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posted 2/29/2008 7:46:41 PM |
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I absolutely love a good blow job. The problem is my wife is not that keen on it. Sometimes when she does it is mind blowing, however most of the time it is ho hum as she really has not given her all. She doesn't get it that a blow job isn't all about sucking my cock. More than anything it is a hand job with some intermittent sucking.

Anyway my confession is that some time a go before we were married, hooked up with an older woman who gave me a NSA BJ that blew my mind. The problem is I want to go back for more now.

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Feb 29 @ 8:40PM  
have you discussed the bj problem with your wife?

Feb 29 @ 9:02PM  
I assume you knew all this before you married your wife. Cheating on her certainly isn't the answer.I understand you're frustrated, and tempted, I dated a woman for two years who didn't give oral at all, but her other lovable traits more than made up for it. Sometimes we have to make sacrifices for the ones we love, and sometimes they are difficult ones. I suggest you talk to your wife about it,and be grateful for what you have together, you married her for reasons other than sex.Just my opinion. Good luck and don't do anything you'll regret.Is a few minutes of pleasure worth betraying your wife?

Feb 29 @ 9:02PM  
Different strokes for different folks...and I mean that both literally and figuratively...

what you may like may not be what every other man likes. Could be someone out there for her that thinks she just fine the way she is....the grass is not always greener, you know...

And in my personal opinion anyone who would risk losing their marriage over something as superficial as a damned blow job isn't someone I'd want to be married to in the first place.

Chances are she's not entirely happy with the way you perform, either.


Feb 29 @ 9:58PM  
It's my opinion that a woman either likes BJ's or she doesn' inbetweens. I happen to be one that enjoys them. BUT....there are guys that I have had problems with...mainly forcing it down my throat or holding my head down on it and pumping me so hard that they about break my nose. These I don't like and will not tolerate anymore.

BJ's aren't just sucking's making love to it...sensuously and erotically. A woman can't do that when it's being rammed in her mouth until she gags.

You may want to question your technique...are you too rough? Have you done anything to turn her on...get her started? Or do you just, suck on this?

Just saying....your approach might need some polishing before she does her polishing...know what I mean???

By the way...what does NSA stand for? I'm sure once you tell me I'll be thumping myself on the forehead saying....RIGHT!!!

Mar 1 @ 12:07AM  
Thanks for the comments! To sort of do a summary reply....

Yes I am gentle, and no I don't ram it down her throat (either physically or with constantly asking)

Yes I knew it was a problem before we married. Vocalized it and really when it comes down to it she is perfect in every other way. So if this is the only crappy thing I ever have to to live with ...then fine. I won't like it though.

I don't really think i will cheat on her, I am more about getting off on the idea of it. No harm in talking about it.

I have voiced my wants and she her concerns.Hopefully she hits that mid 30s horny sexual peek soon!

Oh and yes I do do oral on her, and she likes it very much.

BTW nice to see such an active community here.

NSA = No Strings Attached

Mar 1 @ 2:58AM  
I want to agree with the comment . Either a woman likes it or she doesnt. But at one point I was anti bj. But now its one of my favorite things to do. So maybe this will happen with your wife. As for the way she does it I would suggest either watching a porn with one given or (not that you arent doing this) making sure she knows by reaction that its feeling damn good.Good luck with this. I hope it improves for you .......

Mar 1 @ 5:37AM  
Welcome!....and for really great sex, foreplay starts at breakfast, and contunies all day, a caress on the neck, and soft whisper of love, rubbing her leg under the table, get her crazy with lust and enjoy the best blow job ever!

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