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  wellhunginwb

To all men and women on here...

It's come to my attention that we have some he-man woman haters and some she-woman man haters on this site...

Some men are always going to treat women like sex objects, it's just never going to go away.

But....

Some women will always treat men as ATM'S, that's never going to go away either.

There's no sense in bickering about it, there is no "perfect" gender, men and women both have faults.

Many of us have been hurt in relationships, but if we give up and say all men are terrible and all women are terrible, we've become slaves to the person that hurt us for the rest of our lives.

Don't worry....be happy *dances*

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lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 3:20PM  
For the record, I don't hate MEN. I love MEN. I adore MEN.

Caps for emphasis...MEN MEN MEN...

And also for the record, speaking strictly for me, I've never looked to a man in my entire life to provide support for me. Hell, even my father was sorely lacking in that respect (to put it EXTREMELY mildly), and we lived with him for 12 years of my life!
jcarolina

Mar 19 @ 3:25PM  
I'm a man, Lol, want to take me out to dinner or a show?
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 3:29PM  
For the record...

The MEN on this site have a sense of humor. The WOMAN on this site know that and accept it...and even laugh at the MEN's jokes. Hell...and WOMAN with a sense of humor can see this is mostly satire...and not truly meant to be taken seriously.

But of course there will always be those who just don't get it.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 3:30PM  
Sorry...change that first *woman* to WOMEN
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 3:35PM  
If you think talking to a woman like she's trash is having a "sense of humor" that's your prerogative. I happen to think it's not funny at all.

Well, JC, I can't even see you to determine whether I'd even be attracted to you or not. But if I am, then, sure, I'll take you to dinner or a show this week, and you can take me out to dinner or a show next week. I've paid for many dates before...or at least paid my own way. I can't remember the last time a man took me out and paid for the entire date, in fact. Last few dates I've had, in fact, I've paid for the whole thing.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 3:37PM  
Who talking to anyone...at least here in the blogs...like they're trash?
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 3:44PM  
OMG, you've GOT to be kidding. Canu, for one..he's one of the worst for saying sexist, disrespectful things to and about women..and, hell, I could make a list...I just don't have the time right now.

A whole lot of emails and comments I get are completely disrespectful..trashy...I mean, I don't know about you, but "I'd love to stick my cock in-between your tits and shoot my big wad all over them" is hardly what I'd consider a high "compliment." And don't go off telling me about how this is a "sex site," either...this being a sex site doesn't give a man license to use filth when speaking to a woman.

A woman can be sexy and receive compliments stating such that are perfectly respectable. If you don't believe it, check out the comments about my photos...you'll notice not one is out of line. That's not because I haven't received such comments; I have. I just don't accept them. I think they're trashy and rude and are in no way complimentary.
ScorpionSlave

Mar 19 @ 3:48PM  
Yup.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 3:53PM  
I don't know who you got messages like that from...there are plenty here who send them, but Canu isn't one of them.

In fact...according to your list of what a real man is...Canu fits every one of them.
sugarnspice005

Mar 19 @ 3:54PM  
A whole lot of emails and comments I get are completely disrespectful..trashy...I mean, I don't know about you, but "I'd love to stick my cock in-between your tits and shoot my big wad all over them" is hardly what I'd consider a high "compliment." And don't go off telling me about how this is a "sex site," either...this being a sex site doesn't give a man license to use filth when speaking to a woman.

This is an adult dating site...therefore some will see it as a sex site.

I think it's safe to say that all women here have gotten emails like that....and we're not all on here griping about it. Most just ignore it, delete it, and move on.

As for Canu.........you take the bait...he's going to keep going. But, hey, if you really want to keep arguing the point with him....don't let us stop you. But, speaking from experience, (,my late fiance Mick had about the same type of humor as Canu's), the more you holler..the funnier he finds you. If I'm wrong Canu, I apologize.

Just my .02
CrazyCraveman

Mar 19 @ 4:03PM  
I can't remember the last time a man took me out and paid for the entire date, in fact. Last few dates I've had, in fact, I've paid for the whole thing.


Hmmmmmmmmmmm, this might be telling you something...about you and the sort of women you are...

Just a thought...

As for Canu's blogs, I have to agree 100% with sugarnspice005...and everytime he posts one of his blogs like he has been since you've joined the site with all your self- righteousness, holier than thou attitude...

Well, to put it simply...Canu is having a go at you, and you are falling for it...HOOK, LINE, and SINKER!!
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 4:09PM  
I don't know who you got messages like that from...there are plenty here who send them, but Canu isn't one of them.

In fact...according to your list of what a real man is...Canu fits every one of them.

well, he sure doesn't act like that in here...he is a wolf in sheep's clothing and is very disrespectful to women and, just like many here, is extremely rude and disrespectful to anyone who has a difference of opinion from him...and he and others will especially very loudly protest when it comes to his right to degrade women or her right to degrade herself.

As I've stated numerous NUMEROUS times...you are free to feel the way you feel and think the way you think, but you have NO right to jump my shit because I feel and think differently.

lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 4:11PM  
Hmmmmmmmmmmm, this might be telling you something...about you and the sort of women you are...

I'm the kind of woman who decided not to put myself in a position of subservience because nowadays too many men think that paying for a date means he has the right to screw you...

As far as hook line and sinker...I know all about his kind. Think I'm stupid? Think again...

Can u is a baiter, all right. In fact, he's the master baiter...

But that's okay, he's not proving himself to be anything but an instigating, troublemaking asshole...

lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 4:12PM  
Oh..and I have a "holier than thou" attitude because I don't like to see women being treated as sperm deposit banks?

okayyyyy
str8ngr84u2

Mar 19 @ 4:22PM  
I have to say that CanU and I have not always agreed on everything, but he has never been disrespectful to me... Of course, I have never been disrespectful to him either...
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 4:36PM  
My crimes against this woman I will bare my soul:

I hinted that she may be bitter in her "baggage blog" Although she said as much in her own way...

I e-mailed her and said something along the lines of "Okay you're bitchy, I get that... I don't know why but just leave me the fuck alone" I don't remember the exact words I used but that is close.... It was also AFTER she insulted me in a funny lil blog by some young guy saying he wanted to find a twenty something girl who was normal or sane... something....

I said they are all crazy carried on a bit and she called me a misogynist So I hardly feel bad for eluding to her being bitchy.

Since then I have not targeted "her" I have opined on a variety of subjects, I told the story of women's lib on both the right and the left... their struggle to oppress the first amendment. I've weighed in on legalized prostitution I've been satirical and and used male stereotypes to be funny... However this woman continues to berate and belittle me, cuss me and call me names long... LONG after I said "I'm not going to play" It seems t me that she is only happy if she is engaging someone in a confrontational type of pissing contest...

I step back and post stories (I'd rather do) and she runs through my friend's list grasping at straws to pick fights with them WHY?

Because I said all women are crazy? Because I supplied intelligent rebuttal to her opinions... Why did she zero in on me and decide she has to ride my ass? That is the god damned question! One she refuses to answer in any way shape or form that does not involve calling me vulgarities... so to all who say take to private.. you do it... see how you like being cussed out a while for asking why!
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 4:37PM  
Letting Sunny back on now going to the shower!
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 4:38PM  
Well, I didn't start out being disrespectful to him either...nor to anyone else here. I just say things that don't sit well with people because some people think everyone is mandated to agree with them. I don't sugarcoat my opinions and that makes some people go stark-raving mad, for some odd reason. I'm quite used to it. It doesn't make a hill of beans of a difference to me..I will NEVER condone the degradation of women via prostitution and so long as the subject is at the forefront of a discussion, then I'll comment on it...and the more people insult me, the more shit they're going to get back in return...it's evident they want me around...as a punching bag, that is...well, have at it...DING! Round..whatever..hey, I can go the distance..many have gone before you and have yet to do a TKO on me...

I have the right to speak out against the sexual abuse and mistreatment of women in general and that's what I fully intend to do and keep on doing, when I deem necessary.
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 19 @ 4:41PM  
CanU, you may be fooling some people but you're not fooling me, nor many others in here who have sent me private emails about you and your instigating ways. You are bald-faced LIAR is what you are...you have said MANY insulting things about me...just because you didn't call me out by name doesn't mean I'm too stupid to realize who it is you're speaking about. And not only that, but you get your minions to follow suit...so can the "I'm an innocent victim" crap..it's not going to work...I've been told you've done this to many people before me...
CrazyCraveman

Mar 19 @ 4:43PM  
Oh..and I have a "holier than thou" attitude because I don't like to see women being treated as sperm deposit banks?


Yeah, that's it!

Where do you come up with this stuff?

startmeup

Mar 19 @ 4:51PM  
I can go the distance..many have gone before you

That should be telling you something.... that is if you had the intelligence to realize what that means.... so you'll probably say 'I know exactly what it means' when in all actuality, 'dear' ,you don't.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 4:52PM  
Who's he done it to? And what's he done? Posted some blogs that you took personally? Wrote things you didn't like and didn't find humor in? Then quit reading his stuff! Stop deliberately targeting him and insulting him in your blogs.

And to all your friends who have emailed you and told you those things...funny...I don't hear not one of them offering any support...at least not one who anyone has heard from before this last week...

As for Canu being a liar...where has he lied? When? When has he said anything directly about you that hasn't been true? If anything you have been the one to continually say things about him that are unequivocally untrue.

And to say you don't sugar-coat your opinions is basically saying you aren't looking for "intelligent discussion or debate" Why is it that you can say whatever you want to others when they say something you don't like...but when they come back in kind you fly off the handle? I've seen it happen...someone will write a blog about a subject you don't like...you immediately respond by being insulting to the writer, and anyone who comments in a way you don't like, you insult and berate them.
cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 4:58PM  
Wait, this all started in that blog about insane 20 year olds? Can someone link that for me so I can go back and look at that? I remember what Canu was saying there, and it seemed pretty obvious to me that he was joking. I even messed with him back. Ya know, being one of the insane 20 somethings?. All in good fun.
ladybootscooter

Mar 19 @ 5:02PM  
What I would really like to know is who all these "mystery email writers" are? Has anyone else noticed that every single time we have one of these little wars. The instigator, be they male or female (and no they aren't always newbies, regs have been known to say this too) but I digress......every single time they claim to have all these mystery emails sent to them by ALL these people that totally agree with them but are just too scared to make their opinions known. I say to this BULLFUCKINGSHIT!!! Don't piss down my leg and tell me it's raining. If these instigating assholes had so much fucking support don't you assume that at least one, just one of these supporters would crawl their asses out from under the rock they're hiding under and say something in support of said person??? Same bullshit, different fucking day!
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 5:07PM  
Carrie...I think this is the one you're talking about
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 5:10PM  
Don't piss down my leg and tell me it's raining.

That was fucking awesome!!!
cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 5:23PM  
Ok, I saw what I needed to see. If that was the beginning....meet my friend the eye rolling emoticon again

lolthisistoofunny....you get a slap on the wrist for being a meanie to jkat and making fun of Canu for being a mama's boy

Canu....you also get a slap on the wrist....for the usual reasons ....and i will start calling you a mama's boy

....
Looking4ever

Mar 19 @ 5:27PM  
Sure, we could get along but then what would some people have left to do? Get a life? Hardly.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 5:33PM  
Canu....you also get a slap on the wrist....for the usual reasons ....and i will start calling you a mama's boy

Only Sunny gets to do that...and if he's a mama's boy...I'm da mama!
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 5:34PM  
Hey...this is the south...remember?
Tracker0523

Mar 19 @ 5:34PM  
wish i could throw water on her and watch her melt away.....hip hip hoooraaayyy the wicked witch is dead....damnit it was a thought...
DarkDesires99

Mar 19 @ 5:37PM  
I'm the kind of woman who decided not to put myself in a position of subservience because nowadays too many men think that paying for a date means he has the right to screw you...

Ok what kind of sad little world do you live in that you think that is true.

I don’t say a lot on any of these rants because I am sick of the whole bloody mess. However this mild little line says volumes about your mindset that you would even think that way. It’s dinner a chance to get to know someone to see if you both click it means nothing more than that. In my world the one who invites the other one pays unless a prior agreement is made. No awkward check moments. If I like the date enough I’ll invite him out on a date too and I’ll pay then. The other reason this works well is if the economic differences are great then he pays for what he can afford and I pay for what I can afford.
CrazyCraveman

Mar 19 @ 5:39PM  
CanU, you may be fooling some people but you're not fooling me, nor many others in here who have sent me private emails about you and your instigating ways.

OMG, I have been waiting for her to write something like this for the past couple of weeks...


Don't piss down my leg and tell me it's raining.

Damn, that was just too fuckin' funny! And I must remember this and use it...often!
cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 5:39PM  
....Very well Sunny, have it your way. Can you give him the slap on the wrist for me too?

Lol
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 5:40PM  
Rodney King only said those words AFTER being tasered and getting the immortal hell beat out of him if I remember

Carrie... I even told her on one of her blogs I'm done, walking away.. buh bye....
She started in on my friend's list as I said... It doesn't take a rocket scientest to figure out she just wants to argue and cause trouble hell she even tried to say in the forums "The male orgasm is NOT cause by friction"
Yep she's a good one to argue eh?

Had I wanted to "go after her" she has posted enough contradictory material just in the subject of prostitution... no really... if you read all the crap she was so uick to copy paste and post it rebuts its self.

Now either I attacked her beiefs or I couldn't possibly because in her words "I don't know her politics"

Pick a god damned story and stick to it!

Oh by the way wrist slaps are foreplay in some house... so are hand cuffs....

cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 5:44PM  
Oh by the way wrist slaps are foreplay in some house... so are hand cuffs....

Uhhh....did you not see the wink I gave Sunny?


canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 5:48PM  
DAMN IT CARRIE... now my wrist hurts and my motor is running.... but supper is in the oven so I gotta wait....

You started something!

canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 5:51PM  
Show you where you instigasted
You called Sundance64 a subservient mealy-mouth oh we supposed to forget that huh... she hadn't said ONE GOD DAMNED THING TO YOU....

So stop playing sweet and innocent that dog don't hunt no more!

Thats just one more in a long list of examples... want me to bring up links?

Targeting me by name even when I was obviously talking about political movements ... recently calling me an asshole?

Are you bi polar or just trying to lie over your guilt?
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 6:02PM  
Wow she got gone on the P.D.Q. again... as soon as someone brings up her being the trouble starter she goes buh bye...

Now .....
startmeup

Mar 19 @ 6:06PM  
you know they say it takes all kinds, so she must be that... all kinds
She says she's not a hypocrite but she is... plain and simple. go read her blogs and forums posts, it's all there....
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 6:26PM  
Look out my personal fortune teller has told me a plague of flying monkeys may be heading this way.... in the guise of newly created profiles to tell us "we are wrong" her royal pain-ness is righteous"

Get the flying monkey shit proof umbrellas out!
canuhelpme258

Mar 19 @ 6:27PM  
I fixed your kudo shortage too!
slohand_47

Mar 19 @ 6:37PM  
I"ll plead to being one of the "mystery writers" A week or so ago I wrote her a polite letter suggesting that while she made some good points, maybe her delivery left a little to be desired. What I got in return was a profanity laced insulting tirade. So, I blocked her ass and left it at that. I would have liked to have saved that exchange..... just in case...... but when I clicked block, the email dissappeared. It's not in trash..... so I don't know where it went.

Anyway..... there is no hope of ever getting through to that personality type. That "I'm right, and the whole world is wrong" attitude. You just can't reach them. About all that is left..... is like going to the zoo. You make faces at the monkeys and watch them scream, fling poo, and run around the cage in anger. It's mean........ and yet it's funny and we're (almost) all guilty of it one time or another. (yeah, being politically correct so that those few of you won't have to immediately write in....... not me, not me)
woo hoo.........
startmeup

Mar 19 @ 6:46PM  
slohand, That's exactly what happened to me when I wrote her a few weeks ago. Perhaps this is a common tactic with her.
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 6:49PM  
It's happened to pretty much anyone who has had words with her. Really...even me! Ok...I'm only a troublemaker...

Yea...so?
cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 6:55PM  
She didn't go off on ME!!!!!

But then again I didn't tell her to change anything, etc, etc.



Lol
mrknowuwell

Mar 19 @ 8:26PM  
my sheepys never give me any problems.............
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 8:33PM  
She didn't go off on ME!!!!!

Carrie...that's only because you were being funny about what Canu said...and she thought you were serious...kinda the enemy of my enemy is my friend thing?
cutecarrie6969

Mar 19 @ 8:47PM  
Twasnt what I was refering to Sunny....I kind of debated her for an entire day....remember?
sundance64

Mar 19 @ 10:24PM  
Yea but you're ok, since you didn't like Canu's comments about 20 something women...
sundance64

Mar 20 @ 12:53AM  
well, he sure doesn't act like that in here...he is a wolf in sheep's clothing and is very disrespectful to women and, just like many here, is extremely rude and disrespectful to anyone who has a difference of opinion from him...and he and others will especially very loudly protest when it comes to his right to degrade women or her right to degrade herself.

What?? When??

Hmmmmmmmmmmm, this might be telling you something...about you and the sort of women you are...

What exactly does that mean?


Can u is a baiter, all right. In fact, he's the master baiter...
He's already stated that he's been baiting you...and you fall for it every time...what does that make you?

But that's okay, he's not proving himself to be anything but an instigating, troublemaking asshole...

Try again...how about taking a good look in the mirror this time...

You're insulting, you're abrasive and you're bitchy. You insist on calling yourself strong-willed and opinionated...but all your doing is giving truly strong willed, opinionated women a bad name.

sundance64

Mar 20 @ 1:50AM  
From my last comment...
Hmmmmmmmmmmm, this might be telling you something...about you and the sort of women you are...

What exactly does that mean?

Strike that one...sorry CC, I didn't see that was part of your comment...someone doesn't know how to use the quote button.
canuhelpme258

Mar 20 @ 2:38AM  
CanU, you may be fooling some people but you're not fooling me, nor many others in here who have sent me private emails about you and your instigating ways. You are bald-faced LIAR is what you are...you have said MANY insulting things about me...just because you didn't call me out by name doesn't mean I'm too stupid to realize who it is you're speaking about. And not only that, but you get your minions to follow suit...so can the "I'm an innocent victim" crap..it's not going to work...I've been told you've done this to many people before me...

I've said insulting things about radical fringe groups which you deny being part of... In fact I insulted radical fringe groups who are at odds with each other; both the right wing and the left wing. I would venture to say you are not stupid but lazy and in too big a hurry to post to read a blog.

You posted contradictory statements in that manner. You posted an article clearly using poor economic circumstances to claim prostitutes cannot "consent" because it is forced on them.
You then state "no one can be forced, they need to get off their lazy ass and get a job."
--or words to the effect...

If I were targeting you I'd have jumped up and down then and called you on it.

I blogged about political groups I knew full well you weren't associated with because well... it's election season ... you jumped down my throat with both feet so sure "it's all about you"

For someone who claims to be an editor, you lack reading comprehension skills, I write about some other beef going on between two other people... again you jump down my throat with both feet....

You see a pattern here?

I never called you a profanity, or an outright insult; yet you continue to berate not only my intelligence, but my creativity and originality. I made no secret of my new found love of politics; yet until you popped up full of your cause's doctrine, I had none to debate with... well if your idea of intelligent debate is "people supporting your opinion" you have a lot to learn to learn about debate.

I would go so far as to say you are so hungry for a bloodbath you repost people's words so far out of context just to make a point that you have managed to twist things around in your own head...

I may have said you need therapy... comments you left last night support that... seek help.

No really seek help.. but seek it elsewhere.

sundance64

Mar 20 @ 8:17AM  
I honestly can't see how someone would want to be on a site when they obviously don't like the majority of people who actively blog on the site, and it's obvious that most of the people on the site don't like them.

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