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posted 3/5/2008 9:02:11 AM |
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Where do you go after the first meeting???? I mean how far do you take it????? Do you go all out and plan a weekend or do you talk for a little longer to make sure???

Just curious,,, wondering what most ppl would do after that first meeting. We are all always sayin what we hope happens on the first meeting but is it because we know that deep down there may not be a second one or is it cause we just hope that we hit it off with someone....So my question is where do you go after the first meeting??????

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Mar 5 @ 9:10AM  

Interesting question you raise lil....

Fact of the matter is you can't know until that meeting can you. Unless you count meeting someon online as a meeting, that is if you believe the person is being honest enough about who they are to believe they aren't acting like someone else... some people are honest about who they are, others protray themselves differently. When you meet me online, you meet the real person. So you've already met me. Therefore, meeting in person, isn't going to be all that different from talking online.

Mar 5 @ 9:11AM  
Yanno..that's a good question yet I don't think I can answer it...I'm too jaded anymore. My experience is there is rarely a second date and it makes little difference if one puts out on the first date or not. It's a case of damned if ya do and damned if ya don't.

Of course, I have to consider my age and circumstances. Both of those make a big difference in my case. But I'll be interested to hear what others say.

Like I said...good question....kudo to you.

Mar 5 @ 9:14AM  
The first meeting for me is alway for coffee, It's a time where y0ou can find if the person if for real, not a serial killer, and that you can actually send each other screaming into the parking lot.

after that, it can be a movie, I've made dinner for my date, spend a Saturday together doing something. It's totally up to you.

Mar 5 @ 9:15AM  
I met a man at Denny's for the first time. We were there for 5 hours Then he decided to change his mind been pretty cautious since.

Mar 5 @ 9:15AM  
I think it depends on what you want out of the whole meeting of the person in the first place. When you find what you are looking for (and, they you), it leads to a whole lot more. Lucky me.

Mar 5 @ 9:19AM  
Thanks guys and I am interested to know what others have to say about it too... and why no one ever talks about it.

Mar 5 @ 9:23AM  
oh damn Lisa I meet someone for the first time and we talked for about 5 hrs and I think we hit it off to meet a second time... just have to wait and see

Mar 5 @ 9:25AM  

I would wait and see what the next move is... be it a *Sorry you are nice but not what i'm looking for* or *Had a fantastic time, lets do it again* And a date is set.

Good question lily.

kudo for you

Mar 5 @ 10:09AM  
There is no one definitive answer. Every person.... every situation is different.

Having said that...... I feel that the longer you have communicated with this person before you meet..... the further along things are likely to go when you do meet. Just try to see things for what they are....... and not what you want them to be.

Mar 5 @ 10:21AM  
A question you don't usually think about until after you have had that first meeting. I would say it all depends on how you get along with each other and if you have some common interests you would like to explore further.

A few hours of getting to know someone is so short. A lot is said and very little is said in that time.

I would say that a 2nd meeting, date, whatever you want to call it has to be a mutual decision. I fully believe you know right off, within the first few minutes, if it has a chance of going to a 2nd rondevous. I believe in first impressions and live by them. I, personally, will find any excuse to get away if I am not feeling comfortable with that person at anytime during our time together.

and of course a greenie for you lily...........

Mar 27 @ 10:02PM  
You can take it all the way if you only want a fuck and never see him again. Otehrwise, wait till the 3rd date and limit to touching and maybe some types of oral, but not all the way. Wait for a month for that at least, but make sure there is some physical intimacy taking place. this shows you are a woman that is serious but knows when the relationship is strong, you will fullfil all of his desires!

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Hmm where do you go??????