My smooth moves seem to be failing me lately, so I've started going for the upfront, truthful approach. (well sometimes) This makes me curious though, when flirting and sending messages online, how truthful is too truthful? Secondly...Guys...lets hear some of your smoothest moves? For me it's all about talking, flirting, laughing and joking. So my best is verbal, generally some sort of icebreaker game. My best one shall stay a secret though! Muahahahahahaaa
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lunanegra
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Apr 4 @ 2:07PM
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Too truthful is saying that you have a human head in your freezer....
You don't admit that until the 3rd date.
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Scottishtease
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Apr 4 @ 2:07PM
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From a woman's point of view sexyme I can tell you that I personally like upfront and honest, makes you more approachable...just as long as you are not talking about how you skinned a animal in the 8th grade yucky...ok? Tease. ;>)
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max49
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Apr 4 @ 2:13PM
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I think the best thing to do is just be yourself. I am me and nothing more. Either you like me or you don't. If you do then talk to me if not then don't. I think that makes it as simple as it can get.
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sexyme4sexyu
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Apr 4 @ 2:23PM
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rofl thanks on that, I'll make sure to not mention the dead bodies till later.
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ThePurpleProphet
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Apr 4 @ 2:37PM
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Wouldn't it suck to hide something or not be truthful about something and fall in love only for her to find out later and it be a deal breaker in her eyes. Then she leaves you for that reason and the fact that you lied. I try to be upfront and honest about everything tha way I know she like me for me and not some portrayal.
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slohand_47
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Apr 4 @ 2:57PM
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Smooth lines sound exactly like........ smooth lines.
Talk 1/3 of the time, be a GOOD listener, and you will seem brilliant.
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sexyme4sexyu
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Apr 4 @ 3:01PM
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lol, wise words.
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sexyme4sexyu
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Apr 4 @ 3:04PM
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I'd still like to hear the smooth lines though...it always makes for good conversation...or at least a good laugh!
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asnet
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Apr 4 @ 3:15PM
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Tricky.
Catch 22.
You're damned it you do, or if you don't.
But it often separates the sheep from the goats.
Many women say this is what they want,
then run screaming when it happens.
Use as much restraint as feels comfortable,
but don't expect to manipulate people successfully.
And most people have pretty thin skins ...
if the truth hurts, as it often does,
they is Gone.
In recent years more marriage counseling psychologists have begun to say:
STFU!!
Your mate does not need to know about your affairs, for example,
unless you are announcing why you want a divorce.
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1bunny629
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Apr 4 @ 4:15PM
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what if she found the head in your freezer and realized it was her dead sister?! 
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nawtikitty
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Apr 4 @ 4:20PM
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If you're out looking just for sex? Say so. People do not like to be lied to under any circumstances. It makes anything else you ever say suspicous. Any kind of communication will be based on apprehension.
Not how you want things to be
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sundance64
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Apr 4 @ 4:22PM
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Up front and honest is good...sharing all your secrets, fetishes and kinks on the first chat is not. There's a difference in 'hiding' things and waiting to share something til you know the person a little better...
Good blog! Welcome to Pervia!! 
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sexyme4sexyu
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Apr 4 @ 4:32PM
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lol thanks, I'm kind of enjoying the advice now, though i do admit I had other intentions when I started the blog
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