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  alybai42

It keeps throwing bad things at me to see how far I can be pushed..

I have been having problems with my daughter...She is a teenager now..I was in church last Sunday morning and cried...My best friend was right next to me and held me..I told her how worried I was about my daughter..I can't do it alone..Be mom and dad both..I felt like I was losing the battle...

My best friend is like a angle to me..She has let me use her car to make sure I get to work and back. She has taken my daughter under her wing and talked with her since she would not open up to me...My daughter was at her house last night while I was at work..My friend had a long talk with my daughter about life..She told her that I was worried I was about her...She has gone down the wrong path just to be liked at school...Where did my little girl go? The one that never gave me any problems? I tried to guide her the right way...I keep thinking "Where did I go wrong"..Someone please tell me? I need to fix it..My heart is breaking for the little girl who is growing up so fast...

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whisperingcomet

Feb 29 @ 1:28PM  
So Sorry, but many of us have gone through this, nothing can help....just hang in there, soon she will mature and thing will get better.
ladybootscooter

Feb 29 @ 1:29PM  
Tammy I know it seems like it's more than you can bear sometimes. But hang in there, I know, I've been there and am somedays still there. She will come through and you'll find your little girl is still there with you! Just have faith!
Lisa46

Feb 29 @ 1:56PM  
Tammy remember when we were her age?? I hate to tell you this but its gonna get worse before it gets better. I am amazed mom didn't kill me! I finally "grew up" when I was around 19 or 20. Talk to you this weekend
Ewe_Wish

Feb 29 @ 3:15PM  
Tammy...........she will grow out of it..............most of us do...........
gwenafar

Feb 29 @ 4:07PM  
Even the most loving, nurturing mom has to watch helplessly as her child makes bad decisions throughout their lives. Parents are there to guide, inspire, love and nurture.....but even when we do our child will still make mistakes. We just have to offer our unconditional love, and hope our guidance will keep them from screwing up their lives.
bandengor

Feb 29 @ 4:44PM  
You are so right, Life is hard, but those experiences are what make us who we are. We need to learn from them and become stronger. I know how hard it can be to talk to your parents as I always had trouble talking to mine. You friend is a good one, hang on to her. And as for your daughter, don't give up on her.
Supakid2

Feb 29 @ 6:02PM  
This shows how much love and care you have for her. All good parents worry themselves to death about their kids. Count me in.
max49

Feb 29 @ 6:12PM  
Aww Tammy I'm so sorry to hear that you are having trouble with your daughter. I think we have all gone through this very thing and just when we think we can't take anymore they change back to the wonderful little person we once knew. I think as teenagers they all go through a period of insanity. Of course my youngest is 23 and he is still crazy LOL. Hang in there sweetie. It will get better.
whisperingcomet

Feb 29 @ 7:58PM  
Just thatnk God she's not a boy...
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Feb 29 @ 8:34PM  
Enjoy the time you have with her. I haven't heard from my daughter for almost two weeks.
sundance64

Feb 29 @ 8:44PM  
I spent pretty much 4 years screaming at my son...but in between the screaming and arguing I made sure I told him I loved him...
Then suddenly he turned into a real person again! Oh he still reverts to that self-centered brat every once in awhile, but those moments are slowly getting fewer and farther between.
It is hard being both mom and dad to a kid...but not impossible. I always did the best I could with what I had at any given time...that's all we can do.
sumdaysoon

Feb 29 @ 9:21PM  
its happens to all of them at some time..........just be patient and let her know you love her.........
SxzeNewMe

Feb 29 @ 9:27PM  
I can totally relate; kind of going through the same thing over here. All I can tell you is lots of mothers of little girls have survived them growing up....so shall we. Somehow! I'm sure you'll be fine - seems to me you're a good mom. :)

Best wishes!

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