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posted 3/20/2008 3:47:17 PM |
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Ladies say that they would like men that are honest and does not lie. Does this includes if the truth hurts? Respecting a woman is most important and respect between both is important. Does a woman respect that the best he does most of the time comes up short even in his career choices? Perhaps he has done his best. Sometimes the best someone can do is short of their dreams and no different than being out of high school. There should still be desire to keep doing your best no matter what. Is it still personality that makes the relationship? Money and material things do not matter but the special someone in your life? Having great inspirations to be the best you do in everything is important. I thoughts these were true understandings of what a lady deserves in a person, am I wrong? My last girlfriend dumped me because I could not own Bill Gates it seems like. You caress her, get her flowers, tell her she is special, let her know she is wonderful, beautiful. Yet she says I will not have enough money to love her because she wishes to not work and have a 5000 square foot home with all the perks. My career is not good enough for her. Maybe she did me a favor. What do you think? I guess I thought it is the person that counts and not all the material things I cannot have. Life is about the little things, meaning the quality person in your life daily. Perhaps I have been wrong. I'm alone anyway and happy with myself as a person that stays dedicated to be my best at everything I do. I believe it is not my loss. I'll miss the person and the moments. Sometimes there was not supposed to be a fit I guess. Believing in bad karma keeps me from hurting others and this time I did the right thing.

What more can I do?
All responces welcome................

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jcarolina

Mar 20 @ 4:45PM  
If a person doesn't want you because you aren't rich, look at my blog today. It's not always easy to find someone who will want you for you, but it sure pays off. Why would you even want to be with such a person? Fair weather friends are best left outside in the weather they like.
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 20 @ 6:39PM  
Any woman who is that shallow is not worth having, IMO. You are well rid of her.
sundance64

Mar 20 @ 6:48PM  
Unfortunately, there are women...and men who only want someone to 'take care of them'.
I moved to a state I've never been to, no family and no friends in the area...to be with the man I love. I knew right from the start that we would both have to toe the line so to speak...and that things would be rough at the start.

I didn't move so I could have a nice house, or a big fancy car or a huge new wardrobe...

I move because I found a man who loves me, and respects me just the way I am.

Oh...and while I may still have the same little car...and the same wardrobe I came down here with...we do have a pretty nice house!
NachoBaby

Mar 20 @ 7:04PM  
You just go on being you.. and the one who can see that part of you and love you for it.. that's the ONE.. not one who looks at you as a meal ticket.
ValentineGirl214

Mar 20 @ 7:04PM  
As long as you are HAPPY with your job and leave work at work, it shouldn't matter. Yes, I want someone to take care of ME, but not financially. I have a job, I want someone to take of "the softer side of me"
dumblonde

Mar 20 @ 8:39PM  
i would love to have someone to love and respect me, buy flowers now and then and make me feel special and wanted...i can take care of myself quite well, i want someone who wants ME!

her loss...
openmindedguy71

Mar 23 @ 2:19PM  
I have given up believing there is a woman who just wants to be loved and respected. Now it is just about having friends and doing my own thing. I love life on the road. I am working for me. Soon I will own my own truck and and be building my own Business. I am disapointed that there are so few women out there that can truly appreciate a man who loves and addores them.

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