o my god! ben and i are so frustrated...sometimes i feel like weve chatted with over a thousand ladies but weve only had one lead.i dont think either of us thought it would be this difficult to find another female for our first threesome. what i was hoping to find (in my fantasy world)was a nice female who would let us take her out to dinner and drinks so that we all would feel comfortable and relaxed. then have a threesome... ive actually had several women tell us off because they wanted to meet without chatting or would refuse to tell me if they were disease free.. thats too damn scary for me... are we the only couple who wants someone clean and reasonably sane?  
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jezzarae
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Mar 27 @ 10:05PM
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Can I suggest you try a site called c4p.com it is a swingers site which this one no longer is. It is much more geared to help you find swingers and swinger events in your area.
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Wordsofwit
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Mar 27 @ 10:13PM
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You could try craigslist also personals. casual encounters, C4W. The odds are good but the goods are odd.
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connectwith
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Mar 27 @ 10:34PM
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 want me to dress as a woman?
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beefygoblin
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Mar 27 @ 11:07PM
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Yeah... for some reason being free attracts all the loonies who have no intention of using this service ti achive sexual satifaction... some of them like to lecture men on we are all objectifying women... but if you try to post on theyre blogs they write you nasty letters back and then tell you that theyre smarter than you and that you have no buisness talking to them... YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE (can you belive she actualy said she was "smarter" than me?).
No one will take it serously unless you have to put down money... which sucks becouse it leaves a paper trail (to top off the fact we are already being spied on by the government... the fbi anti-porn squad loves these sites. They are not part of the anti-kiddie porn unit as thats another division... these guys are new).
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orzie
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Mar 27 @ 11:24PM
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must be the hat 
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TheAvenger
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Mar 27 @ 11:41PM
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Some people don't need to find strangers off a website to achieve sexual satisfaction...for some people, it's so readily available to them in real life there's no need to seek it out from strangers. And, for some people, sex is only a part of their life; it's not their be-all-and-end all to life. 
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dumblonde
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Mar 28 @ 12:15AM
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personally...i have no desire to step into a couple's relationship...have sex and go home alone while they cuddle up all happily for the night...
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SpunkyRed
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Mar 28 @ 12:59AM
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I think peeps are still lookin' for the "wham bam thank u maam" ...just sayin' 
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dumblonde
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Mar 28 @ 1:14AM
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go for it then, spunky!!!
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aftershox
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Mar 28 @ 1:54AM
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Some ppl don't need to stalk and post in blogs with total strangers to get their rocks off.
Some ppl have a real life. For them being online here only part of their life and not a be-all-end-all like it is for some really lonely ppl .
Sorry for the rant. Insomnia brought me out tonight.
Back on topic for newnormal, it does take being on more than one site to find what you are looking for.
anyone who insists on meeting without chatting, who won;t be honest about their sexual history including safe sex practices is too dangerous for any fantasy. that goes or guys, gals, couples ... anybody. don't compromise on this point.
plus there is the old chemistry thing. chatting and public face-to-face meetings are an important part of establishing chemistry.
good luck to you. sometimes you can just be looking to hard, and then you might bump into the gal with the right attitiude.
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canuhelpme258
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Mar 28 @ 2:43AM
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Like I said lots of couples looking very few singles looking for couples... tis the nature of the internet in general not just this site...
To touch briefly on this point brought up about this being a sex site...
It is a sex personals and swingers community...
The operative word in my mind being community... Yes lots of others have used this site as a personal playground, and brought soap boxes on a variety of topics. Does that detract from the community?
People here may not be free with whom they jump in the sack with, they may wish to get to know a person first; I would as NewNormal did and be leery of such people. Not just over disease, but for fear of going to meet a person and getting rolled instead.
There are members meeting and quietly hooking up, behind the scenes, they just are not kissing and telling...
I still wish you luck on your search hon... it is not really that easy to find a trustworthy person to share a marital bed, I hope you find what you are looking for.
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TheAvenger
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Mar 28 @ 4:04AM
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Rolled, or perhaps much worse. There are all kinds of sexual deviants out there who have their evil eagle eye on unsuspecting victims. Nothing wrong with taking precautions, that's for sure.
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Dave2Maybe
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Mar 28 @ 11:27AM
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My wife Sally and I ended up with Carol, our friend of many years to take to bed with us. We dress up, go to dinner, have drinks and then have a wet, sloppy good time on weekend nights. The envious looks we get when we're out together are very interesting. We know we can trust each other and know we're safe so we can relax and let go! We'd absolutely love to invite another to join us but it's so difficult! ~ Dave, Sally & Carol
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straightup_9
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Mar 28 @ 11:40AM
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Having read your profile, 3 times,.....and assuming you can accept a little criticizing...I'm still not totally clear as to what you want, or expect...or are willing to accept....and the fact that she owns 3...no make that 2...businesses means what?
Most single women I have talked to regarding having a threesome, were interested in having sex mainly with the woman, and allowing hubby to participate....
If you are just looking for an "extra" woman for hubby...well, good luck...I don't know too many that want that.
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the1unknown963
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Mar 28 @ 12:13PM
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im too in the same boat, me and my gf "who is BI"  are looking for another girl as a playmate  . We have an open relation and have been together for 2 years. Its hard to find some one who is close or real  . We too go threw a screening process. Had not had a hit yet. 
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ajay_t43
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Mar 28 @ 12:42PM
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lol, at least you get some.
hell I've been trying for more than 1.5 years and still am a virgin!
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joanne2000
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Mar 29 @ 12:39AM
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I say lets make plans 
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canuhelpme258
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Mar 29 @ 4:12AM
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Rolled, or perhaps much worse. There are all kinds of sexual deviants out there who have their evil eagle eye on unsuspecting victims. Nothing wrong with taking precautions, that's for sure.
I fell for a pair of tits on a web cam early one saturday morning... something told me not to go empty handed....
I pulled in a driveway and a guy with a bat jumped from behind some shrubs... I politely asked him if he wanted to be shot and let with his wallet
Dumbass.. all I had in the thing was snake shot
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