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Love Forsaken posted 3/6/2008 12:52:08 AM | 3 kudos what's this?     report abuse   BlueEyes708 OK, we've all talked about Love that is right, or our ideals of a mate/partner, what ever. But how do you all deal with love that is not returned. That you know in your heart that you can be right for someone, but they either don't see it the same way enjoy you only as a friend or maybe they pursuing someone else. I'm not saying it's happening to me, but it has in the past. And dealing with it hurts and makes the heart ache. So how do you deal or cope. Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

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StraddleMyNose	Mar 6 @ 1:19AM
	Love isn't easy. Sometimes it can be the hardest thing to endure. People deal with it their own way, while others don't do so well....no easy answers to this.
onehornytoad69	Mar 6 @ 5:18AM
	I have learned.. that I Want/Love, when Wanted/Loved! So if the other 1/2 dont Want/Love me.. it just turns off the whole deal! Yes there is pain and it still hurts like hell..! One sided relationships SUCK!!! My 2 cents!
jcarolina	Mar 6 @ 8:53AM
	Great answers so far. All I could add is that people love in different ways. I'll use my cousin as a point of reference.He's a good point of reference for a lot of subjects! He's been dating a lady for 8 or 9 months now, and sometimes has problems because he expects too much. Or wants too much, depending on your prospective. If she acts a certain way or doesn't act a certain way, he feels that she doesn't love him as much.Now sure,that's obviously an emotional problem of his, but my point is that she does love him, he's a great guy after all, but maybe her ideas about love are different from his. People love in different ways and sometimes we hold them to our ideas of what love should be, and get disappointed when our expectations aren't met. Does this mean they don't love us enough? Of course not, they just love us the only ways they know how.
jcarolina	Mar 6 @ 8:58AM
	Oh.......yes, I realize I used the wrong word(prospective instead of perspective), but they sound alike and I just woke up!!
Lisa46	Mar 6 @ 10:16AM
	This is so true JCaro but you know as we know our partner we should realize how "they" are. I know my ex loved me yet he didn't "think" of me. I could give an example but what the heck. its past and I refuse to settle I don't ask for a lot matter of fact I'm actually low maintance.
DarkDesires99	Mar 6 @ 10:39AM
	Of course not, they just love us the only ways they know how. jcarolina This is so right. Don’t try to over think accept and live with the joy you can have instead of trying to mold it into something you think you want. As for loving someone and not having that love returned. You have to accept that too, you can’t make someone care and must move on to find someone who can love you back. The only cure is Time.
ABrownEyedScorpio	Mar 6 @ 11:38AM
	There is no easy answer (as Straddle said). Nobody wants to be hurt like that and I don't think anyone wants to hurt another that way but, it does happen. As DarkDesires said, time is the only healer and sometimes, for the one rejected, it doesn't even help.
canuhelpme258	Mar 6 @ 4:17PM
	Not had to deal with that sober.. never will now I found my one true soul mate...
surfin4fun	Mar 6 @ 5:33PM
	Hi Ladyblue! Another great blog. The other good folks on this blog have said it well. Me, I just have to ride it out until it passes, hoping for sooner rather than later. Greenie