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I found this article online.According to it more and more Americans are opting to spend time online , rather than spending time face to face with friends, or having sex etc. forgoing face to face contact with people and choosing to socalize, surf the web, and play online.Spending time online is entertaing( a way to pass time ) but it is not a substitute for actual physical contact.The key is finding a healthy balance that works for you.Everyone is different, and so are their needs.If we isolate ourselves from the real ( physical world ) , we lose touch with the outside world and reality.Everyone needs real physical ( actual human contact ) with others.Otherwise we would begin to lose our communication skills.Communicating behind a computer is definately not the same as being in the same place with someone talking face to face spending time together doing things, like going out to a movie , concert to out or just spending time together at home.Because if you are alone , online it tends to make you feel isolated , alone because there is no physical contact.I think the invention of the computer , the world wide web, the internet etc. was wonderful, useful, helpful, etc.But it is not a replacement for actual physical contact.We each need actual physical companionship to spend physical time with family, friends , a mate, sex partner etc.Otherwise eventually you feel lonely , isolated, depressed etc.No person is an island.We were never meant to be alone for long periods of time.In addition spending too much time being inactive can lead to a sedentary lifestyle which can lead to over eating in some cases out of boredom , or foor comfort ( eating can provide comfort it gives you a warm feeling whem you are full, ( emotional eating ) trying to fil an emptinesss a void, etc.), to replicate the feeling of love.This can lead to health problems due to inactivity such as Diabetes , Highh Blood Pressure, Heart Disease, depression, ( it can also have a huge affect on self esteem) all conditions which can lead to other health conditions like heart attack, stroke, etc.I think it may be part of the reason the health conditions i menditioned are becoming more prevalent in society with each passing year, and also why they are spreading so quickly and so early in children and teens, because they are getting access to the new technology at younger and younger ages, thus making them more prone to a sedentary lifestyle and the health problems that go with it.It also may have and eventually wil impact their social networking and communication skills, in future generations to come much more heavily.Anything can become addictive, and the internet is no exception, it can consume more of our time than we realize , and take away time we need or can use for other things , like social networking face to face, excercising, being active, spendin gtime with those near and dear , and friends gace to face, traveling, just getting out and meeting new people, seeing new places.The cyberworld and the real world are polar opposites, just think, chatting , emailing, cybering, talking via phone, texting etc. lack the warmth of actual face to face physical encounters, seeing a persons face in person, hearing the laughter and voice, holding their hand or touching them, sitting or walking side by side, smelling their cologne or perfume, looking into their eyes seeing the smile hugging etc.things you cannot experince physically over lines aand cables through computer screens.I think in the end our physical , mental, Psycological, and emotional health suffers.Don't forget Carpal Tunnel Syndrome. There is a huge difference between communicating online , via phone , texting, etc. as a oppossed to being together physically in the same are face to face, after you have been alone a while and than have pysical contact with others face to face, you can fel the difference, physically, mentally , emotionally etc.I think this is why so many people feel lonely and alone, i believe when we rely on the internet as our main source of communicating with others that we may get lonlier and lonlier prhaps making things worse instead of better,think about it you feel lonel yso you log on, in an effert to find companionship or something to take your mind off the lonliness, than you spend more and more time online, trying to feel less lonely and less and less time in the real world. but you still feel lonely.) because it can be easier to communicate electronically , via phone, the internet , texting etc. you do not have to get dressed up, or even dress go through the motions or routine of looking your best, spending the time to do so.You just sit back relax, and type, talk, text etc, over the medium of your choosing,But if we do so more and more , and forego spending physical time with others face to face, it begins to take its toll on us mentally, emotionally, physically etc, and in the process we loose touch with friends, family, and the outside world, because in time we become isolated from everything.( Awhile back i read about a website that was underdevelopment , the site was being set up so that you could purchase sex toys both men and women, you could log onto the site ( i think a fee would be charged and you could insert or attach the sex toy of your choosing, and connect it n some way so that you could cyber via camera and the internet and turn over the controol of your sex toy to another of your choosing on the site so that you and the partner of your choosing could decide when ( how long an intense ) you each would climax,( talk about cybersex !!!!!! lol. ) thus eliminating actual physical contact or stiulation, in probibality someone from around the country or world could get you off, al lwithout ever touching you physically or being in the same room with you.Food for thought.Somethings to think about.Peace.Have a safe and nice day.Thanks for your time, thanks for reading this, and thanks to all who comment or anyone who gives a kudo, thank you.I appreciate it all.Only we can change our own lives and better them, if / when we choose to do so, to improve ourselves.I truly believe that if we have faith and believe in ourselves we can accomplish almost anything we set our minds too.Take care.







Source: http://www.theinternetpatrol.com/have-sex-or-search-the-net-the-choice-is-clear


A new survey released in the fall of 2007 has found that an astonishing number of people would rather play online than even have sex.

The survey of 1,000 American computer users, by advertising giant JWT, revealed that 200 of them said that they had less time for sex because of the time that they spent online, while fully 25% of respondants said that they spent less time with their friends because of the Internet.

“It’s clear that there’s been a huge cumulative shift in what we do and what we pay attention to, thanks to new technologies,” observed JWT’s CEO, Bob Jeffrey.

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