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posted 3/15/2008 10:29:33 PM |
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My new job includes monthly trips to Chicago. On my initial trip, I met one of the sales women. After meeting her and a brief conversation I was hooked. She is beautiful but approachable. Curvaceous, gregarious, latina (Something I find so sexy), sassy and outgoing. She knows that she has that "something" that drives men crazy. She was flirtacous and friendly, joked with me and took an interest in who I was as a person. I was intrigued and enchanted.

After my trip, I thought about it and decided that this is her way with men...she's a flirt and like the attention.

So, last Tuesday I go on another trip. She is the same and in fact makes it a point to call me into her office and she is quite chatty. She asks what i would consider probing questions. She asks me how long I'm in town and generally takes an interest in me.

My past is littered with women who are flirtacous but have no interest in pursuing anything more then a wink and male attention. I'm a sucker for it and have been convinced on many occasions that she was interested only to be disappointed by the same old, "I just think you're a nice guy".

So my question to all of you is, how do you know? How do you know that a person is sincerely interested? I don't trust my judgment.

I'd love to hear what others have to say.

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dumblonde

Mar 15 @ 10:34PM  
i dont know...no one is ever interested in me...
luscious_bbwpa

Mar 15 @ 11:06PM  
^^^^^^^^^ yeah what DB said ^^^^^^^^^^
clickedanad2

Mar 16 @ 12:29AM  
you could pass and never know
or
you could
I dunno - ask?
JOHN7AZ

Mar 16 @ 12:59AM  
"this is her way with men...she's a flirt and like the attention."

You're right about that............

"I'm a sucker for it and have been convinced on many occasions that she was interested only to be disappointed "

She'll let you know, trust me. They will let you know. Just try to play hard to get and she'll go fuckin' nuts cause your not pursuing her like the "other" guys. When she gets chased?, she'll run! So make her wonder about you for a change.




blackskyline4

Mar 16 @ 1:24AM  
do some more watching and waiting... see where things go with this chick, and if nothing changes in like another trip... just ask out right.


Also ask yourself is she talking to you and being that flirty because she has to be with you like its kinda forced so she is making the best of it... or is she just trying to string you along just for shits and giggles because she knows ur not going to be there long


those Hispanic women will get you like that. they like to play with ur emotions. i dated a Puerto Rican and Mexican... pretty much the same thing re-packaged in a slightly different wrapping, they talk really loud, and i think they all get off on messing with people in general

*disclaimer* yeah its stereotypical... but stereotypes are there for a reason... more often then not they are true and we don't notice till somebody says something and then you try to change yourself

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