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Associated Press Updated 1:49 p.m. PT, Wed., April. 2, 2008

NEW YORK - Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed.
A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.
If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."
Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe that "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."
The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty (who, it must be noted, is male). But he said prior research has shown that both men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.
Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women were armed with stopwatches.)
It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Md
"There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are."
Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple.
Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see.
"People who read this will say, 'I last 5 minutes or my partner lasts 8 minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,'" he said. "They will relax a little bit."

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_MichaelAngelo

Apr 2 @ 9:07PM  
does it count if you add up the minutes when you weren't together at the same time?
1bunny629

Apr 2 @ 9:13PM  
I just want to be in the next study...let me be the only woman...then I will get 1 to 3 to 8 minutes over n over n over again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOWHOOOOOOOOO!
GSpotGina

Apr 2 @ 9:35PM  
It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Md

Not if they're drunk and they "think" they've got a raging hardon which is actually a limp dick. (Hurryupandgetitoverwithwillyou?)
soft_touch938

Apr 2 @ 10:26PM  
It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer


I say balderdash!!! Older men have learned discipline... And that's comin' from the grandma section....
SxzeNewMe

Apr 2 @ 10:40PM  
optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes

OPTIMAL? Who the hell were the test cases - I don't want to fuck any of them!
ThePurpleProphet

Apr 2 @ 11:20PM  
Who really cares how long it last? As long as it finishes in orgasm.
StraddleMyNose

Apr 3 @ 1:20AM  
Oh yeah, it doesn't take me long to make Kim cum. Something like 6-8 minutes most of the time.
canuhelpme258

Apr 3 @ 2:34AM  
I promised Sunny the best 45 seconds of her life before she and I met the first time!

I like to think I delivered!
StraddleMyNose

Apr 3 @ 2:40AM  
*Clears throat* Did I say 6-8 minutes. I made Kim come in like 40 seconds. Beat that Canu!


StraddleMyNose

Apr 3 @ 2:41AM  
Oops, typo there in my last comment. Should read "cum" and not come.
canuhelpme258

Apr 3 @ 2:58AM  
Okay.... I'll time it tonight... but be forewarned I have powers far beyond those of mortal men.... I'm a demigod!
BananaBoy4u

Apr 3 @ 9:35AM  
So, the study doesn't say when a woman is brought to climax that she actually presses the stop button off then back on repeatedly without a consideration for the time lapses.Personally I try to avoid getting it on with any woman armed with a stopwatch, I much prefer different battery operated things....but drw the line at anything that uses gas and needs to be kick started.

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