I have gotten some great responses on this one and I hope to hear from you telling me some of your similar experiences real soon.
Love brother Borty's response I'd start crying. ...then run away and call the cops Borty never fails to make me laugh.
And almost everybody came back with this one You Found her, Now Fuck her, then Forget her.................... Of course I did that, you know me!  What?  I don't like the way you people never believe a word I say.
Ya know there was a time when I could just TAP and run. I just got old and got these feeling things, hard to explain... forget it. I mean the water is warm, the sand is hot, the beach is secluded... never mind. 
Anyway, I grabbed her hands and asked her what was up. We talked over the phone for a total of three hours cuz she wanted to meet so badly. No Games! She proclaimed. I told her I would meet her but no sex until we talk some more.
She said she was sorry. We talked, and we talked and at the end I learned some things that made me change the way I look at her. 
1) Liar - said she was a secretary and part time Polynesian dancer.
Truth - she used to be a secretary and dances at one of the biggest strip clubs in Honolulu, wishing she were a Polynesian dancer.
*This is not a bad line of work but she lied.
2) She said she grabbed me like that because she wanted to TAP me and run, but then she liked our conversation and really started thinking deeper.
Truth - she lied again, our first conversation she proclaimed to be a woman to respect and no sex until she gets a collar and all this other good stuff.
*This is not a bad thing either except this is what I'm trying to avoid, read my profile - LTR sought and all that good stuff.
So how do I see her now? What happened after that?
We said goodbye. I laid it out for her and she apologised again. She wants to be friends with benefits, just to play sometimes. I said maybe but I doubt it.
Now mind you I have been trying to be a good boy because I'm trying real hard to change my ways. I want my next love to be something I've never had before... REAL. Not just based on the sex. I have skills, I have NO doubts in my mind that I can curl the toes and rock the world of each and any woman I sex. I've Just never had the other part. You know what I mean, the part that says have each others back and cherish and honor each other until death. The part where you have such a sense of security knowing that no matter what comes down the pipe, your woman or man is right there at your side always. Never had that, not even my ex-wife. Was always just sex. Hell, I became the other man to my ex-wife after our divorce for two solid years until I called it off. The sex between us was always off the chain hot. Her fiancee was so stupid too. The day he proposed to her she got on the phone to me and I was knocking that ass out that very night.
So now I see Yuko as just a piece of ass that I can have if I ever break down, and that is all. She makes little lies, leaves little things out and I can't trust that. Besides, she is a 420 to boot and I don't want that anymore. So now as I'm sure most of you are shaking your heads saying "Bull Puckies!" I tell ya the truth. I walked!  Or did I?
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