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posted 3/18/2008 12:33:21 AM |
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  MonkeyWoman30

Freud argued that clitoral orgasms were characteristic of the young and immature, and vaginal orgasms represented the healthy female sexual response. It was his belief that if a woman was not able to have a vaginal orgasm, that she was stuck in her development.

Yes, I am aware that Freud was a little bit crazy -- OK a whole lot crazy, and I am aware that he was also a cocaine addict. But he did make some valid points.

This was not one of them.

This theory has largely been discounted -- and for good reason. It is very rare that I experience an internal vaginal orgasm -- or an orgasm at all, without some sort of clitoral stimulation. In fact I think I have only experienced a vaginal orgasm three times in my life, once with a man and twice with the same woman. I have had many, many orgasms that were much better with clitoral stimulation, however.

So, I will stay right here, stuck in my development. For I like my clitoris stroked, sucked, licked, rubbed, and nibbled on a little bit. I like it touched in any way, shape or form by my lover, as long as it doesn't hurt, being a tongue, a finger, a penis, or a toy. I like it made love to.

Oh yes, I'm immature.

Regards,
Kris

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Angel_N_Motion

Mar 18 @ 12:43AM  
Seems we're in the same boat....

I, too, shall remain immature....

Hugs and love to ya, Girlie.
Dominus

Mar 18 @ 1:18AM  
Well, Masters and Johnson were much more scientific, much more accurate, and are by far much greater favorites of mine than Freud. And since I'm a psychologist you can take that as you will.

They made the point that preferred stimulation is not only variable from woman-to-woman, it is also variable in certain time periods (monthy cycles, life cycles, etc.)

I have been able to make women climax clitorally and vaginally (of course); but also anally, by body (non-genital) massage, aurally (by kissing the neck and ears), as well as focusing just on the breasts and just by some really intense kissing. And that doesn't even begin to mention the BDSM techniques.

So in other words any man that's looking for that one magic button is just lazy. There's no "magic g-spot" or "Venus Butterfly" technique that is going to fulfill every woman every time.

What will is listening to your partner and finding out who they really are.
MonkeyWoman30

Mar 18 @ 1:23AM  
Omg

You had me at

I have been able to make women climax clitorally and vaginally (of course); but also anally, by body (non-genital) massage, aurally (by kissing the neck and ears), as well as focusing just on the breasts and just by some really intense kissing. And that doesn't even begin to mention the BDSM techniques.
DangerousCurves999

Mar 18 @ 1:48AM  
Are you giving demonstrations Dom? I m sure we will form a line.
slohand_47

Mar 18 @ 2:30AM  
Last time I checked..... Freud was........ dead.

Long live clitoral stimulation
joanne2000

Mar 18 @ 2:56AM  
I guess we are all immature lets hear it for tongues on the clit
Zaftik

Mar 18 @ 3:31AM  
Freud was a brilliant idiot.

Ignoring him...you just have to do whatever works for you.

And as for Dom's comment....my goodness if you ever give demos, classes...ummm ...whatever do let us know. Please
SxzeNewMe

Mar 18 @ 7:45AM  
Yeah, I remember reading upon this part of Freud's theories. I also disagree that one is immature if unable to have vaginal orgasms. I will say that I think it is harder to achieve than the other and, until I found out what a powerful little vibrator can do (I love my Dancing Dolphin!), I don't think they are physically as intense as clitoral orgasms, while I think vaginal orgasms are more emotionally intense. Does that even make sense???

Great blog topic, Kris!
jcarolina

Mar 18 @ 8:16AM  
Like Zaftik said, Freud was a prime example of the fine line between insanity and genius.

I say spend a few more years in hands-on research on this topic before making a decision.

Then, do confirmation tests for several more years.


canuhelpme258

Mar 18 @ 9:04AM  
Freud has also been rejected by contemporaries on many many things.....

Just sayin...

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