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posted 2/9/2008 12:13:18 AM |
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It seems as though once again, I have been stumped by the oposite sex.
Most ladies I have encountered, who where single, and looking to be in a relationship, have always told me, they wish they could find a nice guy. But do they really? Are they really looking for "Prince charming?" If there really is such a man in this day and age, would he be good enough? or would he be "too good?" I dont believe that woman are looking for a guy that is a "nice guy," because the nice guy always seems to be the one type of guy who really gets the emotional shit beat out of him in a relationship. I have actually heard woman say, "he was too nice" or "he would always let me shit all over him." Huhhhh? What? Wait! What the hell does that mean? If you are looking for a "nice guy," and get one, why the hell would you abuse that, and shit on him in the first place? If you shit on him, and he told you to go outside, and play a game of hide and go fuck yourself, I guess that would make him not such a nice guy, for standing up for himself. See ladies, men dont have that mentality. If a man was asked what it was he was looking for in a woman, or a relationship, for the most part, he would answer it honestly. Here it is from a man.
What is it I'm looking for in a relationship? I dont really know, but I do know what I'm NOT looking for. I'm not looking for a woman thats looking for a nice guy.

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beefygoblin

Feb 9 @ 12:27AM  
Often what they mean is, he wasn't sexualy aggressive enough.

Its not realy about being a prince. They just arn't as frank as some men are when it comes to sex...well atleast not after they turn 19.

Ewe_Wish

Feb 9 @ 1:00AM  
Its not realy about being a prince. They just arn't as frank as some men are when it comes to sex...well atleast not after they turn 19.
When you get older BG, you will realize just how wrong you are with that comment.........


Women want nice guys..........they just dont want a pussy.........JMHO
aslag

Feb 9 @ 1:39AM  
As Teddy Roosevelt said, "Speak softly and carry a large stick."
dmbradley1978854

Feb 9 @ 2:12AM  
She wants a nice guy that has a backbone. He doesn't sway and go for everything she tells him he should do. He is psychologically grounded and stays grounded. He's not possessive or envious of other people. He realizes and understands that he has the ability to choose and the ability to be happy without her without being an asshole about it.
beefygoblin

Feb 9 @ 3:12AM  
But she will settle for a douche bag who treats her like shit...

Female physchology is far more complicated than we men tend to think.

If you don't believe me, then look at some of the couples you know. The ones where the guy is a total douche or the girl is a complete bitch. The other partner is always so submissive...

Looking4ever

Feb 9 @ 3:39AM  
She wants a nice guy that has a backbone. He doesn't sway and go for everything she tells him he should do. He is psychologically grounded and stays grounded. He's not possessive or envious of other people. He realizes and understands that he has the ability to choose and the ability to be happy without her without being an asshole about it.

Yup. He so gets it.
canuhelpme258

Feb 9 @ 6:10AM  
I'm often puzzled by this too...

I think they define nice guy/bad boy differently then men.
gwenafar

Feb 9 @ 9:08AM  
I'm with Dayna and DM on this one....we do want a nice guy, just not a spineless one. A self-respecting, honest, confident, intelligent gentleman who has a mind of his own, but treats his woman with love and respect....
NachoBaby

Feb 9 @ 10:17AM  
Ok.. please.. we don't want a 'nice guy' who is gonna let us run all over him... we save those for friends. We want a bit of a challenge.. someone who is man enough to say.. no way bitch .. when it needs saying. We need someone who will stimulate our predator instincts as well as our nurturing instinct. We want a man who can make decisions as well as one who asks for our input on most of them.

It's a catch 22 situation man.. women are evil.. face it, embrace it, get over it.
soft_touch938

Feb 9 @ 10:24AM  
I'll admit I've always been attracted to "bad boys"...and I've paid for it all my life. Nice guys are boring but bad boys break your heart so I just wised up and go drink beer and raise hell and come home alone. Works for me!
hissweetgothgirl

Feb 9 @ 10:30AM  
I have recently encountered " nice guy " that yeah I gave them a shot and well turning out to be a flake. I am not saying all nice guys are flakes but this is the third one that has shown me this fact about themselves. I am sure there is one out there that isnt a flake or an ass, but its going to take alot of sorting to find him. BG mentioned the sexual aggressive. Its good to be nice and have that going for you. Now back to my search..... Have a good one
justajerseyguy

Feb 9 @ 10:53AM  
You can be a nice guy but still show strength being nice do's not equal being a push over and putting your own needs aside, a perception of weakness is taken advantage of and that go's for any type of realionship not only between males and female but also on a professional level or just a friendship
straightup_9

Feb 9 @ 1:07PM  
Yep...big difference between nice guy and wuss.....Just as DM outlined....They want a man...not an emotional slave...
xdcfx

Feb 9 @ 1:10PM  
BINGO!!! Guys, Nacho is a catch and keeper he seems like the most honest woman here so far! thanks nacho. I new you would pull through for me on this blog. lol

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