one night she comes over and has on this perfume that I dont like. So I tell her that I dont like it and she gets upset. I tell her that one of our mutual friends always smells great and that she should consult her to find a great perfume. She gets even more upsetOops!! Sometimes tact requires a gentle nudge, or a little fib, and not the honest truth!
( I can certainly identify with your predicament, though...)