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posted 3/15/2008 8:16:49 PM |
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For the first time I have experienced someone who was generally interested in me while I was in a committed relationship. Granted she wasn't throwing herself at me, but there were some comments that were obvious advances. Of course I was taking it with a grain of salt subtling hinting on the fact that I am madly in love with Mel, and eventually it worked out so that she won't continue to make advances.

But thats not why I am writing this blog. I am writing this blog because I now have a basis for something to look down on those who choose to cheat while in a relationship, and you know what my seat looks pretty good. Normally I'm not one to look down on anyone, but this has been a pet peave of mine since I learned that there was such a thing as cheating.

Now the fact of the matter is yes there were attractive properties of this woman, attractive enough for me to have a moment of fantasy, granted she wrote and posted the fantasy in chat so once I read it I had an instant visual, but despite the fact that it looked good, I didn't want it. Ah there in lies the answer to everything, what did I want. I want no one other than Mel, so these little encounters are easy for me to come out of feeling like I havn't pissed on my own morals.

What do we want when we cheet? We want to satisfy something that we havn't put much thought into, or you may be planning on leaving the person you're cheating on, in which case you're just a horrible person, stop it, stop it now! The fact of the matter is when you enter a relationship you are in it with another person. No matter what you do, and I mean everything, you should consider how its going to effect your partner. If you can't think that way, you're not going to have a very good relationship.

Now me I'm not perfect, but when I do things that aren't going to make Mel happy, I regret it. But I'm not so cruel or insensitive to think that its acceptable for me to have a fling or a secret relationship when my partner is treating me good. Respect is only part of it though, if you can't control yourself then you're not really in love, or you're suffering from some kind of socal or mental disorder and should go on your meds right away.

Bottom line this is my pedistal that I climbed up on, and I'm damn proud to be here. It my only pedistal too. Mel you can believe me when I say that not being online with you is hard, but not so tough that I'm even considering anything else. I love you and only you! MMMMMMMUUUUUUUUAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

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Mar 15 @ 8:24PM  
Absolutely wonderful.

The first thing I always tell a man who approaches me, that is married or in a relationship is. I DON'T POACH ! Was on the other end of that situation many moons ago, and it hurts. You want to cheat on your mate, do it with someone else. I won't out anyone through that. And I'll look up at that pedestal and admire the person sitting on it.

To adorn the person who hold high standards.

Mar 15 @ 8:26PM  
Beautifully written...what a better world this would be if more men thought like you do...

Mar 15 @ 8:48PM  
freeking awesome babe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mel should be happy to have someone like you!!!!

Mar 15 @ 9:40PM  
i admire you...

Mar 15 @ 11:22PM  
I agree with you a 100%. Cheating is fucking stupid. If people are tempted to cheat, they might as well just break up with the person they are with. Why go behind their back? If people want to fuck multiple people and have a relationship, they should hook up with someone that wants to be a swinger. Plenty of people out there that want that. Personally, if I cared for someone, I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. And if they cheated on me, I would never forgive them. And it would be over like that. Cause my theory is, if you like someone that much, why would you want to be with anyone else? I'm not dissing anyone that has an open relationship, and not saying they don't love the person they are with. Just I myself wouldn't want to be with another woman. If it's just to get fucked, then yeah... I wouldn't having a threesome with two women. Very good blog, and I wish you and Mel the best.

Mar 17 @ 11:53AM  
Oh im happy alright De..hehe..he means so much to me..if i find out that he cheats on me with other skeeming bitches ...i have no clue what im gnna do..

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