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posted 2/20/2008 7:46:51 PM |

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So I've benn hurt so many times by so many women that I'm scared to love again. This is a great big problem for me cause I'm in dire need of a girl. I feel all alone and would kill for someone to share life with. But at the same time I am so scared that yet again I will be hurt, cheated on, lied to, or just blown off. I'm a very sexual person and it's been so long since I've been touched. I just wish I could meet some real true honest people that will treat me right. I don't know were I'm going with this besides I'm lonely, scared, and depressed lol, Someone real please can you help me?

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featherone

Feb 20 @ 7:52PM

maybe your looking in the wrong places :)

Zaftik

Feb 20 @ 10:05PM

I will preface this by saying that you may not want to hear this but.............

Goodness where to start.......if you are really scared then it comes through to others and they may be hesitant to start a relationship of any kind because of it.

I have found that the happier I am with myself the more likely I am to attract a good relationship be it romantic or platonic.

As to being hurt, cheated on, lied to , and blown off ......well Hon, join the rest of us.
I would be willing to bet that most folks here and everywhere else have been hurt, cheated on, etc.
Sometimes we are so afraid of someone doing something to us that we can unintentionally cause that thing to happen.

I know it sounds Pollyannaish but I really believe that you have to believe that good things will happen in order to have them happen.

Just my 2cents worth.

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