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Anal sex - Is it overrated?

posted 4/4/2008 1:04:30 AM |
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I'm of the opinion that anal sex is all about the "idea" of doing it, rather than the actual act itself. I'm (some would say) lucky enough to be with a lady who loves anal, and before I met her I only experienced it rarely, hence wanting to do it more...

In our sex life we use anal as a treat, rather than doing it every time. To me, it feels much like vaginal sex, but it is the "idea" that makes it really sexy.. So in reality, or physically, sensation-wise, giving anal is not all that different to doing my lady in the pussy. So once you are with someone who loves anal, it becomes much like vaginal sex and then you find yourself asking what all the fuss is about...

Recieving anal is another story. I find it a massive turn-on to be fucked in the ass with a dildo whilst fucking my partner. She loves it also, and adores it in both the pussy and the ass, in fact sometimes to the extent that she can only come if she has both holes filled....

I'm guessing for a lady who loves anal it isn't overrated, but as a man physically and sensation wise it is relatively similar to vaginal... Maybe I'm just lucky to have a partner with a tight pussy, I don't know... I'm guessing men make it a big deal until they get it regularly, and then it becomes less of one....

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Apr 4 @ 1:21AM  

Apr 4 @ 1:42AM  

But realy... it just seems unnecessary to me. It's one thing if your partner only has one lower hole, and your tired of oral or simply feel the need to go deeper than your partners throat... otherwise I just have to ask, "whats wrong with pussy?". Whats next, armpit fucking?

When it gets to the point of you looking for fat chicks to have belly button sex with, it might be time to take a breather.

Of course if it's what gets her off you should go for it... (enema first ladies), but otherwise I just don't see the point.


Apr 4 @ 2:48AM  
I recently got into this same discussion on a different site... I finally broke it down thusly:

Vaginal; friction applies mainly to the inward thrust
oral: friction applies to the up stroke
anal; equal friction on down and upstroke

To me there is a world of difference in sensations, not just the idea of "my peepee is in da bad place." (which helps lol)

Although everyone is different and enjoys different things... variety is whats important to avoid feeling like you're in a rut... learn to enjoy as many different things as you can!

Apr 4 @ 3:15AM  
Well, never done anal before, other than sticking my tongue in her ass a few times.

Apr 4 @ 4:26AM  
Well everyone likes differant things and anal vs pussy. It doesn't matter to a man. A hole, is a hole, is a hole. But what does matter to some men is making his partner happy and if she enjoys anal then he be willing to do it for her. making her happy is the important thing.

Apr 4 @ 8:50AM  
Ah, there's other ways to hurt them.

I love the Sam Kinnison bit about anal. "Yeah, the next time she makes fun of your dick, agree with them. Say "Yeah, it's small. It's fuckin' tiny. That's why your not going to mind it when I shove it up your ass, because it's so small. You'll be able to sleep through it". Then you'll never hear that shit again"

Apr 4 @ 9:22AM  
To me anal is way overrated. It's taboo. It's more of a male thing than a womans. I would never ask a man to "fuck my ass" yet it seems like after a woman has had sex with a woman a few times he brings the subject of anal up. I have a strong feeling it talked about more than done.

Apr 4 @ 10:07AM  
I personally think it's armpit sex that is truly underrated.

I don't see how anal sex could possibly be "over rated" --givin' or gettin' IMHO

Apr 4 @ 10:10AM  
I agree. I think it's better if it's a treat and not done EVERY time.

Apr 4 @ 8:03PM  
I guess you didn't like my comment? Sorry to have bothered you.....

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