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Even though the tempertures outside don't reflect it (yet). Springtime for me is
re-birth time. The birds are birding and the bees start bee-ing. And Love should be in the air. I came across this this blog I wrote awhile back. Forgive me if I re-post it now.
Stupid Love
I was sitting in my office today and enjoying the sun on my face for a change. A song about Love came on the radio and of course my mind began to fold into itself like a cheap cardboard box.
I should make my disclaimer here so I don’t get in trouble later;
The views expressed in this blog are the sole thoughts (except for the quote at the end) and responsibility of this Blogger. They are in no way the opinions of the management of any thing that’s really important.

I’ve Loved and been Loved. Been driven crazy by it. Had times when I thought I’d simply waste away to nothing if I didn’t somehow bring it, find it, trick it, but somehow get it into my life. I’m better now. So today I attempted to understand some types of love. Dare I say even put a label on Love?

Innocent Love: I think this is your very first Love. It’s the girl or boy down the street that you suddenly and for no particular reason want to be around. In this form you might hold hands, you might even go against all the rules and risk cooties and kiss. If you’re a boy you’ll even carry her books home from school just so you can walk with her. If you’re a girl you’ll let him.
Under this same title is the Love you’ll feel for the children in your life. Yours, all your relatives’ children and all the kids in the neighbor hood that your children bring by the house. You love them all.

Warm and Fuzzie Love: Puppy dogs and kittens top this list I think. Probably about all the creatures of our great planet can give someone the warm and fuzzies. Even spiders and snakes.

Found Love: This is a love that you probably never knew was lost to begin with. Somehow it was just kind of forgotten, pushed off to the side because you were to busy with something else. Something like a hobby or a good book. Maybe it’s a painting you saw long ago and it suddenly reappears in your line of site.
I think your friends fall into this area.

Lost Love: Ah, we’ve all had this one. It’s a sad Love for sure. You might be able to put a reason and possibly even a date on it. You’ll be sad for awhile, you’ll even beat yourself up over it, but just for awhile.

Creeper Love: Nah it’s not creepy love, it’s Creeper Love. You are going along just fine. Sun shining, jingles in your pocket, life is so complete. You have a friend. You talk, you share, and you laugh. Then one day it all changes. You’re looking at them and realize you love this person. You didn’t do anything to bring this on and neither did they. It just sort of crept into this fine relationship and fine day you were having.

Remembered Love: Maybe this is the thing we all really hope for. If it’s not in your life it will be. You’ve heard others talk about it. It’s the love that never died it never faded. Maybe the object of your Remembered love was taken from you. They passed on to a place where they wait for you now. Perhaps it was a Love that found itself at a crossroads. You both couldn’t take the same path anymore but you’ll always remember them, you’ll always love them.

Pride Love: I don’t think there’s too many people who didn’t feel this on 9/11. It’s the triumph over the human condition. It makes your chest swell just a little; it brings a lump in your throat. Marching bands, flags flying in the breeze with a backdrop of blue. You’re team winning, your team losing. You feel this in the pit of your stomach.

Secret Love: This may rate right up there towards the top. The greatest thing about this of course is it’s yours. It doesn’t belong to nor can it be possessed by anyone but you. No-on e needs to know. It will make you breath hard when they’re around and you’ll think of them when they’re not. It’s safe; maybe that is what makes it so special.

STUPID LOVE: The Granddaddy of them all. This love will posses you. It will control your thoughts. It will be all you think of. You’ll try to sleep but you won’t be able to. Food just won’t interest you. You’ll search for it’s meaning but about the best you can do is some words stretched between the measures of a three-minute song. It will dismantle this wall of protection you’ve built. Not brick by brick but in a thunderous collapse of dust and rubble. Its very existence will make you feel gleefully stupid.

If I’m lucky enough to have love come into my life again. I want to find Stupid Love.

My quote for Love.

“Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments; love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no, it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his heighth be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.”



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shellsmack

Mar 21 @ 7:56AM  
I desire Creeper Love. I need the friendship first before any thing else, even sex. So this is my ultimate relationship.


I definately have Remembered Love. Had the Creeper Love here but I guess after 8 years we came to that crossroad and a decision had to be made. Unfortunately for my heart, we turned and went separate ways.

Love is the only thing in life we truly need.
Sunshinegal35

Mar 21 @ 8:20AM  
Creeper Love is definitely my style, too! Then Remembered Love. Some of these you can never get out of your head or heart!

I loved this blog, j! You did a great job!
Scottishtease

Mar 21 @ 9:29AM  
I am in secret love, if possible only known this person for 2 months now. I can't stop thinking about them, I fantasize daily about them, I want to do whatever they ask to please them. Thanks J3411, this is a wonderful blog.

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