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posted 3/18/2008 5:53:50 AM |
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They might be a scammer if...

- They contacted you first on a dating service, especially if you generally don't get much response to your profile

- They contacted you first, in spite of the fact that there is a 20+ age difference, or you don't even have a picture with your profile

- Their profile says their are from Kazan, Cheboksary, Kirov or Yoshkar Ola

- Their profile starts with words "I the xxxx" (cheerful girl, sociable person, etc...)

- They say "To me of xx years" or "Me of xx years"

- Their usernames often contain 4ka: "Svetlano4ka", Irino4ka", etc..

- Their photos are rotated 45 degrees

- Their profile states that a man's age, race or income doesn't matter to them

- Their e-mail handles often contain bad Russian words: "poebushka", "zaebok", "syka", "klitr", etc.. Don't have a clue what it means?? Good for you!

- Their profile description often sounds more like an introductory message to somebody, for example saying that they "looked at your profile", and in their introductory message they just repeat their profile description

- They just registered, and their profile already has 10 times more views than other girls who registered on the same day

- Their profile says they are from the United States, UK or any other country, while in their letter they say they are from Russia

- When you enter a quote from their profile description in Google it returns dozens (or hundreds) of matching results

- Their IP address can be traced to Volgatelecom Mari El branch, Nata-info, Fokus-satcom or

- They use The Bat! to send e-mails

- All their letters are translated through the online translator with few misspelled Russian words left untranslated, often those Russian words are in male gender

- They call your profile "structure"

- They say they found your "structure" in a marriage agency, while you are actually on a general dating service

- They contact you out of the blue on your private e-mail address and you have no idea where the hell did they get your e-mail addy from

- They often start their message to you with words "Hello stranger" or "Hello lonely soul"

- They often say you are "lonely" instead of saying "single"

- They almost never return and read their mail on the dating services, therefore they always ask you to contact them on their private e-mail address

- After they mass-mail men (including you) they often get booted off the dating services, so their profile may disappear right after they contacted you. Scammers almost never delete their profiles themselves, in spite of what they might tell you, only get kicked out

- They are often paid (or golden) members on the expensive paid dating services

- They try to sneak their e-mail address into profile and put it onto their photos

- They don't answer your questions and seem not to read your letters

- If they changed your name in the greeting, their letters could be actually sent to any man

- They talk about Russian men being alcoholics and not knowing how to treat women

- They don't respond to conversation and their letters are monologs about themselves and their everyday life

- Their letters are usually quite monotonous, boring and don't make much sense, until it comes to money subject. Then, even their English seems to improve!

- Their English is not consistent: one letter may be written in excellent English, another again with online translator

- They tend to repeat words, for example "I wanted to tell to you that that, if we can to meet?"

- They use "At me" a lot, for example: "At me it hurts"

They often finish their letters with "I shall wait with impatience your letter" (or reply)

- They proclaim you love in the first week or two

- They call you "my dear xxx", "my love xxx", "my angel xxx" (xxx - your name) almost from the very beginning

- They keep talking about their feelings and how much they want to be with you half of the letter

- They almost never ask you questions about your lifestyle, your job, your kids, your interests, your income

- At the same time, they always want to know your home address, phone number and ask to send them a lot of your photos

- They never show up on a webcam

- They may send you the same letter twice

- They may mistakenly send you a letter addressed to somebody else

- They will send you photos in almost every letter

- They often change e-mail address during correspondence, because their providers sometimes close their mailboxes for scam and spam

- They may vanish for a month or so, then re-appear like as if nothing

- They will give your e-mail address to other scammers and you will start getting e-mails from other Russian "girls"

- They are often filthy, don't mind talking dirty and sending naked or half-naked photos

- They say they are writing from the Internet cafes

- Their Internet costs are always very high

- Their income is always very low and they keep talking about it

- They may ask you to send them money to pay for their Internet or phone, or even for their clothes

- They may ask you to send them money to pay for the medical bills of their relatives who suddenly got sick, got in a car accident, etc..

- If you tell them that you don't send money to anybody and are aware of Russian scams, they will assure you they are not a scammer and will keep writing

- Most of their letters, including letters from their "travel agencies", if you enter a snippet from it in Google, can be found on scam lists

- They may call you on the phone, but the sound is always very bad, voice distorted and if you have a caller ID, there is always some bogus number showing up, like 602-222-0000

- Yet they never have a phone themselves

- They prefer to call you on the cell phone, probably because such calls are harder to trace

- They will give you some mailing address, but if you try to check it out by sending flowers or registered letter, the address will turn out phony

- If you ask them to send their photo holding a sign, unless the photos belong to some Russian model or celebrity, after some hesitation (and probably extra fee to the girl) they will send you one

- They may do IM with you, but prefer e-mails

- They always want to come visit you. If you suggest you visit them first, they will find thousand good reasons why is it a bad idea and will keep insisting on them visiting you first like the pushy telemarketers

- If you manage to insist on visiting them first, the meeting place will be changed from their home city to Moscow or Saint-Petersburg

- They will ask you to send them money for passport, ticket and visa, often you may be contacted by a phony travel agency, which will send you invoice for Miss.XXX travel

- They also talk about "free money" which they will have to show in the embassy for each day of their stay with you, or on the plane (total bull!)

- They will send you their s

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Mar 18 @ 9:47AM  
Their e-mail handles often contain bad Russian words: "poebushka", "zaebok", "syka", "klitr", etc.. Don't have a clue what it means?? Good for you!

Well......... aren't you going to tell us what those naughty Russian words mean???

Mar 18 @ 9:50AM  
WOW!!! It's like you've been looking over my shoulder and reading my IM's and
There are several of these "slim Svetlana's" on AMD right now, although in reality
they are "hairy Boris". Although they are not the pain in the ass the Nigerian
(West Africa) scammers are, the Russian ones still steal our time and attempt
to steal dreams.
I guess with their economy being in the crapper and all, any free money for 'em is
Free Money.
And, it might be part of some national heritage. I remember the story of Putin
pocketing a Super Bowl ring. The joke was that he made some Gollum noise as
he called it "my precious'.

Mar 18 @ 6:35PM  
but at least they write bak

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