Where and when do you think foreplay actually begins? Do you think it should actually begin or ever end in a relationship? 
I'm not talking about foreplay that is absolutley going to lead to actual, get naked sex and probably lead to an orgasm..NOT that I think there is anything in the world wrong with having an orgasm or five. 
But, I believe that there should always be some sort of foreplay in a relationship. I believe that it is at least as much of a mental thing as anything. That anticipation that can begin with no warning. I think it can begin before you even know you are going to have actual sex with someone.
What do you do, or have you done, that could be considered mental or emotional foreplay? Physical too, as long as it's not actually leading to sex right then..Something you just automatically do that is special to someone else?
What are the things you like done that would be considered, by you, to be foreplay?
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casuallylooking
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Mar 5 @ 2:15PM
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I'm not sure if it would actually be foreplay....but guys IF you send in your chest pics to Dayna, it sure would give us ladies something to anticipate...  and you just never know from there.. 
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lunanegra
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Mar 5 @ 2:32PM
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Making out and groping;talking in between getting to know eachother's likes,sexually.
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Ewe_Wish
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Mar 5 @ 2:36PM
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Foreplay to me is not just the act before sex, tho it can be if all it is, is sex. Foreplay to me is snuggling on the couch together while watching a movie, or just talking..........driving down the road and you hand laid on his leg rubbing it as you talk. Its standing doing the dishes and having him come in and put his arms around you and kissing the back of your neck. Or an afternoon call just to tell you he misses you and cant wait to get home to hold you, or you stopping by the florist shop and buying him a red rose just so he knows that you are thinking of him.......I think it has a lot to do with just making sure your partner can tell by a look or a touch that you want to make love even if you dont make love right then.
Great blog, Treas.
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DarkDesires99
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Mar 5 @ 2:40PM
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With the right person everything can be foreplay from just a look, to the slightest brush of the hand, to a sweet smile, to a special word or two said to each other, to hugging each other, cuddling watching a movie, and kissing, yes kissing is great foreplay. Beyond that it goes into what people normally think of as foreplay.
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Souluv
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Mar 5 @ 2:51PM
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Foreplay....is suppose to be before sex, (fore, meaning before) that is why it is called that in my opinion. Then there is afterplay which is "after" sex. I mean if you are not going to actually have sex then i am going to say that is flirting or playing..cuddling.. or intimacy.
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NightOfOld
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Mar 5 @ 3:11PM
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Fore play begins when ever we are together and NEVER ends.
All of lifes pleasures begin with love, and all love is fore play. 
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Lisa46
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Mar 5 @ 3:36PM
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I got to agree with Ewe again  she is gettin smart in her old age yanno? 
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canuhelpme258
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Mar 5 @ 3:38PM
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It starts with text messages during the day (yes Sunny and I send wanna fuck texts sue us!)
It ends right at penetration which is after at least one really good orgasm...
TMI?
Or just honest?
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jcarolina
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Mar 5 @ 3:39PM
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 If I'm really into someone, I'm so affectionate that almost all aspects of the relationship is foreplay to me. I love flirting, it's something with a perpetual humor.
I like to tease my lady, I'm very mischievous.
Keeping things light most of the time works for me, you can't fight with each other if you're laughing together.
Physical foreplay is as important, and as enjoyable as the actual act.
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Ewe_Wish
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Mar 5 @ 4:03PM
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I got to agree with Ewe again she is gettin smart in her old age yanno? While it is true I am getting smarter as I grow older, Lisa, ummm check our ages g/f.............if i am old............you are older than old............just saying  
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onehornytoad69
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Mar 5 @ 4:14PM
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Foreplay is Under rated to say the least!
I posted a Blog this AM...and it was Not 100% well thought out... MY BAD!!!
"The Mama" and "Soft Touch" were right on with their comments, in my blog...!!!!
I must admit foreplay works both ways, and that IT is the driving Engine to "Making Love" in a relationship, and thats what keeps a relationship healthy!!
The wam-bam thank u mam comes from no foreplay.. so "I" see it!(Looking thru a Mans eye!)
Although.... I wish that it would never end..but the fire.. existing foreplay does end..but we have to get it going again!
Some get burnt out on the same ole same ole...and seek the foreplay else were.
May it be...
Flirting with someone else.. or taking on a 3rd Party... ( I personally dont do that, but thats just me!!! To each their own! )
But, we can get that Awesome Foreplay back in our realtionships, trust me on this one! Though it might take a lil work... oh well its worth it!!!!
Now if I could only find someone to have a relationship with??? 
What do you do, or have you done, that could be considered mental or emotional foreplay Flowers, a Note or 2....or 20.. depends on how far we are in a relationship! lol
Cooking dinner... having scented candles.....wine.. self picked flowers... Scented candles...Giving a full body massage....
To me ......guys need foreplay.. but ya know.. I think some of us just wanna be "Wanted"... and the foreplay is on!
My 2 cents!!!!
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StraddleMyNose
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Mar 5 @ 5:03PM
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Ummm....I think the whole thing would be foreplay, why let it end?
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surfin4fun
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Mar 5 @ 5:15PM
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This is a good topic, and a good blog. I agree with a lot of what the folks have contributed thus far. For me, I guess it boils down to interest. Showing 'that' someone that you are interested in them. Who they are, what they do, what they think and what they say. You also need to convey focus, that it's only them that you are interested in. This attentiveness will become in itself foreplay, especially if it gets playful, and will definitely lead to many 'hot' rewards. 
I'm fresh out of kudos hun, I'll have to give you an IOU 
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casuallylooking
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Mar 5 @ 6:36PM
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if you are not going to actually have sex then i am going to say that is flirting or playing..cuddling.. or intimacy. I agree...But I also feel that all those descriptions are part of emotional and mental foreplay continuously happening in a relationship. People should never stop doing them.
I absolutely agree, Chuck.
you can't fight with each other if you're laughing together. I love that idea... and it's pretty much what I mean..
I think if you never stop doing little things and giving those little touches and looks...you'll always be experiencing some type of foreplay with that person.
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casuallylooking
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Mar 5 @ 6:42PM
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TMI? Nope...then afterwards you are starting all over for the next time..it's a continous circle..
Alex, I meant for both people, him and her. And you're right, most of us just want to be shown that we are wanted.. There's no reason to ever stop showing that someone that. Not just when wanting to actually have sex. I don't feel that fire has to burn out, if we don't want it to.
making sure your partner can tell by a look or a touch that you want to make love even if you dont make love right then. Exactly!! I want him to know I always want him, especially if it's not going to happen right then..
This attentiveness will become in itself foreplay, Yep!! And whatta you mean you're outta kudos? lmao
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LilGriz
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Mar 5 @ 11:13PM
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Ok CL, here is my ideas on foreplay:
Foreplay can start anywhere - a slight touch on the cheek, stroking lightly after a nice kiss good morning is always a great starting point. I don't think you even have to be together to start it. An IM with a sweet message, a phone call in the middle of the day saying how much you want them and are missing/thinking of them.
Foreplay can be as much or more in the mind than physically. Sure, you can physically tough, massage, cuddle, kiss, etc. You can also make suggestions as to what you are thinking, feeling, or want to do with them sometime in the future. The mind is a great aphrodesiac.
Good one CL, actually made me use a few of them brain thingys that had been gathering dust, and a big green thingy for you. 
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