Not all of us buy your stuff Sundance...or the TOA definition you and the "guys " come up with here. The TOA is intrepeted for the use of the control people here...not for consistent violations. Where was the control when things were really bad here....also the rules for blogs do not say they have to be about sex....this blog proves it...you aren't worried about getting cancelled it appears....I have to wonder why!!! No kudo for this junk!!!
Besides, no one caes who is coming to your house...
nawtikitty

Apr 5 @ 2:14PM  
Gold members pay $$ for privileges. I have no issue with that at all. It has nothing to do with how the site is run-that's an admin function, not a member

since when does talking equal fucking?

when does harmless flirting equal cheating?

who decides when and how two people cross the line from friendly flirting to being exclusive?

All things being relevant..when does talking equal OWNERSHIP of the other person or putting someone else on the spot where they have to be accountable to another member for just talking to someone?

Have fun Sundance
Scottishtease

Apr 5 @ 2:20PM  
Just wanted to say that I hope Nomi has a great time with you guys in NC she deserves it & you have never been anything but nice & sweet to me. JMO
hopon

Apr 5 @ 2:32PM  
thank you for grandfathering! and make sure you tell jcarolina that I said hello!!!
itsallforfun

Apr 5 @ 2:39PM  
I hope you all have a blast when Nomi comes!!! Enjoy the time together and I think its great that you get the chance to do this!!!
belle1010

Apr 5 @ 2:56PM  
Well, I still want to know who Fred is! And what the heck he has to do with all of this. You can have just as much fun here as a gold member as you can as a non-gold-member. I was a free member for about 2 years. I do wish jealousy wasn't as rampant on this site. It seems as though everytime a woman is happy and has found a potential mate, someone has to come along and ruin it.


Please don't let this mess you up mentally, you are still the same person I consider my friend.


XOXOXOXOXOHugs and Kisses

Belle1010
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 2:58PM  
You have amnesia!!! I recall a blog you did that was worse than anything posted here and gold members stayed while I aim2pleez...who by the way, was telling the truth and mild compared to you...was cancelled.

Really?? Which one was that Dayna? The one that was deleted BY THE SITE???

As for the truth...the members who actually wanted the truth...got it...unedited and unaltered.

Not all of us buy your stuff Sundance...or the TOA definition you and the "guys " come up with here. The TOA is intrepeted for the use of the control people here...not for consistent violations. Where was the control when things were really bad here....also the rules for blogs do not say they have to be about sex....this blog proves it...you aren't worried about getting cancelled it appears....I have to wonder why!!! No kudo for this junk!!!
Besides, no one caes who is coming to your house...

Actually Dayna...none of these people buy YOUR stuff...and the comments here prove it. No...I'm not worried about being banned...I'm not in violation of any rules here. If you're so concerned about the rules not being applied fairly...why are you using a different profile? Hmmm...I guess you aren't too concerned about getting canned either...are you?
And...since when do you speak for the whole site? To say NO ONE CARES is ludicrous...considering I got a whole blog full of comments from plenty of people who obviously DO CARE!

If you don't like what you see...STAY THE FUCK OFF MY BLOG!!
NightOfOld

Apr 5 @ 3:02PM  

I went gold once on here, but was having so much trouble with the site at the time I decided to stay a standard member.

I hope Nomi has a great time. She's a great gal.

And for the friends list ? I have not been harassed or threatened in any way by anyone for being on it. If anyone has any intentions of doing so though.? They
will be removed from my list and blocked. I will not put up with that. My friends
are my friends. I do not choose sides period.

As for not being invited ? I am disapointed. I really had the hots for Billy;
{ not }

Now all that said; WANNA FUCK SUNNY.
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 3:05PM  
Chuck...

You have an open invitation always!

And Billy says "Yea I wanna fuck Sunny!!"
canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 3:32PM  
"What part of leave me the fuck alone or I will hurt your fucking feelings" lead you to believe it would be okay to bother Sunny....

Look for it coming soon.
True confessions
ValentineGirl214

Apr 5 @ 3:33PM  
WHO'S FRED???
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 3:41PM  
Okay okay...

This was a joke started by one of my cousins...Fred is the name she has for her period!

I know...TMI...but ya'll asked!
SxzeNewMe

Apr 5 @ 3:43PM  
I don't know who Fred is, but I want to know, too - dammit!!!
GSpotGina

Apr 5 @ 3:48PM  
ROFL here. Fred never comes to visit me. It's always Flo!
canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 3:50PM  
I recall a blog you did that was worse than anything posted here and gold members stayed while I aim2pleez...who by the way, was telling the truth and mild compared to you...was cancelled.

(I left your type-o in...)

I am reserving the right to dispell the outrageous lie in my up coming expose on "Life in Da Clique "True Confessions of The Hit."

But please feel free to e-mail the lie you are telling to the admin of this site yourself... so they can discard it as another stupid lie as well

Go away now you're time has passed.
canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 4:00PM  
ou mean people actually care about this trivial shit? Who gives a damn what "prviileges" Gold members get or don't get?

And who gives a damn who's coming to visit you and why?

Meaning, why would people even concern themselves with such things?
You sure as hell must... you stick around though you seem to hold us all in disdain...
ynot7769

Apr 5 @ 4:12PM  
But please feel free to e-mail the lie you are telling to the admin of this site yourself

not sure bout all that BUT writing admin is a fuckin waste of time more often then not............damn shame but true
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 4:22PM  
Prolly true Y...but it's been true for EVERYONE lately...not just a few...

ynot7769

Apr 5 @ 4:30PM  
never said that they're ignoring us was just a ME thing........but when they fuck up the billing for my membership n then choose to NOT reply to my complaint......well THAT pisses me off
canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 4:32PM  
Here's the thing amigo...

Here is an example.... some new guy posts a thread about hating fat women....

People start reporting,.....

In the mean while a few regs jump his ass pretty good...

The new guy gets canned? But the regs calling people bitch boy and fuck face stay?

There have been way too many stupid little things reported.. people whine to the site about every little snide comment and innuendo EVERY DAMNED LITTLE ONE.... one person in particular reports shit that is so vague ot could be written about Saint god damn Nick... no one can tell....

Now you tell me why reporting does no good... I mean seriously anyone know the story of the boy who cried wolf? Not saying YOU but enough people got trigger happy with the abuse button that this side is written off as too god damned whiny....

In so far as fairness goes... you've been lied to... by one of the most lying people I've ever seen.... so have too damned many and they believe it ... which is why I'm so pissy lately....

I'm also of the opinion is the grass is greener else where why the fuck hang around here and bitch all the time....

canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 4:45PM  
I foresee a big ole dose of what been termed unfairness coming....

Just sayin' enjoy it now.... I doubt this one will go without being deleted eventually...

OH I KNOW SUNNY CAN DELETE IT HERSELF SO SHE CAN BITCH ABOUT FAIRNESS...







just sayin'
NachoBaby

Apr 5 @ 6:03PM  
Yeah you bitchez missed me like candy didn't ya? Jebus jumpin up and down on a tricycle.. WHAT the hell.. the almighty CLIQUE disappeared and nothing happened here did it? Nothing got better.. it's just different assholes barking.. ain't it?

First off whose fugging bizness is it if Nomi and Jeannie and Billy and oh I unno.. JCarolina wanna all jump in the same pool and fornicate? Not yours for damned sure. If Nomi and Billy were hittin it .. as long as Sunny was cool with it, it ain't your bizness. They ain't and she ain't.. but for shits sakes children.. get OVER IT! They are grown people and can make whatever choices they like to make. Ain't no skin off your nose? Is it? If it is I suggest switching to puffs.. cuz a nose in need likes puffs indeed.

over..
SxzeNewMe

Apr 5 @ 6:07PM  
First off whose fugging bizness is it if Nomi and Jeannie and Billy and oh I unno.. JCarolina wanna all jump in the same pool and fornicate?

Damn...is that what's gonna happen? I'm bringing my camera!
Nacho..baby...good to see you back...really...










NOW I can get back to talking about blow jobs? I mean...isn't that my job?
aftershox

Apr 5 @ 6:08PM  
.. drive-by kudo
sundance64

Apr 5 @ 6:19PM  
If Nomi and Billy were hittin it .

Wait what??? When did this happen?? And did anyone get pictures??

Dammit...I leave to go listen to the music in the basement and miss all the good stuff!

Welcome back squirrel...I missed ya...sort of! I mean...you were still here and all but still...

My evil plan worked...it got you out of hiding...bwahahahahahahah!!!!
SxzeNewMe

Apr 5 @ 6:23PM  
Okay, now y'all are just scarin' me!
canuhelpme258

Apr 5 @ 9:17PM  
the almighty CLIQUE disappeared and nothing happened here did it? Nothing got better.. it's just different assholes barking.. ain't it?

I hear the words of the almighty gold member echoing in the voices today... the good ole behind the scenes starter of shit... the one who alters mail... the one who deletes her own shit... the one who was warned

I hear her echoing today... so do others... she never left.. just logs in invisible and waits....
greeneyes66

Apr 5 @ 10:15PM  
It appears that some here, and this is only at first glance, seem to want to throw their weight around and dislike opinions that are opposed to their own. Much history I am unaware of but I can tell you that so far this site looks like a playpen and a couple of the men on this blog appear to be the head bullies. Just my opinion. Must be easy to beat up on women online...very nice information about the site though.
TheAvenger

Apr 5 @ 10:21PM  
You sure as hell must... you stick around though you seem to hold us all in disdain..

Oh, and you are SADLY mistaken, my friend. For one thing...I couldn't give a shit less about who is coming to visit you and why...or who else wants to insinuate themselves into your private life. (Meaning, that I figure who is coming to visit you is none of my business and it's really something I don't care to know).

And I don't hold "all" of you in disdain..I hold "some" of you in disdain. This board comprises different people with different opinions and the people I "disdain" are, comparatively speaking, few in number.

And I also couldn't give a shit less about who is a gold member here, either.

So why you make such asinine presumptions about me I don't know.

With very few exceptions, I don't care one iota about what goes on in any of your personal lives; my opinions are about human behavior in general and has absolutely NOTHING to do with them, personally. Although since the "me, me, me" attitude doth run rampant in this place amongst some people here, I can see where people might actually get the impression what I say is about *them* specifically. I assure you, it is not.

The sooner you realize that not everyone is obligated to jump on "the clique's" bandwagon, the better you will be able to get along. How do you guys make it in real life, is what I wonder, when you're faced with opposing viewpoints every single day?

Anyway...to clarify for you, I'm here because I enjoy intelligent debate and discussion, not to read blogs about trivial bullshit about who is visiting who, who is jealous because someone else got their cock sucked and someone else didn't, about all the "psycho bitches" who are apparently lime green with envy over some apparently self-proclaimed "hot babe," or who is "Blog Queen/King for the Day." Frankly, very immature stuff, if you ask me. Though it does have an element of amusement to it...in a "I can't believe people actually concern themselves with such shit" type of way.

ladybootscooter

Apr 5 @ 10:57PM  
It appears that some here, and this is only at first glance, seem to want to throw their weight around and dislike opinions that are opposed to their own. Much history I am unaware of but I can tell you that so far this site looks like a playpen and a couple of the men on this blog appear to be the head bullies. Just my opinion. Must be easy to beat up on women online...very nice information about the site though.

Hmmmmmm Such an astute and indepth observation for someone who joined 16 min before posting this comment
greeneyes66

Apr 6 @ 1:49AM  
It doesn't take long to find junk on here....whatever your implying is probably paranoia on your part. I will post more tomorrow if it will make you feel better....
ladybootscooter

Apr 6 @ 2:36AM  
whatever your implying is probably paranoia on your part
Nothing implied whatsoever, just a very astute indepth observation on my part!
sundance64

Apr 6 @ 3:15AM  
It appears that some here, and this is only at first glance, seem to want to throw their weight around and dislike opinions that are opposed to their own
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Hmmm...yep that sounds about right, but that's not what this blog is about.

Much history I am unaware of but I can tell you that so far this site looks like a playpen and a couple of the men on this blog appear to be the head bullies.
Nope...the REAL bully has left the building...or at least gone into hiding only to come out and take cheap shots from behind fake profiles.

Just my opinion. Must be easy to beat up on women online...very nice information about the site though.

Who's getting beat up on?

But like you said...very nice information...
sundance64

Apr 6 @ 12:54PM  
It's truly amazing...and a little sad...that a few people who insist on playing both sides of the fence... cheer the one side in public while sending emails of support to the other?

Wow...

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