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posted 2/5/2008 8:10:59 PM |
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  bikeboy578

i have never done this, nor did i think i ever would, i have been reading for a while and i cant understand what all the crap is about. why is it that people get all pissed off by what others write, after all we are all grown ups here. i have seen more drama in the blogs than in my failed marriage and i just cant understand where all this comes from. i thought this was supposed to be fun and exciting but it is better than a soap on tv. hey i have a idea, why dont we make a soap out of it and we can all get rich.
what is it in us that makes us want to cut others to bits, say mean and hurtful things and then have to come on here and say we are sorry. what ever happened to treat others like we want to be treated. can anyone explain all this?

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ladybootscooter

Feb 5 @ 8:15PM  
No offense intended, but why do some who have no concern in the matter whatsoever perpetuate the drama by writing blogs about it???? Just curious.
Wordsofwit

Feb 5 @ 8:18PM  
Instead of asking why, perhaps it is best to simply accept that it is, what is. There are flies at every barbecue.

Also, if you want comments, change your settings to automatically approved. You will get many more as many will not respond otherwise, plus your blog may die on the vine until you approve them
beefygoblin

Feb 5 @ 8:24PM  
My guess is that it all started with someone blowing off steam caused by an uninternet related matter. People do that... I guess its better than letting it off on a loved one or puppy.

From there it all went apeshit... or so I gather from all reports.

I may not be the most loved person here, admittingly I'm probably one of the least responded to males here... but this fact has givin me an outsiders perspective.

Now if only everyone else could step back and see themselves.


I'll wait. I've got nothing but time- untill my foot heals.

Landed wrong doing a butterfly kick and then managed to get an ingrown toe... nothing but time.

onehornytoad69

Feb 5 @ 8:26PM  
I'm with LBS....!!
Do U know what happens when U stir Shit?
You got it!............
It Brings More Flies!!!
My 2 Cents!
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 8:28PM  
Hello, my friend, I will probably be told and told quickly too, that I dont have a dog in this race either, but the long and short...now work with me here....it gets complicated, and I may have missed alot. but here's my version
BA had a phony pofile names buster or smuster....something like that (no, i dont remember why)
BA posted some blogs as his alter profile
Muster got kicked out of amd, (No, i didnt know you could get kicked out either)
muster, buster...thinks ew is responsible,(i dont know, if she is or not)then, everybody took a side, and a hard side, well except for soft touch...she will take on the best of them, and never bat an eye...she is the one person on here that is truely not to be fucked with,,,,anyone else,,,take em on if you want,,,they will play, and there are many more sidelines to this...but readers digest version
bikeboy578

Feb 5 @ 8:36PM  
well in answere to the 1st question, i enjoy reading most of the blogs, but while i dont directly have any input on the matter it makes me wonder about a lot of things. if all the flies werent around it would leave room for the good stuff. i expected to be beat up a little for wondering why we cant all get along so go ahead and smack away. it seems to make some feel better at least i am good for something.
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 8:38PM  
You have just as much right to blog what you want to blog as anyone else........
Ashinatrix

Feb 5 @ 8:39PM  
christ
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 8:39PM  
OMFG........... @ ASH
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 8:41PM  
at Ash emoticons...
sorry I left out a loooongg story line about Ash/Ass in this story.....just start from here,,,
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 8:43PM  
at Ewe and me for making the same comment
ladybootscooter

Feb 5 @ 8:46PM  
I really don't give a flying rodents posterior region what anyone blogs on here. My only point was this.........the more people write blogs about the shitstorm, the more the shitstorm remains. It multiplies faster than rabbits. Goes on and on without end. So all those that bitch about it going on by writing blogs about it going on, then someone bitches about the blogs about it going on, so they blog about it going on, then someone bitches about those blogs about it going on and they write a blog about it going on, then someone bitches about those blogs about it going on, so they write a blog about it going on, ...........get it???? So until everyone just drops it, no scolding, no bitching, no beating the damn horse anymore cos the poor bastard is dead......it will continue. Just my .02
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 8:53PM  
So what your saying stormy is............




ladybootscooter

Feb 5 @ 8:55PM  
Well it would be if folks would let it rest in peace.
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 8:56PM  
Ok Boots, I'll take that challenge,,you and me....not another word from either of us...anyone one else that want to join...post your name, and let it end HERE AND NOW
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 8:57PM  
sugarnspice005

Feb 5 @ 9:01PM  
Well it would be if folks would let it rest in peace.

Yep...I agree.


Ok Boots, I'll take that challenge,,you and me....not another word from either of us...anyone one else that want to join...post your name, and let it end HERE AND NOW

Where do I sign?
Ashinatrix

Feb 5 @ 9:02PM  
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 9:05PM  
Thanks for signing on Sugar....who's next?
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 9:14PM  
What you mean I hadnt signed up.............I'M IN.................
whisperingcomet

Feb 5 @ 9:18PM  
Good Ewe,,,,now who's next...sign up....put your name here and let it end, HERE AND NOW
DesertSmile

Feb 5 @ 9:31PM  
Comet......let's grab some wine...a brush and have a paint party that way we can whitewash and give AMD a fresh coat.

ladybootscooter

Feb 5 @ 9:34PM  
Comet......let's grab some wine...a brush and have a paint party that way we can whitewash and give AMD a fresh coat.
Oh hell no DS!!! No offense WC, but you have a tendency to paint things mustard yellow!! Do you know what all the dick pics would look like......????
Ashinatrix

Feb 5 @ 9:35PM  
Count me in
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 9:39PM  
ASH...............

sugarnspice005

Feb 5 @ 9:40PM  
Religion? I'm here for the paint party Ok...where's my brush?
Ewe_Wish

Feb 5 @ 9:50PM  
Ok...where's my brush?

Oh hell Sugar i thought you said bush.........i was going to tell you if you dont know where its at..................there is no way we can tell you where it is........
sugarnspice005

Feb 5 @ 9:53PM  
Oh hell Sugar i thought you said bush.........i was going to tell you if you dont know where its at..................there is no way we can tell you where it is........


shellsmack

Feb 5 @ 11:52PM  
Exactly BIKE.
borty293

Feb 6 @ 12:04AM  
I wanna start it up again....
soft_touch938

Feb 6 @ 12:43AM  
[/QUOTE]well except for soft touch...she will take on the best of them, and never bat an eye...she is the one person on here that is truely not to be fucked with,,,,

I could say a lot about people being named openly in a blog...that seems to be a lot of what the war was about in the first place...not to mention things being posted that were said in private e-mail...but I won't. Apparently AMD's rules were meant to be broken. If AMD had some MODS with a backbone this all would have been nipped in the bud a long time ago, now it's blown out of proportion and apparently beyond their control.

I adher to my own standards and I believe AMD rules are in place for a purpose and on that I apparently stand alone.

I can disagree with someone's conduct but still agree on their basic opinion or belief. I chose to stand alone on this also....without adding to the flames and without much ado.

I don't seek trouble nor do I intentionally make it. If I'm "not to be fucked with" means I am my own person and don't follow the crowd then so be it. I stopped blogging anything that resembles my own opinions or thoughts...not because I was chased out by bullying...but because I choose not to deliberately expose myself to a bunch of adolesents misbehaving without conscience or the decency to respect others opinions. As the saying goes...."Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience."

I would appreciate being left out of these silly games. I have nothing to say in private that I would not say publically. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I will post comments on my own standards and that's just the way it is.
Ewe_Wish

Feb 6 @ 12:57AM  
I have to say Soft_Touch, I respect you a hellava lot more than I do a lot of people on this site..........you say what you need to say without stabbing someone in the back or slapping them on the wrist, and you stand by your words. I salute you. Perhaps if everyone modelled their blogging after you, myself included, this place would be a nicer place to be. Unfortunately i will continue writing blogs and using peoples names in them..........thats what I do..........and so far no one has complained and I only do it with friends or people i have asked permission from prior to doing it..........and its all in fun. Again,, I salute you.
casuallylooking

Feb 6 @ 1:00AM  
Casually walks in with a really big shovel, to bury a really big dead horse.

Borty!!! That's not even funny.... Does Ash know you are still out of the closet?

Hand me a pen........or just prick my finger and I'll sign it in blood, just as long as it's over.....oh yea, I'll take a paintbrush too. Got any purple paint?

Do you know what all the dick pics would look like......????
Umm, yellow with purple stripes?
asnet

Feb 6 @ 1:00AM  
[B]I choose not to deliberately expose myself to a bunch of adolesents misbehaving without conscience or the decency to respect others opinions. As the saying goes...."Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience."

Yup.[/B]
soft_touch938

Feb 6 @ 1:25AM  
Thanks Ewe....there's certainly nothing wrong with mentioning people's names in a friendly blog, in jesting or to comfort or console.

I felt pulled into something that I want no part of and in a way that could have caused me misery. "Not to be fucked with"...what's that suppose to mean?? I'm not a mean or vindictive person...just a straight shooter.

I stick my neck out here but so be it...I'm older than most of you here. I think any of you might consider yourself smarter now than you was 10 or 20 years ago. I have that much on most of you...I've been there/done that. I've been your age, you haven't been mine.

Does that make me wiser? NO! But I do have more experience just in the guantity of years. I've learned to pick my fights. I've learned to let it roll off my back. I've learned about common courtesey and respecting others opinions. I've learned that words do hurt. I've learned just because I'm hidden behind my keyboard doesn't give me the the right to hurt someone's heart because no matter how bad we act, each one of us is vulnerable to being hurt. I have survived black eyes and a broken nose and verbal abuse. The physical pain heals but the verbal abuse lingers.

And I've learned to be my own person, setting my own standards and that means behaving in a decent manner. I can certainly be abrasive when need be but that is rare and only when nothing else works to get my point across.

This all needs to stop but it takes everyone ignoring blogs meant to prolong it. So I have said my last and move on.
aspiringwriter

Feb 6 @ 3:00AM  
it is better than a soap on tv
I dunno, I prefer drama that's been scripted, though the occasional improved drama can be good. I wasn't here for the beginning of it (and I doubt drama ever truly ends) so I can't tell you what its about or nothin'. I have my own theories on why drama is so prevelant on the net in general, but I'm not going to get into it until I put my thoughts more in order.

I do want to say for now:
Why don't we all go and blog about things that aren't drama? I'm not saying bury the dead horse, or any hatchets, or especially any AMD members. I'm saying how bout all of the poeple that don't want drama write about other things. Instead of saying that we want the drama to be less prevelant, we should put up blogs that have nothing to do with it. Those of us who want the fun back need to be the ones that bring it. (the AMD butt game is a great example of this. Neither the butt/breast games seem like much fun to me, but they have been to others so Ewe gets a big from me) If we shove the blog reader's heads with enough other stuff, it will mean less space for drama. I'm working on a few blogs myself that are in no way related to this. I would have them up all ready, but right now they're still percolating in my noggin'. I'll get them up as soon as I really decide what I want to say...

I'm sorry bikeboy if it seems like I'm complaining about your blog, I'm not. I'm just using your blog for my soapbox because it happened to be here, and I didn't want to make a hypocrite of myself or adding another blog about this. Also, this is something I've been meaning to say for a while. You certainly have a right to say whatever you want, and should exercise that right.
Anyway, I'm off my soapbox now, and handing your blog back to you. Even gonna give you a green thingie so that there will be no hard feelings. 'Kay?

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