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posted 4/4/2008 11:50:37 AM |
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Look woman i need some comments so i will be able help my relationships in the future. Okay all the woman i date an we eventually get strong feelings for each other usually break it off. And honestly im a gentleman, do what ever they want, buy them flowers sometimes just to do it, take em out, i even open their car door. Now my point is when i was a dick to my ex's they seemed to stick around longer. So its like if im a dick they will stay, but being to nice is too much for them. what should i do? i dont like being a dick, no fun.

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itsallforfun

Apr 4 @ 11:56AM  
Don't be a dick...obviously those girls were young and immature...personally I like when a man treats me like a lady...so stay nice you will find one that appreciates it!!
SxzeNewMe

Apr 4 @ 11:57AM  
Women are such fickle creatures (canuhelpme28 will tell you it's because of some crazy rib ... I don't know - but don't listen to him! ) My sister was like that - if a man treated her well, she dumped on him then dumped him. If a man treated her like shit, she chased his ass. Go figure!
BABYDOLL666

Apr 4 @ 12:08PM  
Ill tell you now if you start being a dick again your just digging your own grave stick to being sweet you will meet some one in the long run who apriciates it beleive me ....... Yes you do have those woman who seem to like dick heads but most woman likes a gentleman really u know what just be yourself dont change for anyone
casuallylooking

Apr 4 @ 12:11PM  
I don't know why some women do that.. But it sure makes the rest of us look bad sometimes.
Maybe it takes a little maturity and self worth to appreciate a really good man instead of one that treats you like crap.

Keep on being sweet...you'll find her, or she'll find you.
Most women do honestly want a sweet guy, one who treats her with care and compassion..

And in fairness, there is a difference between being a nice guy and being a wuss that let's women walk all over him, too.
slohand_47

Apr 4 @ 12:12PM  
Women, or men for that matter, who don't care how they are treated, or tolerate being treated poorly are generally suffering from low self esteem.

If dating that type of woman seems to be a pattern for you...... you have to adjust what you are looking for. At first glance, a needy person can be attractive because, for men, it appeals to their "white knight" syndrome. The need to "save" people. For women, a needy guy gives them the chance to "mother" him. Needy people of either sex will also attract narcissistic control freaks...... but that's another story.

Stop looking for projects and date women who don't need saving or fixing.... unless you like the feeling of taking care of the other person....... then by all means, go for it.
DarkDesires99

Apr 4 @ 12:16PM  
Be yourself!
If you are naturally sweet then be that.
If you are trying to be something you are not it will fall apart anyway eventually.
Looking4ever

Apr 4 @ 5:50PM  
I'm with DD...be yourself. Don't do something just because she expects it. Do it because it comes naturally for you and YOU want to do it. We can all be jerks sometimes, even if you don't want or mean to be. If you are, and didn't mean it, don't be afraid to apologize for your behavior. Any woman that can not be treated well, or expects you to do everything to please her, should be a red flag to get away...and quickly. Or, if you see something in her that is beyond that persona, be up front and tell her what you do and don't appreciate about her behavior and treatment of you. But, be prepared for the same in return too.
sexynychef

Jul 25 @ 10:51PM  
I think that would go with what kind of woman you want and what she wants from you. But I'm not sure what being a dick is. Personally nice guys work best for me, but I know women who like the punishments, rough necks.

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