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posted 3/1/2008 6:42:15 PM |
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Many women may not realize this but for every 10 to 15 emails that a we send we will probably only get about 1 response. Frankly. it sucks.

There is a lot of pressure to be witty, charming, funny or ________. If you're an average looking guy, (like me), then you will probably end up sending out hundreds of emails only to get a few back.

Women have a different problem from what my lady friends tell me. Lots of emails but few that are of any interest or come from an intelligent source.

I would prefer to have it the other way...lots of emails. At least it gives you something to read and you fell like your monthly fee is worth the investment.

What do you think?

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DarkDesires99

Mar 1 @ 6:46PM  
Fee?
What fee?
ValentineGirl214

Mar 1 @ 7:04PM  
There's a fee???
trcaccount

Mar 1 @ 7:05PM  
Yea....that's another thing that sucks.

Men usually have to pay a fee to join dating sites.

Women have there pick of many sites that are free to join.

CrazyCraveman

Mar 1 @ 7:05PM  
I don't know why so many men who, come to this site, or others like it...think it's going to be so damn easy to find a woman...be it for sex, or whatever.

Hell, it's not easy out in the real world, but for some reason men think women should be falling at his feet in the cyber-world...like the cyber-world is some sort of magicial place. Sorry, but the Easter Bunny, Peter Pan, and Santa Clause also aren't real in the cyber-world either.

Funny, but I've had very few problems with women e-mailing me back on this site, or others like it...then again I'm not expecting anything...especially sex.

Now have I met, in person, any women from this site? Have I gotten any sex from any of the women on here? No, I have not...then again it's not the only thing I'm looking for. So it's not a big deal to me...

Have I on other sites, yes, a few...however, it doesn't simply happen over-night, or at the drop of a hat. As sites such as these aren't some sort of magical place where you're going to get what you want, or what you're looking for. Simply because you sign up and pay a small fee.

It's not the way it works out there in the real world, so what is it that makes so many men think it'll work in the cyber-world?
openmindedguy71

Mar 1 @ 7:08PM  
If you dont mind a response from a guy, adding a photo to your profile will generate more responses to your emails. Also get involved more in the blogs and the forums. Let the ladies get to know you. These things really do help
DarkDesires99

Mar 1 @ 7:11PM  
CrazyCraveman is right!
Nothing comes easy it takes time and effort.
You’re not paying a fee on here, you’re free like so many of us are!
trcaccount

Mar 1 @ 7:15PM  
Thanks for the advice. I actually posted 3 photos. They just haven't been approved yet.
lunanegra

Mar 1 @ 7:24PM  
I really don't think AMD is worth the fee,to be honest.I could understand if the site was just as good as Adultfriendfinder,but it isn't,so enjoy the "free-ness" which is AMD.Please don't flame me,anyone.
jcarolina

Mar 1 @ 7:29PM  
Everyone so far is right. I feel your frustration, the only people I've talked with have been through blogs, making comments.Just give it a chance, there are some great people here.
soft_touch938

Mar 1 @ 8:12PM  
I was on AFF for a long time...this site beats that one HANDS DOWN when it comes to friendly, good people.

Take the advice that was given to me....start slow, blog and comment and get to know people and let them get to know you. Best advice I've gotten in a long time.

And we await your pixs...AMD can be so slow. Welcome aboard...
trcaccount

Mar 1 @ 8:15PM  
Thanks! I had zero luck on AFF. Most of the emails I got were spammers, or webcam ladies looking for clients.

The pictures will be up soon!!
rnj1013

Mar 1 @ 8:21PM  
adding a photo to your profile will generate more responses to your emails.



I think this is why I get NO emails
trcaccount

Mar 1 @ 8:23PM  
Thanks. Read above. They're waiting approval.
hopon

Mar 1 @ 8:26PM  
I don't mind all the emails... hell... pushing the block button is easy!!!
lolthisistoofunny

Mar 1 @ 9:03PM  
Most of the emails I get are not worth the energy it takes to click on the link to open them, quite frankly.
trcaccount

Mar 1 @ 9:11PM  
Yea. That's what others have told me. It is a shame that people don't put more thought into their emails.

Pictures get attention but emails and essays are what tells me about someone's substance.
redbronze

Mar 2 @ 1:11AM  
welcome to the community.. and perhaps you will find whom your looking for.. Smile there have been many great couples made here.

One would almost be suprised as this is the Adult version of MatchDoctor or more know as MD lite.. It is also known as perveria and other crazy names..

Sit back type a bit and feel free to comment as you will.. There is always something going on from fun guessing games to full blown blog wars, Kinda like life in highschool sometimes others it is mind blowing with how much care and well wishes that can be found here.. Some have found strength and support and a will to carry on here, others succor for lost loved ones or for personal health issues.. Its wild really..

You have dropped into a great space just to be.. Smile.. Oh yeah by the by you can also be like me I sit in my corner coming out every once in a while to say hello, add a comment or two but mostly to read the diversity of writing in the blogs, it facinates me to read what is happening in other's minds and to share friendships with those few that I have befriended..

So again Welcome to Perveria and here you will find the most fun you could ever want and hey guess what.. IT"S FREE... ubless you want to look at free members nakid picts then ya gotta pay but you can look at all the nakid picts of paying members.. LOL crazy I know but hey it works so I ain't bitchin...

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