Touch me and I'm yours posted 3/7/2008 8:53:13 PM | 0 kudos what's this?     report abuse

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I’m going to ramble tonight.

There is much documented evidence that loving, consensual hugging and touching is tremendously healing and raises endorphins. I can say that I personally consider myself touch starved.

Touch is an interesting thing and something that can be interpreted in many ways. In some instances, a woman will touch me while on a date and it’s electric. You know right away that a sexual green light is being given. Other times a touch can be cold or distant, for example, every guy is familiar with the: “thank-you-i-had-a-nice-time-but-you-ain’t-getting-next-to-my-poonanie-anytime-soon-and-you’ll-be-lucky-to-get-anywhere-near-it-his-millenium” hug. This usually results in no second date.

In my past I’ve also gotten the “pat on the shoulder” or better yet, the “lean-in and kinda hug but don’t let the pelvis region touch the pee-pee region on the guy” hug. God damn, I hate that one.

The one that bothers me the most is “the ticklish” date. Let me explain, see, I like fingertip touching. I don’t know why. I think it’s sensual and really erotic. I like to touch so softly that you can barely tell I’m touching you. You know the kind that give you goose bumps. Let’s say things are going well, and then I try to turn up the sensuality meter just a little and start my ever-favorite fingertip touching, maybe her neck or her arm….you know just sending a little message, and all of a sudden: “HA HA HA HA HA….THAT TICKLES!!” For pete’s sake woman…what the F!

One thing I’ve found interesting related to touch is how a women gives a hand job. Now, ladies, if you like doing this, (some do not), then remember we say “boner” but there really isn’t a bone involved. So be gentle, be kind, stroke lightly, a little lubrication is nice and if you’d like to give it a little kiss, well, you would be hard pressed to find a guy that will argue!!

So, my search continues for that elusive female who likes to hug and touch and feel and rub and snuggle and ____ and ____ and _____ and ____!!

Sleep well my friends.

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